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Unfolding Nature Shop: Unfolding Nature: Being in the Implicate Order

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InvisibleLoveOverAll
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Is it hard for you to be nice to people?
    #14129231 - 03/16/11 05:57 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Sometimes i just silent people in my head and sometimes im really polite and do nice things.

Anybody else have this?


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: LoveOverAll]
    #14129236 - 03/16/11 06:02 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i guess maybe everyone does that to different degrees. altho to do something and to be something may be different things entirely, or maybe not, which doesn't mean much at all, but yes sometimes most often rather than not its impossible for me to be nice to people especially at times if I dearly wish to be nice to them I just can't...


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: Biffzilla]
    #14129239 - 03/16/11 06:03 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

It all depends on who it is and how I know them :shrug:


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: LoveOverAll]
    #14129261 - 03/16/11 06:20 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Im usually nice to most people i interact with in the interest of them not sending bad vibrations my way.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: LoveOverAll]
    #14129273 - 03/16/11 06:24 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I can be a real snide, cynical dick to people who are doing something stupid near me or aggravate me. Normally, I am fine and just ignore almost everyone, even the people I chill with. I just keep my mouth shut %90 of the time.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: LoveOverAll]
    #14129329 - 03/16/11 07:04 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

theblackhole said:
Sometimes i just silent people in my head and sometimes im really polite and do nice things.

Anybody else have this?




Everyone tries to take advantage of me when I'm nice. I stopped being nice a long time ago. I only attempt to be nice to people who honestly are nice to my friend first. I've had such bad experiences with people overall I assume everyone is out to get me and hates my guts. Which is mostly true; most people do hate my guts, I even get death threats occasionally =).

At least that makes me feel better about myself. That people don't like me. They never really have, so I don't mind much. Always pickin a fight, never satisfied, always trying to fix something or invent something.

Do you consider yourself a rebel without a cause too? I think that is why I find it really hard to be nice to people for a long time. It's just people are out to get you. In todays world it is pretty much like that.

Man I used to wish less people existed so their was less competition, but now I just deal with it. I think not being nice to people is a direct result of an inferiority complex / my ego isn't happy problem. But not really. I bet you even if I had millions of dollars I still would never be fully happy. Honestly nothing in this world would ever make me happy all the time, it's so far from anything perfect how could you be?

If I was nice to people all the time I'd just be taken advantage of. Lots of greedy people out their that don't care about you and just want to use you. That is why I'm just typically not nice to anyone and trust no one. But I'm warming up a little myself, with the help of a good friend who is helping me dicier the difference between the bullshit of this world and what matters.

Money matters and doing things you want too matters. That is about it. That is the route to happiness; not being nice to people.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: iluvfungi]
    #14129337 - 03/16/11 07:07 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)



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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: LoveOverAll]
    #14129369 - 03/16/11 07:23 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

its easy for me to be nice to them. but as time goes by i become more jaded by people
in the city in live in, its starting to become really hard to be nice to anyone.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #14129379 - 03/16/11 07:27 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I'm definitely like that. If I'm not inebriated I usually won't say more then a few words to people I just meet. Takes a couple of times running into them before I warm up. I often get the reputation of being an asshole because of it. But every current friend I have has told me that they thought I hated them when they first met me. Which isn't the case I just kinda keep to myself until I can get a read on a person. :shrug:


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: iluvfungi]
    #14129486 - 03/16/11 08:14 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

iluvfungi said:
Quote:

theblackhole said:

Money matters and doing things you want too matters. That is about it. That is the route to happiness.





yeah... stuff... werp.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: akira_akuma]
    #14129518 - 03/16/11 08:24 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

to answer RP.  Yes, sometimes.  But usually only after I have known them for YEARS.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: collinZzZz]
    #14129549 - 03/16/11 08:37 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

yes. that's the same thing with just about... every part of me screams that, that's all i meant. you know it's just... something that seems to be INNATELY TRUE for you know... me.


or people, in genreal.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: akira_akuma]
    #14129614 - 03/16/11 08:56 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I really have trouble being nice to people who are complete morons.  For example, my one housemate.

This kid is actually dumb as a fucking POST, but he thinks he's really hot shit, and has brilliant ideas, when really he is completely incapable of articulating himself, and he just constantly says some of the most retarded shit I've ever heard of, and has no common sense.

He'll always make comments about how I should know something because "You're an engineer" (I'm in school for engineering), but he just doesn't even make the effort to think about it on his own, or do his own research.

God he's so dumb!  I can't wait to not live with this kid anymore.

He broke my drying rack by putting ALL of his clothes in a pile on it at once, instead of hanging a few pieces over the rungs.  I mean fuck, your clothes would get moldy before drying!  He actually didn't even think, he just did it.


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: LoveOverAll]
    #14129916 - 03/16/11 10:17 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Same here.. I am really good at completely muting out what I don't feel like hearing..  Most of the time I'm polite and nice.. Other times I can be a snappy prick, extremely critical..



It's extremely hard for me to not be a sarcastic prick to people that deserve it.. which makeup 70% of the people I encounter..  It's difficult living on a higher level...


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: smokesnugz]
    #14129950 - 03/16/11 10:26 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I'm a cynical asshole in appearance because I always have something to criticize in this world, but will always help others before myself; usually to my detriment. Maybe it's me subconsciously trying to contradict that appearance.  :blazed: :strokebeard:


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Re: Is it hard for you to be nice to people? [Re: FuzedBox]
    #14129975 - 03/16/11 10:35 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I think that we all have demeanor's, witch we change readily
for different people or different situations.

And we all have our inner natures.
Which determine our biases or judgments,
and our attitudes about serious matters.
Our nature is our constant and what defines us;
whereas our demeanor's are masks to be
cycled through and used based on our attitudes
provided by the nature.

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