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Offlinedummy
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training a sex noob?
    #14127310 - 03/15/11 09:04 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

any advice?

for example, i like to feel like when i'm fucking her shes fucking back... not just taking it all and not reciprocating. dead fish is the term... and when she tries it just feels kind of awkward. shes trying, but not doing it right. doesn't have a 'feel' for it... how would one go about developing the 'feel'?

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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy] * 1
    #14127331 - 03/15/11 09:08 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Tease the shit out of her until she's begging for it, than make her do all the work. Try to come in slowly, and join her motion. Maybe she'll learn to go with your rhythm or flow.
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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: timmyonx]
    #14127348 - 03/15/11 09:11 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

thats a good idea. i feel like i do jump into it too fast. merciless teasing could potentially bring out the desired change.


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14127371 - 03/15/11 09:14 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

not to be crude... but you could just make her lay doggy style with her chest on the bed and spread her butt cheeks apart with yer hands. make sure it's nice and wet and tease her pussy with yer dick until she's beggin for it. then put it in slow and squeeze progressively tighter on her buttcheeksuntil you've got a real handthen put one foot on the bed in a "take a knee " position and really drill...slow, but steadily deep. it's turned out a few girl's i know. leakin and shit.

just be dominant and TAKE the pussy. you gotta show her whats up. a student will only be as good as the teacher.

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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: joshisstoned]
    #14127418 - 03/15/11 09:22 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

The truth of it is that she doesn't know what your dick is feeling.  I think the "Feel" is developed when people either have an honest conversation about what feels good/great/amazing, or connect particular motions with moans.  Try out different shit, see what works best and don't be afraid to talk!

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joshisstoned said:
not to be crude... but you could just make her lay doggy style with her chest on the bed and spread her butt cheeks apart with yer hands. make sure it's nice and wet and tease her pussy with yer dick until she's beggin for it. then put it in slow and squeeze progressively tighter on her buttcheeksuntil you've got a real handthen put one foot on the bed in a "take a knee " position and really drill...slow, but steadily deep. it's turned out a few girl's i know. leakin and shit.

just be dominant and TAKE the pussy. you gotta show her whats up. a student will only be as good as the teacher.




I agree partially.  I think that approach can get her mentally revved up, but I don't think it'll give her a window in to how to best please your dick.


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: joshisstoned]
    #14127887 - 03/15/11 10:38 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

the doggy style thing won't work
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joshisstoned said:
not to be crude... but you could just make her lay doggy style with her chest on the bed and spread her butt cheeks apart with yer hands. make sure it's nice and wet and tease her pussy with yer dick until she's beggin for it. then put it in slow and squeeze progressively tighter on her buttcheeksuntil you've got a real handthen put one foot on the bed in a "take a knee " position and really drill...slow, but steadily deep. it's turned out a few girl's i know. leakin and shit.

just be dominant and TAKE the pussy. you gotta show her whats up. a student will only be as good as the teacher.



this is basically what i've been doing for the past 3 years with this lady (doing the dominating that is.) and its been fine and dandy and we both get off, but i feel like i do everything. she was a virgin when i met her so i think she thinks this is just how it goes. i do the dominating, she gets fucked, everyone cums, but now i feel like i do all the fucking work.

shes not fond of being on all fours. there are plenty of other positions other than the all too common missionary. the teasing is definitely going to increase. as well as the communication.

i want her to try to get herself off using me but its hard for her to get the hang of this, i think, because i've been doing all the work for the past 3 years...


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14128718 - 03/16/11 01:23 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Practice makes perfect.

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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: Uzziel] * 2
    #14128804 - 03/16/11 01:53 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

If you trust her enough to put your dick in her, you should trust her enough to tell her what's up...

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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: Shroomerited]
    #14130452 - 03/16/11 12:22 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

i guess it's just hard. she doesn't know wtf she's doing at all and it's been 3 years...


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14132263 - 03/16/11 05:07 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Damn, 3 years my friend? Maybe you should just cock tease her and never penetrate.
Maybe then she'll rape your ass.
Idk, I always thought sex is good no matter what if you love them. ;D


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: timmyonx]
    #14132287 - 03/16/11 05:11 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

thats simply not true. i've had great sex with women i despise. i've had terrible sex with women i've loved. so frustrating.... i'm going to try the teasing thing.


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14132670 - 03/16/11 06:20 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

the worst sex ive ever had wasn't half bad.

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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: joshisstoned]
    #14132967 - 03/16/11 07:14 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

but i know what sex can be.


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14132993 - 03/16/11 07:19 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

or uh, you could talk to her and find out what turns her on and what she likes, and make sex about the two of you--instead of "training" her...

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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: trashion]
    #14132999 - 03/16/11 07:20 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

true


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14133275 - 03/16/11 08:04 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

I trained my ex to be great in bed (I groomed her to my preferences) but it took a year or two to get her fully up to speed.

Teasing her is great, and make sure to make her work for it while constantly complimenting her on the effort. I think a lot of her "noobness" in bed might stem from insecurity or a lack of confidence, especially compared to you.

This might sound like nonsense, but my ex gained a lot of ground after I finally convinced her to start masturbating, and she still doesn't dig it, but she became a lot more in touch with her body after that and she definitely appreciates that.


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: Mind Transcribing]
    #14133407 - 03/16/11 08:24 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

good advice! she masturbates sometimes... but she has to be really damn bothered to do so. she always tells me, shes cute...

but she's you're ex now... did the sex have something to do with it?

i really don't want to have to leave her, she's a really great gal. but at the same time i'm not going to fuck my life up in this way.


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14133450 - 03/16/11 08:32 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Have you ever tried laying on the bottom? Seriously... the person on top usually controls the rhythm of penetration and whatnot. But if you just lie down and 'just let her sit on it' you will force her to find a rhythm to get herself off.

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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: ShroomScape]
    #14133545 - 03/16/11 08:47 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

yeah i need to tease her and make her take the reins. for the past 3 years i've been doing the work. and i took her virginity so i figure i taught her that she doesn't need to do anything at all. but now i'm getting fed up. our relationship is going through a bit of an overhaul and all of the problems are bubbling up to the surface. maybe we're sexually incompatible, whatever that means... she doesn't seem 'into' pleasuring me. more like putting up with me using her to pleasure myself... :frown:


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Re: training a sex noob? [Re: dummy]
    #14133999 - 03/16/11 10:12 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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dummy said:
good advice! she masturbates sometimes... but she has to be really damn bothered to do so. she always tells me, shes cute...

but she's you're ex now... did the sex have something to do with it?

i really don't want to have to leave her, she's a really great gal. but at the same time i'm not going to fuck my life up in this way.



We broke up because our relationship had spent its course. We became sex friends after and the sex was better then ever when she knew she had to work for it. At any rate, her style of sex is one of the biggest things I miss about her.

Anything you can do to make your girlfriend feel comfortable with herself in bed is good, she needs to know that you are seriously turned on by her efforts. Give back to her when she gives to you as well. Maybe you can try perfecting romantic sex before you move into the kinkier stuff, it might give her incentive later on to try new things if she sees how great romantic sex can be with two people in tune.


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