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OfflineXUL
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I hope I did the right thing.
    #14114984 - 03/13/11 04:40 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Well for the last 3 days I was visiting my old university and my friends who live up there. I had a great time but there was this one instance that ended up causing some drama.

A group of friends and I went out drinking and we ended up crashing at my friends house on the couch. My one friend (ill call him Bill) was supposed to call his girlfriend before the night was over. He did not.

Then the next day his girl (ill call her Dana) started texting me asking where Bill was. I told her he was sleeping on our friends couch. She was upset because she found him cheating before with another girl (ill call her Abby). She went on and on and told me about all her relationship problems.

Well it just so happens that that same night Bill called up Abby 5 times the night we went out trying to get some pussy. His current girlfriend Dana was telling me how tired and fed up she is. How she isn't allowed to hang out with certain people and how she knows Bill cheats on her.

Well she was reaching out to me and I told her that Bill called Abby that night. I dont know if I did the right thing or not. Stabbing a friend in the back? Man code? Fuck that though.... This poor girl is getting cheated on and treated like a slave. I didnt do it so I could get in her pants either. I dont even see her ever. I just wanted to save someones heart.

She was very happy that I told her. It apparently meant alot to her. I still hope they work it out but I couldn't stand by and watch a wonderful girl get used.

hmm...


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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
    #14115019 - 03/13/11 04:45 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

A reasonable decision, imho. 

Bill won't be happy, that much is certain, but you apparently don't think that that's of the foremost importance.

I probably would have done what you did.

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: Me_Roy]
    #14115021 - 03/13/11 04:45 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Edited by waves (04/21/11 11:34 PM)

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
    #14115025 - 03/13/11 04:46 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

If Bill is fucking around and not doing what he's supposed to be doing then someone's gonna be hurt and pissed off either way. If I was in your shoes I probably would have done the same thing, depends on how good of friends you are with Bill and with Dana.

I've found being honest is more than just the "right thing to do" and being a good person...It's a lot easier if you never have to come up with stories/lies to tell, just tell it like it is. That's my motto (most of the time)

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: Superide] * 4
    #14115034 - 03/13/11 04:48 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

You are just trying to get some pussy in the long run.

:awenuhuh:

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
    #14115184 - 03/13/11 05:16 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

wow that is a bullshit move.

you must be female.

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: Leanin]
    #14115205 - 03/13/11 05:20 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Leanin said:
wow that is a bullshit move.

you must be female.





Nah, just a guy.

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
    #14115214 - 03/13/11 05:21 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

It wasn't your place to tell her anything to do with something that's none of your business.

Things will run their course as is.


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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: Leanin]
    #14115222 - 03/13/11 05:22 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

unless bill is your no 1 main man i say wtf who cares watch out for your main buddies back but everybody else fuck em and then go fuck her

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
    #14115231 - 03/13/11 05:24 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Fair enuff.

The dickhead shouldn't be lying to her and fucking her about.  No-one deserves that.

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: LobsterSauce]
    #14115236 - 03/13/11 05:26 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Jimtown said:
It wasn't your place to tell her anything to do with something that's none of your business.

Things will run their course as is.




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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: LobsterSauce]
    #14115246 - 03/13/11 05:28 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Bro code: you don't follow it.

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: lil_demented]
    #14115274 - 03/13/11 05:33 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Edited by waves (04/21/11 11:30 PM)

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: lil_demented]
    #14115276 - 03/13/11 05:34 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

If she was like "Is Bill cheating on me?"
I woulda been like "You gotta ask him. That's between you guys."

Which is pretty much saying the same thing you did, but not stabbing him in the back.

I wouldnt beat yourself up about it, but that probably wasnt the best way to handle it.


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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: Leanin]
    #14115326 - 03/13/11 05:44 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Well she was reaching out to me and I told her that Bill called Abby that night. I dont know if I did the right thing or not. Stabbing a friend in the back? Man code? Fuck that though.... This poor girl is getting cheated on and treated like a slave. I didnt do it so I could get in her pants either. I dont even see her ever. I just wanted to save someones heart.





Man, It really sounds like she did a number on you, and that's assuming you aren't tying to get laid.  Which still seems like a possibility. 

He is a dick for having cheated in the past and all that but you don't tell on him for a phone call.  Reaching out to you...she played you for information to use in her own personal war with her bf (your "friend").  I'm sure if you heard from him you would get a whole different sob story.  Then you would realize that this all has nothing to do with you and that you should keep out of it, especially when all that happened was he called some girl. 


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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: lil_demented]
    #14115370 - 03/13/11 05:48 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

lil_demented said:
Bro code: you don't follow it.




:rofl:

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: DirtMcgirt]
    #14117074 - 03/13/11 11:04 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Point taken. In reality though he is a backstabbing lying asshole. I have caught him talking shit on me behind my back on many occasions. He is my drinking friend, but more of an aquaintance otherwise. His older brother is one of my best friends.

Oh well. Its over now.

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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
    #14117391 - 03/14/11 12:02 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

I'd never bring shit up about my guy friends to their woman unless I was long time friends with woman before relationship and I told my guy friend ahead of time.

I just think it's none of your fucking business so get the fuck out of it.


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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: withoutawire]
    #14117427 - 03/14/11 12:09 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

It was deff the right thing to do, because you know that "Bill" would have not told her and then it would get back around to her and she would be even more pissed. I know to you guys its "just a phone call" but it's not the act that was wrong it was the intentions.


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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: Takura001]
    #14117899 - 03/14/11 02:05 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Takura001 said:
It was deff the right thing to do, because you know that "Bill" would have not told her and then it would get back around to her and she would be even more pissed. I know to you guys its "just a phone call" but it's not the act that was wrong it was the intentions.




Exactly.  Whoever said 'it's just a phone call' why do you think he was calling her?  Let's be realistic here, he's out, not telling his girlfriend where he's sleeping, and calling a girl he's cheated on his gf with before.

That was not just a phone call, that guy wanted her pussy, there's no doubt about that.

He certainly wanted to cheat on his gf again, with the same girl.  That's pretty shitty of him.

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