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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: pwnasaurus]
#14118057 - 03/14/11 03:42 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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fuck him. If he's cheating on her, he obviously doesn't care too much. What's she gonna do, break up with him?
He'll be pissed, but, he was fucking cheating on her.
If you don't want to get caught doing something, don't fucking do it.
I got my friends backs, but, if they're being dicks like that, and their girl asks me, depending on who it is, I'll tell them.
You can't expect people to lie for you on shit like that. It's just putting you in their shit.
Either say you don't know, or just tell them straight up.
Fuckem.
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
#14118104 - 03/14/11 04:21 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm not sure which is worse: Bill cheating, or you ratting him out to try and sleep with his gf.
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
#14118169 - 03/14/11 05:29 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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she was definitely using your empathy to troll for information.
i guess if it was some sort of "confess all" session she was having on the phone with you i would have "confessed" to her that she's playing the victim role by staying in a relationship with a guy she can't trust. she can leave anytime she likes.
i guess some folks like playing the victim, gives 'em something to do
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spock
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
#14118228 - 03/14/11 06:25 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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You did not do the right thing. What you did was a bitch move. What Bill does is his business. I'm glad I don't have "friends" like you. I can't believe the positive responses you've gotten.
You did the right thing if you are trying to fuck your "friend's" woman.
Peace Spock
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: spock]
#14118246 - 03/14/11 06:47 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Bill's an asshole; fuck that guy.
To me, ratting someone at for cheating all depends on the situation; Bill wasn't your best friend, sounded like an asshole, didn't have a valid reason to cheat, and the girl didn't deserve to get cheated on.
If, on the other hand, Bill was only cheating because he had experienced years without sex because his girlfriend had a sexual dysfunction and wouldn't get help for it, then you'd be an asshole for ratting him out.
If the girl was a fucking bitch who deserved to get cheated on anyway, then you'd be kind of an asshole for ratting him out but it wouldn't really matter anyway if both Bill and the girl were assholes in the first place.
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: BlueJayWay]
#14118255 - 03/14/11 06:49 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Bros > hoes
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meatcakeman
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
#14118271 - 03/14/11 07:04 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i wouldn't have done anything. she's a dumb bitch for trusting him, and he's a dick for cheating on her. karma woulda slapped them both in the face, and they would move on from it. so, there was really no need to be a catalyst just for some "good guy"/hero cred. but whatever makes you sleep better at night i guess.
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spock
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: BlueJayWay]
#14118275 - 03/14/11 07:05 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Bluejay said: Bill's an asshole; fuck that guy.
To me, ratting someone at for cheating all depends on the situation
Too much thinking. People should mind their own business.
Peace Spock
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: spock]
#14118308 - 03/14/11 07:38 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i wouldn't have done anything. she's a dumb bitch for trusting him, and he's a dick for cheating on her. karma woulda slapped them both in the face, and they would move on from it. so, there was really no need to be a catalyst just for some "good guy"/hero cred. but whatever makes you sleep better at night i guess.
Eh, for me there's a very clear distinction between dumb and dumb bitch. A dumb bitch deserves to be cheated on in most cases. Someone who's simply dumb doesn't deserve to be cheated on in most cases.
Just cause someone trusts someone when they shouldn't doesn't necessarily mean they deserve to have bad things happen to them
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: pwnasaurus]
#14118346 - 03/14/11 07:58 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said:
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Takura001 said: It was deff the right thing to do, because you know that "Bill" would have not told her and then it would get back around to her and she would be even more pissed. I know to you guys its "just a phone call" but it's not the act that was wrong it was the intentions.
Exactly. Whoever said 'it's just a phone call' why do you think he was calling her? Let's be realistic here, he's out, not telling his girlfriend where he's sleeping, and calling a girl he's cheated on his gf with before.
That was not just a phone call, that guy wanted her pussy, there's no doubt about that.
He certainly wanted to cheat on his gf again, with the same girl. That's pretty shitty of him.
Well it's none of OP's business to get involved. His girlfriend already knew what was going on, there was no need to betray a friend so he could feel noble about informing her. You don't know the circumstances or history they have from both sides. It doesn't matter what they are because it wasn't your business in the first place. She already knew and telling her didn't do anything but put you right in the middle of it.
Then again, your friend sounds like a douche and I might tell her just for the lolz. I know my best friend might do that and would expect me to find it hilarious. It's not like he was married or even emotionally invested in the relationship anyways or he wouldn't be cheating.
I guess I say it was none of your business op, but who the hell cares because obviously it wasn't going to work between those two anyways.
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meatcakeman
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: BlueJayWay]
#14119597 - 03/14/11 02:06 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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BlueJayWay said:
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i wouldn't have done anything. she's a dumb bitch for trusting him, and he's a dick for cheating on her. karma woulda slapped them both in the face, and they would move on from it. so, there was really no need to be a catalyst just for some "good guy"/hero cred. but whatever makes you sleep better at night i guess.
Eh, for me there's a very clear distinction between dumb and dumb bitch. A dumb bitch deserves to be cheated on in most cases. Someone who's simply dumb doesn't deserve to be cheated on in most cases.
Just cause someone trusts someone when they shouldn't doesn't necessarily mean they deserve to have bad things happen to them 
still, none of that gives anyone the right to break more trust. if it's not life or death, don't get involved. people learn fairly well by learning from their own mistakes. allow them to figure it all out themselves. that would pose as their greatest lesson.
btw, no "friend" i know would ever do that to me, even if i was the biggest dick on earth. it's not "bro code" or brotherhood/fraternity bullshit. it's deeper than that. imo, it's a code of respect and a code of honor. tattle tailing is for 5 year olds.
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: spock]
#14119699 - 03/14/11 02:30 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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spock said: You did not do the right thing. What you did was a bitch move. What Bill does is his business. I'm glad I don't have "friends" like you. I can't believe the positive responses you've gotten.
You did the right thing if you are trying to fuck your "friend's" woman.
Peace Spock
Shut up. Bitch. And no I am not trying to fuck her. She is a teeny bopper and I dont prefer black women. And didnt you read what I typed? He is not so much my "friend". He borrowed my 250 watt amp and never gave it back and he talks alot of shit on me. Oh yea and... Fuck you. HAHA!
I talked to Bill this morning and he didnt seem to give a shit. He told me just lay off next time. I said ok. He said lets have a drink soon.
I feel pretty good about it. I think they will kiss and makeup.
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: XUL]
#14119702 - 03/14/11 02:31 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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haha well if bill doesn't give a shit then whatever
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biff
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: meatcakeman]
#14119730 - 03/14/11 02:38 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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On the one hand I don't like breaking the bro code.
On the other hand, what if this guy catches AIDS from some skank and hands it off to his girlfriend. It's not uncommon to find out you've been cheated on by getting an STD. It can be a life and death situation.
Bottom line if you cheating on someone is fucked up and I don't respect anyone that cheats for any reason. End the relationship then fuck anybody you want.
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: biff]
#14119920 - 03/14/11 03:23 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well now Bill can happily DS Abby's SB without worrying about Dana.
Dana can find a guy (i.e. you) who truly appreciates her (maybe) and will DSHSB (definitely).
You've set everything in motion. 
In hindsight though, Bill's probably going to put you through a wall and beat you senseless.
Edited by sunset_mission (03/14/11 03:25 PM)
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gerryjarcia
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sunset_mission said: Well now Bill can happily DS Abby's SB without worrying about Dana.
Dana can find a guy (i.e. you) who truly appreciates her (maybe) and will DSHSB (definitely).
You've set everything in motion. 
In hindsight though, Bill's probably going to put you through a wall and beat you senseless. 
sounds like the Shroomerys version of a soap opera
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lil_demented
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: gerryjarcia]
#14120101 - 03/14/11 04:02 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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gerryjarcia said:
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sunset_mission said: Well now Bill can happily DS Abby's SB without worrying about Dana.
Dana can find a guy (i.e. you) who truly appreciates her (maybe) and will DSHSB (definitely).
You've set everything in motion. 
In hindsight though, Bill's probably going to put you through a wall and beat you senseless. 
sounds like the Shroomerys version of a soap opera 
lol, "These are the posts of our lies..." 
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: lil_demented]
#14120115 - 03/14/11 04:05 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I hope his friend kicks his ass
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sunset_mission
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Re: I hope I did the right thing. [Re: lil_demented]
#14120196 - 03/14/11 04:24 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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lil_demented said:
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gerryjarcia said:
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sunset_mission said: Well now Bill can happily DS Abby's SB without worrying about Dana.
Dana can find a guy (i.e. you) who truly appreciates her (maybe) and will DSHSB (definitely).
You've set everything in motion. 
In hindsight though, Bill's probably going to put you through a wall and beat you senseless. 
sounds like the Shroomerys version of a soap opera 
lol, "These are the posts of our lies..."  
Graemlins of our Lives...
"gonna go get some moar weed guyz"
"k w/e"
"!!!???"
"POR QUE MARIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, POR QUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!???"
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the end
Edited by sunset_mission (03/14/11 04:25 PM)
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lil_demented
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excellent story bro!
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