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OfflineMello KittyS
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any Poly-couples?
    #14113567 - 03/13/11 10:38 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Polyamory, Polygyny, Polygamy, Polyandry, Poly-anything? Poly wana Cracker?
have you found your Unicorn? have you found your other? or others?
has it worked? did it fail? im not interested in orgies, 3somes, or one-time experiences dont count
im talking about True Poly "Multiple" Amory "Love"



this was just going to go in my journal for today becus i knew it wuld come out long, and maybe wrong..
but My Reasons for making it into a thread is im just curious if there has been any successful Love-Triangles
how do u go about pursuing this person? or did they find you? i call it "a Unicorn" becus it is almost as if i am chasing a fantasy. i started to think it impossible,
until i met back up with an old friend. who has been and is still in one of these types of relatinships and its working!! and she found them!! MFF, like i have been searching for. ok so this gave me some hope.

i just dont have any clue on how to go about it. the BF and i have been close to having a Tri-relationship 2 times before in the past. but right before the "final commitment" we decided those girls were just not right for us.
at the present time i have met 2 girls. & their has been chemistry between us, and we both know it/ feel it.
the one girl has some 'issues' our relationship might not be capable of handling at this time
and the other, whom i really like. im trying not to, but i am falling for her.
i received some info last nite that she may be married to a guy. this crushed my heart and hope. for this is not the "impression" she has left on "me", or in me. i dont know what to do...

a little history about myself.
i always considered myself a Bisexual woman up until a few years ago i learned about Pansexuality & Polysexuality.
now i dont know how to label myself. im in a very stable, and somewhat open relationship with a boy. we know truly in our hearts we are soulmates. and we let each other "play" as long as we have each others consent.
we have been together a long time. he is my high school sweetheart and i knew him 8 yrs before that.

we both agree on the concept of Polyamory.
we love each other, we dont plan for kids at the moment. we dont quite feel complete.
think about how much more stable a Tripod is, than something with only 1 or 2 legs.
if your in a couple, and you love each other. think about the love that you feel for each other
imagine being able to share that and have it reciprocated back 10-fold

“Allāh الله سبحانه وتعالى chooses who we love. الله Puts it in our Soul. Love is in the Soul. All our Souls are a part of a type of “Constellation”.
One star cannot count as a Constellation. Each of us have multiple Soul-Mates to make up this “Constellation”.
Some people Die alone. It can take up to a lifetime to find even just one of your Soul-Mates within your “Constellation”,
let alone three or four. the world is vast, we are far apart."
~Sufi Quote

if you are not religious read between the lines, the part i feel the most is when it talks about Love being in the Soul,
the soul being like a star. Lovers like stars in constellations, there are more then just one or two..

maybe i dont feel complete because i lack family support, and have grown apart from a lot of my friends. i lack companionship
i never had a sister growing up. i think having something like a "Sister-Wife" would work for me.
my BF and i have discussed this on many occasions and are in agreeance.
he thinks it would be wonderful to have another companion
and he thinks it would be wonderful for me to have a sister, a friend,a partner and last but not least, a wife.



heres some of my older/relevant posts
Pansexuality & Polysexuality
Polygamy
What are You?
You may choose only one
Have you Ever been Poly?
You may choose only one


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Offlinebbl337
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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #14113591 - 03/13/11 10:43 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i've been in my share of triangles, and wouldn't mind a 3some with two girls (they are fun and make you feel like a million bucks) but I would feel to awkward if I had two girls


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #14113598 - 03/13/11 10:45 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Ive been in a relationship where i was "with" someone but we were both allowed to be "with" other people as well. Didnt work out though.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: bbl337]
    #14113600 - 03/13/11 10:46 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I have a sharing problem when it comes to relationships. Can't even think of having a threesome.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: Takura001]
    #14113609 - 03/13/11 10:48 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I think that was part of my issue too. I support people who are poly and on paper it looks great but when it comes down to it I can be very territorial and jealous.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #14113640 - 03/13/11 10:55 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I believe jealousy is in the end always a too fundamental and strong emotion. Sooner or later, one of the involved people becomes jealous or feels left out and then the porridge gets bitter for everyone. I know there's a lot of people enthusiastic about the whole polyamory thing, but I doubt if even a small fraction of them considers their endeavors in that field as successful.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: koraks]
    #14113648 - 03/13/11 10:56 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I'd feel fine if my girlfriend had a 3some with another girl and I wasn't the main focus.  If she has bi-sexual energy, she's welcome to get it out then.  If she had a second boyfriend though, I'd beat the ever loving piss out of him.  Hate to say it, but it's true :shrug:


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: bbl337]
    #14113662 - 03/13/11 11:00 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

In my understanding, polyamory is not threesomes. It can involve threesomes, but the essence is that multiple people genuinely love multiple people. I think that goes beyond sex. As long as it's just sex, things may work out fine. But if actual love is involved, I'm very skeptical about the whole polyamory thing.

Personally, if someone decides to be with me, then it's only going to be the two of us. No exceptions.


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OfflineMello KittyS
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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: bbl337]
    #14113666 - 03/13/11 11:01 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

im not talking 3somes and that of the like/nature.
we also are only interested in MFF partnership.
anyone ever see the websites. maybe i should check them out

Poly Match Maker .com
Polyamory .com


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: koraks]
    #14113681 - 03/13/11 11:05 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I agree. My understanding is that both partners can be with multiple people in polyamory usually but only a small fraction of people do the three way thing. When I was in an open relationship we never shared our sexual partners with eachother. I was with her and then we were both with other people too.

Ive always disliked when some bisexual people assume that if they have a boyfriend they're free to have a girlfriend or that if they have a girlfriend they're free to have a boyfriend but they cant have two boyfriends or two girlfriends. That seems like a harsh double standard to me.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #14113728 - 03/13/11 11:15 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Exactly, I'm with you all the way. In the end, I think the only criterion that can be safely applied is that of mutual consent; as long as all partners consent to the situation, anything goes. But it is a logical consequence that as the number of partners increases, the possibilities for ascertaining mutual consent among all partners become exponentially smaller.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #14119549 - 03/14/11 01:55 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

ellen:  i knew there was a reason i liked you!


i chose other, because while i agree with the philosophy of polyamory, it's also a bit too dogmatic for me, AND i don't like to label myself.  hell i didn't even know what polyamory was until last december!  right now i am just kind of exploring.....

i dated a couple for a couple of months.  i met them in december and they introduced me to the concept of polyamory.  but, they live in DC so it was more like we were pen pals and spent time together every couple of weeks when they could come here or we could meet in the middle.  it didn't work out due to the logistics of the distance but we still love each other very much and talk all the time.  being with them has taught me so much about myself, and how important honesty and communication are how DIFFICULT it is for me to communicate and express myself articulately.  i am working on that now.

i don't even like to label myself bi-sexual because i don't like labels damnit!  i don't like being put into these boxes that somehow say i am different or separate from you.  ya know?  but, i do on occasion find myself sexually attracted to a woman.  mostly i've been attracted to guys, but recently i had an experience on lsd that led to a sort of spontaneous tantric experience with a dear female friend of mine.  since then, i've found myself fantasizing about exploring aspects of my attraction to women that i've never really considered before.  it's all very interesting and i just like keeping myself open to whatever comes my way and feels right.

the more love you give, the more love you have!!!!


:happyheart:


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: yogabunny]
    #14119643 - 03/14/11 02:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

oh and i met a girl this weekend that i really REALLY like.  i've never felt this way about a girl before...like, she got my number and here i am sitting hoping and praying that she's gonna call/text and that we'll hang out again.


:blush:


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: yogabunny]
    #14119661 - 03/14/11 02:22 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

You shouldve gotten her number. This is essential when it comes to girls.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #14119672 - 03/14/11 02:24 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

haha.  woops.  i am pretty clueless on how to woo a female.  lol.

well i figure i can find her on fb since she's a friend of a good friend.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: yogabunny]
    #14119680 - 03/14/11 02:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I was kind of stubborn and against poly relationships until I read this book. For any of you who are interested I highly recommend you check it out.



http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Prehistoric-Origins-Sexuality/dp/0061707805/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1300134329&sr=8-1

Its def an eye opener with the main theme being that monogamy doesn't really fit with our nature.


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: yogabunny]
    #14119689 - 03/14/11 02:28 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

yogabunny said:
haha.  woops.  i am pretty clueless on how to woo a female.  lol.

well i figure i can find her on fb since she's a friend of a good friend.



Go out with her to eat chocolate covered strawberries.:naughty:


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: thoughts]
    #14119714 - 03/14/11 02:35 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

haha....when two girls go out on a first date...who pays????


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: yogabunny]
    #14119726 - 03/14/11 02:36 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Hmm, the one that set the date up?


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Re: any Poly-couples? [Re: yogabunny]
    #14119762 - 03/14/11 02:45 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Most girls I go out with INSIST that I dont pay for them...and some even pay for me...and Im a guy.


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