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I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety
#14104962 - 03/11/11 05:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Met this new girl who is realy cool and good looking and we have been talking for a bit on the phone and she wanted to come over today. I picked her up and it was the first time we had ever hung out. She just broke up with her BF like a couple weeks ago so I figured maybe she just wanted to be friends and that was cool with me but if something came out of it that would be nice. She came over and we had a good time and she was laying her head on my shoulder and sending me positive vibes and I pussed out and didnt try to make a move or anything with her because I had anxiety that she would reject my advance since she just broke up with her BF and when we talked on the phone before she said how she was glad to be single and its good for her life right now.
So we just hung out and I dropped her off wondering if I should of tried to at least kiss her (Shes not a slutty girl so thats the most I figured would happen the first time we hung out wasnt expecting to have sex esp since she just broke up with her BF) and then like 30 minutes later she calls me and talks for a bit and then says to me "why didnt you kiss me when we were sitting on your couch I realy wanted you to?" and I just felt so stupid. Im worried I blew my chance with her and she is gonna think Im a pussy but I realy just didnt want to make an unwanted advance and get rejected since she was saying a few days before how she was glad to be single and blah blah. Im so frustrated over this and feel like the biggest idiot.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467] 4
#14104972 - 03/11/11 05:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Just tell her the truth and ask her on another date man
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14104978 - 03/11/11 05:15 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hmmm...
Well, what was the reason you gave for not kissing her?
Definitely go for the kiss on the second date. If I'm feeling the girl, I'll usually try to put my lips somewhere on the first date. I'm fuckin shy as fuck too BTW.
I don't think you blew it with her if she is in any way reasonable.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: KingSpade]
#14104989 - 03/11/11 05:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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KingSpade said: Just tell her the truth and ask her on another date man
Good advice.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: ben_dover0802]
#14105027 - 03/11/11 05:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Deff ask her out again dude
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: ben_dover0802]
#14105037 - 03/11/11 05:29 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Tell her the truth that you didn't want to rush in, that you want to make sure she's comfortable with the idea before you go jumping her.
Anxiety my ass.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: KingSpade]
#14105077 - 03/11/11 05:39 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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KingSpade said: Just tell her the truth and ask her on another date man
Yeah I told her that I realy wanted to and was about to a couple times but I wasnt sure if she wanted me to. She said she could tell I wanted to by the way I looked at her a couple times and she said she was thinking "I hope he kisses me" She said shes gonna call me tomorrow but she has to work everyday till wednesday so thats the earliest it will be until I possibly will hang out with her again and I cant stop thinking about how I should of just manned up.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467] 4
#14105087 - 03/11/11 05:42 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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dry smash your phone buttons and tell her you want to chill tomorrow.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: The Boat]
#14105107 - 03/11/11 05:48 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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She has to work unfortunately so she cant hang out tomorrow. She's always working and it took awhile for her to even have a little time off to come over today and I had been hoping we'd hang out for like 3 weeks now and her work kept interfering with our plans and she finaly had some time and called me and came over and i fucking blow it
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467] 3
#14105133 - 03/11/11 06:00 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Dude you're way overreacting. You obviously didn't blow it, you're going to hang out with her again...
And that has nothing to do with social anxiety - that's being a gentleman and not a pig.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: pwnasaurus]
#14105141 - 03/11/11 06:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said: Dude you're way overreacting. You obviously didn't blow it, you're going to hang out with her again...
And that has nothing to do with social anxiety - that's being a gentleman and not a pig.
I agree with this. Chill out!
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14105146 - 03/11/11 06:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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call her up again sometime and ask her out again, kiss her next time if it happens. if shes into you, one kiss isnt going to be the deal-breaker.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Shroomerette]
#14105152 - 03/11/11 06:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Dude, the fact she said anything means she clearly still likes you and wants your dick
Play it smooth, and then kiss her, but not too soon, but dont wait too long.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Azure Essence]
#14105209 - 03/11/11 06:16 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have the same problem but probably even worse. I would still feel nervous and as though I don't have control over my body and mind even if I knew the girl liked me and still would have a lot of trouble making a move.
I'm hopeless It sucks wanting to experience a relationship but being unable too because I simply cannot control my anxiety IN THOSE SPECIFIC SITUATIONS. The only times I feel that intensely nervous is around girls I like and doing presentations in front of large groups of people. It sucks even more seeing how easy it is for everyone else.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: KingSpade]
#14105450 - 03/11/11 06:58 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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KingSpade said: Just tell her the truth and ask her on another date man
If the truth isn't enough for her then she isn't worth your time. Anyone who is worth while will spend a couple days getting comfortable if they are worth while.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: withoutawire]
#14105463 - 03/11/11 07:02 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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just remember: You are the baddest mother fucker to ever walk this planet.
Sounds to me like you didn't blow it at all. Minor setback, maybe. Blown it? Definitely not.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: biff]
#14105500 - 03/11/11 07:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Being on suboxone brings up a lot of social anxiety too peter. I was NOT myself on suboxone. Feeling not high but still with really low *tested* testosterone levels from the opioid suppressing my hormones made shit really awkward in life. It was like going through puberty again.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: withoutawire] 1
#14105531 - 03/11/11 07:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Same thing happened to me once, and the girl was so hot I completely fucking pussed out. Shortly afyer she stopped taking my calls, and one of my co workers fucked hear like a week later 
That killed me, and since then I haven't been on a first date that I didn't fuck the girl, that was the worst fucking feeling ever.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: c1dh3d]
#14105746 - 03/11/11 08:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Dude youre so money its not even cool. Not only are you hella in but she called you back man. she called you back...
Dont stress -take it easy, be the awesome super cool dude thats shes obviously attracted to.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Hakim0777]
#14114435 - 03/13/11 02:16 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I invited her over again last night so I went and got her and we ate dinner and watched a movie. Everything went pretty good she was laying all on me and I made out with her for a bit but then she gets a call from her ex bf and suddenly has "to go". I drove her home and she started making out with me again in the car when we pulled in her driveway before she got out which was confusing since she was kinda acting weird after she got that call. Right now Im just like WTF, I know she didnt go over to the bf's though because she told me to call her once I got home and when I called her she was at home and I could hear her parents in the background so at least she didnt go over to the dudes house.
I just dont wanna be a rebound so she can make her ex bf jealous and get back with her because he broke up with her and I think she still wants to be with him. Shits just frustrating this is the second girl in the last month that Ive been talking to/hanging out with who had just broke up with her bf and put me in this weird situation. Whats most frustrating is I didnt initiate any of this realy, she was the one who started calling me out of the blue and calls me very frequently and says how she wants to hang out. I dont know I may just say fuck it its not worth getting my hopes up only to be strung along and end up getting depressed in the end
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14114483 - 03/13/11 02:30 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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you don't have to stay together to have sex
having sex doesn't automatically make u not single
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14114551 - 03/13/11 02:50 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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PeterGriffin467 said: I just dont wanna be a rebound so she can make her ex bf jealous and get back with her because he broke up with her and I think she still wants to be with him.
You need to reread this sentence. Stay clear of women with baggage from a recent breakup unless you're ok with being nothing but rebound sex! You sound like a sensitive guy, which is cool, but all the signs are pointing towards you getting hurt.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Hendostan]
#14114603 - 03/13/11 03:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Rebound sex is fine with me but what isnt is leading me on with the hopes of me getting laid just to use me as a pawn to make her BF jealous.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14114646 - 03/13/11 03:13 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Right on.. it sounded like you had your hopes up for dating her. Hopefully she's not vindictive as you fear and is really just hoping to chill with someone cool on the rebound.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Hendostan]
#14114660 - 03/13/11 03:16 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Dude you're allready putting too much time, worry, thought, and care into a relationship that just isnt even happening.
Fuck this broad, and I dont mean literally, I mean stop hanging out with her dumb ass. Go find someone as awkward as you who wont just bang her other boyfriend after you.
Really, if you havent gotten your dick wet yet, IT COSTS TOO MUCH! Dont put yourself thru this for a fuckhole you're putting on a pedestal
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Azure Essence]
#14114671 - 03/13/11 03:21 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Azure Essence said: Dude you're allready putting too much time, worry, thought, and care into a relationship that just isnt even happening.
Fuck this broad, and I dont mean literally, I mean stop hanging out with her dumb ass. Go find someone as awkward as you who wont just bang her other boyfriend after you.
Really, if you havent gotten your dick wet yet, IT COSTS TOO MUCH! Dont put yourself thru this for a fuckhole you're putting on a pedestal
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Azure Essence]
#14114691 - 03/13/11 03:24 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Im not putting her on a pedestal and to be honest man in the real world unless a girl is a total slut she isnt gonna fuck you the first or second time you hangout. Ive hung out with her 2 freakin times man wtf are you talking about "it costs to much"
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14115555 - 03/13/11 06:16 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well you're posting on an internet message board for advice on a girl you've hung out with twice. How clear can it be?
And a girl just getting OUT of a relationship is generally not someone you want to be getting INTO a relationship with.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14116875 - 03/13/11 10:24 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Listen man, she's obviously still interested in you if she's asking you why you didn't kiss her. Hangout with her again and then kiss her. You didn't blow it. Yet.
Edit-Wait nevermind. Too late.
Edited by MLDSMDA (03/13/11 10:28 PM)
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14245453 - 04/05/11 11:41 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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PeterGriffin467 said: Met this new girl who is realy cool and good looking and we have been talking for a bit on the phone and she wanted to come over today. I picked her up and it was the first time we had ever hung out. She just broke up with her BF like a couple weeks ago so I figured maybe she just wanted to be friends and that was cool with me but if something came out of it that would be nice. She came over and we had a good time and she was laying her head on my shoulder and sending me positive vibes and I pussed out and didnt try to make a move or anything with her because I had anxiety that she would reject my advance since she just broke up with her BF and when we talked on the phone before she said how she was glad to be single and its good for her life right now.
So we just hung out and I dropped her off wondering if I should of tried to at least kiss her (Shes not a slutty girl so thats the most I figured would happen the first time we hung out wasnt expecting to have sex esp since she just broke up with her BF) and then like 30 minutes later she calls me and talks for a bit and then says to me "why didnt you kiss me when we were sitting on your couch I realy wanted you to?" and I just felt so stupid. Im worried I blew my chance with her and she is gonna think Im a pussy but I realy just didnt want to make an unwanted advance and get rejected since she was saying a few days before how she was glad to be single and blah blah. Im so frustrated over this and feel like the biggest idiot.
Well something finaly went my way for once, I have been talking to this girl for the last month, I hadnt seen her for awhile and she seemed kinda distant since the last time we hung out and when I would ask her to hang out she would say she already had plans or had to work or to tired from working. I kinda started to think nothing was going to happen and was about ready to give up. I talked to her last night and she said she'd call me today and maybe we could hang out for a couple hours. So I didnt think much of it maybe just go out and get something to eat and that would be that. I picked her up took her out to eat and then afterwards went back to my house to watch a movie. For awhile we just layed on my couch and made out and I wanted it to go further but I wasnt sure if she did. Out of nowhere she said lets go down to your room and watch a movie and I was like . I started making out with her again and tried to make an advance and she stopped me about halfway in a playful way but clearly said to stop, I was like god damnit. Then like 10 minutes later I go to kiss her again and she basicaly started ripping mine and her clothes off and then I proceeded to have to best sex I have ever had. I havent had sex with that many girls or anything but man this girl was hot as fuck and liked it rough. I was banging her hard doggystyle and I couldnt finish because of being on suboxone and I she had to stop me because she said she was so exhausted She was screaming and telling me she was cumming and if she wasnt putting on a show (which I dont think she was) Im so pleased with myself haha. Im like a real shy dude but having like 8mgs of lorazepam in me turned me into an animal hah. I feel so good right now, its like the biggest confidence boost especialy since I havent gotten laid in awhile. The plus side is I realy like this girl alot too. Tonight FTMFW
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14245464 - 04/05/11 11:45 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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*wakes up tomorrow with strange scabs*
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14245486 - 04/05/11 11:49 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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hahaha
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
#14245491 - 04/05/11 11:53 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Now you got me worried.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14245521 - 04/06/11 12:01 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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did ya wear a condom? I'm more worried about kids than herpalitis
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
#14245534 - 04/06/11 12:04 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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no but shes on birth control
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14245542 - 04/06/11 12:07 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Potential double whammy in the near future 
"O yea, that birth control? I lied." "O yea I'm clean? I lied."
jk congrats I'm just mad cause I havent gotten any for 2 months
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
#14245556 - 04/06/11 12:11 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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It had been well over 2 months for me so I feel sooooo much better right now about everything, I was starting to think it would never happen again
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
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I just met a guy at my new job that told me "I havent been with a woman since 1986"
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
#14245594 - 04/06/11 12:22 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Just relax. What's the worst that could have happened if you had made a move? She rejects you... There are like 3,000,000,000 chicks out there, if ONE denies you, who cares?
I'm pretty sure there's nothing to worry about...she's calling you up, asking why you didn't make a move...she's obviously into you. Use this knowledge and don't be a pussy! Chicks don't like guys who look weak...
Seriously, for me the most attractive part of a chick is if she has self confidence. I'm sure they see us the same way. Even if you aren't all that confident, at least fake it until you're comfortable enough to be confident.
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today I am fucking two girls at different times and one got me booze and the other is bringing me more booze and cigarettes in 30 minutes
DAMN IT FEELS GOOD TO BE A GANGSTA
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14245609 - 04/06/11 12:25 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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PeterGriffin467 said: Rebound sex is fine with me but what isnt is leading me on with the hopes of me getting laid just to use me as a pawn to make her BF jealous.
Yeah dude, I've had this happen to me once, and it made me feel like a piece of shit. Never let a female manipulate you. They will do/say whatever they have to, and it often works because men are so consumed by the thought of sex that they overlook the possibility of being used.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#14245660 - 04/06/11 12:40 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Registered: 09/18/07 Posts: 5,328 Last seen: 17 minutes, 8 seconds Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467] #14245453 - 04/05/11 11:41 PM (58 minutes, 9 seconds ago) Edit Reply Quote Quick Reply
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PeterGriffin467 said: Met this new girl who is realy cool and good looking and we have been talking for a bit on the phone and she wanted to come over today. I picked her up and it was the first time we had ever hung out. She just broke up with her BF like a couple weeks ago so I figured maybe she just wanted to be friends and that was cool with me but if something came out of it that would be nice. She came over and we had a good time and she was laying her head on my shoulder and sending me positive vibes and I pussed out and didnt try to make a move or anything with her because I had anxiety that she would reject my advance since she just broke up with her BF and when we talked on the phone before she said how she was glad to be single and its good for her life right now.
So we just hung out and I dropped her off wondering if I should of tried to at least kiss her (Shes not a slutty girl so thats the most I figured would happen the first time we hung out wasnt expecting to have sex esp since she just broke up with her BF) and then like 30 minutes later she calls me and talks for a bit and then says to me "why didnt you kiss me when we were sitting on your couch I realy wanted you to?" and I just felt so stupid. Im worried I blew my chance with her and she is gonna think Im a pussy but I realy just didnt want to make an unwanted advance and get rejected since she was saying a few days before how she was glad to be single and blah blah. Im so frustrated over this and feel like the biggest idiot.
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Well something finaly went my way for once, I have been talking to this girl for the last month, I hadnt seen her for awhile and she seemed kinda distant since the last time we hung out and when I would ask her to hang out she would say she already had plans or had to work or to tired from working. I kinda started to think nothing was going to happen and was about ready to give up. I talked to her last night and she said she'd call me today and maybe we could hang out for a couple hours. So I didnt think much of it maybe just go out and get something to eat and that would be that. I picked her up took her out to eat and then afterwards went back to my house to watch a movie. For awhile we just layed on my couch and made out and I wanted it to go further but I wasnt sure if she did. Out of nowhere she said lets go down to your room and watch a movie and I was like. I started making out with her again and tried to make an advance and she stopped me about halfway in a playful way but clearly said to stop, I was like god damnit. Then like 10 minutes later I go to kiss her again and she basicaly started ripping mine and her clothes off and then I proceeded to have to best sex I have ever had. I havent had sex with that many girls or anything but man this girl was hot as fuck and liked it rough. I was banging her hard doggystyle and I couldnt finish because of being on suboxone and I she had to stop me because she said she was so exhausted She was screaming and telling me she was cumming and if she wasnt putting on a show (which I dont think she was) Im so pleased with myself haha. Im like a real shy dude but having like 8mgs of lorazepam in me turned me into an animal hah. I feel so good right now, its like the biggest confidence boost especialy since I havent gotten laid in awhile. The plus side is I realy like this girl alot too. Tonight FTMFW
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Cherk]
#14245687 - 04/06/11 12:53 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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cherokee said: today I am fucking two girls at different times and one got me booze and the other is bringing me more booze and cigarettes in 30 minutes
DAMN IT FEELS GOOD TO BE A GANGSTA
could learn a lot from this man right here
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: igwna]
#14245692 - 04/06/11 12:55 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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wow I'm too high to see you posted and banged her
ignore my comments then...unless she's just fucking you to make her ex jealous muahahaha
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Anthony917]
#14247782 - 04/06/11 02:37 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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hah yeah I was like wtf? when I read your comments .
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Cherk]
#15989360 - 03/24/12 10:34 AM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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sounds like some virgin love ha
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: bianaryiris]
#15989388 - 03/24/12 10:42 AM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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You bumped a year-old thread just for that?
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: KingSpade]
#15989400 - 03/24/12 10:45 AM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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KingSpade said: Just tell her the truth and ask her on another date man
Yeah dude, no biggie. Tell her exactly what you've posted here and I bet she will be even more fond of you after.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: GuruBushHippie]
#15990845 - 03/24/12 05:36 PM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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THis shit is all over and done with and I havent seen or talked to her for 8 months and just heard shes in jail now for like a 5th DUI . Went out with her a couple times, took her to dinner and then I had sex with her and after that she wanted to use me as a meal ticket for her stupid daughter so I obviously got out of that situation as fast as I could
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#15990866 - 03/24/12 05:40 PM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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PeterGriffin467 said: THis shit is all over and done with and I havent seen or talked to her for 8 months and just heard shes in jail now for like a 5th DUI . Went out with her a couple times, took her to dinner and then I had sex with her and after that she wanted to use me as a meal ticket for her stupid daughter so I obviously got out of that situation as fast as I could
Man that sounds like such a fucked up situation.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#15990880 - 03/24/12 05:45 PM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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You made this thread less then a month ago, how did 8 months suddenly pass by already? whoa.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: underfliptown]
#15990888 - 03/24/12 05:46 PM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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Situations like that are more common than you think. Its the first and last time I will ever go out with a woman who has a kid no matter how cool or hot she is.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#15990927 - 03/24/12 05:54 PM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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PeterGriffin467 said: Situations like that are more common than you think. Its the first and last time I will ever go out with a woman who has a kid no matter how cool or hot she is.
True that man. Sounds legit.
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: underfliptown]
#15990961 - 03/24/12 06:02 PM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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You suck at being a troll
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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
#15990969 - 03/24/12 06:05 PM (11 years, 10 months ago) |
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lol i never said i was a troll. Im just a guy who finds some things funny. If you disagree, thats your trip.
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