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Anonymous #1
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Chilled With This Chick Last Month
#14098469 - 03/10/11 02:58 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Uhhhhg we smoked, chilled, talked but didn't FUCK. I don't know if it was because she was shy or what, but it seemed she had issues. She was hot too which made it frustrating for me; I mean we were together for a whole 80-90 minutes and I couldn't make it happen... had to get rid of her; I was horny, what can I say.
It's just she kept texting me almost everyday afterwords, which was kind of annoying, because she was really nice which made it difficult for me to reject her. But seriously, I can say for a fact she was inexperienced and fuck dealing with inexperienced people, they're needy and suck at sex approximately 100% of the time, fact.
But the thing is, is that this chick, I heard from a mutual friend, is really kind of lonely, which explains a lot. My conscious finally got the best of me and really felt the need to help this girl; I had the means to anyways. The thing is, is that this girl liked me quite a bit, too much actually, and I don't need anyone falling in love with me so I had to avoid her. So basically I had to use everyone she knows to find out information about her. I started by fucking the few friends she had. I basically said, 'anyone who knows this girl gets laid', haha, that'd improve her social life, right? Nope. I then proceeded to start fucking people she didn't know (but knew her), telling them to 'be her friend!'. Another futile effort. I then got into contact with her parents and professors (yup!) and told them, "find this girl some friends, she needs to get laid!!! This is SRS". That didn't even fucking work. I now hate her because she won't talk to anyone.
But the thing is, is that she's no idiot and caught onto all of this really pretty fast. And now I feel like I'm being FORCED into a fucking relationship with her. FUCK. But I mean, I realize what I did was pretty awful, and literally everyone who knows about it is guilting..me.. into a relationship. I'm currently just telling her what she wants to hear and hoping for the best
Anyway to get out of this???
I even had someone give this girl a beer for fucks sake! To make it EVEN, ya'know. I'M A NICE PERSON.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14098615 - 03/10/11 03:23 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Have you considered telling her that you're not interested? That would have spared you the effort of manipulating everyone in her personal and professional circles.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14098679 - 03/10/11 03:32 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Have you considered telling her that you're not interested? That would have spared you the effort of manipulating everyone in her personal and professional circles.
I wasn't interested. I told her I wasn't interested (several times!). She got emotional but let go. I didn't. I wanted to help her. I regret it. I didn't mean for it to go this way
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14098821 - 03/10/11 03:56 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: But the thing is, is that she's no idiot and caught onto all of this really pretty fast.
Fuck man. She knows about all this? How's she taking it?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: Anonymous #3]
#14098909 - 03/10/11 04:16 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Fuck man. She knows about all this? How's she taking it? 
Surprisingly well. It's kind of disturbing because although I've violated her personal privacy to the MAX, she doesn't seem to give two shits. I thought this would be soul-crushing for her, but rather, from what people say, she's just mildly annoyed(?) and basically normal. I'm really confused at this point and not able to come up with an explanation, ((I thought she was in love with me. Is she? I really don't know. I definitely did a good job of ridding her of some shitty friends though; it's just a tragedy she's not making new ones:( I think I've come to like her a lot myself and care about her, it's just I'm fairly certain she wants a formal relationship, and I don't quite know how to explain to her that I may not be ready for one [at this point in my life. Fuck all of this I'm at a loss of what to do
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14099614 - 03/10/11 06:08 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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You obviously care about her in some sense, but just tell her how you feel. If she didn't flip about everything you did then she can probably hear the rest of it. Make sure that you communicate to her that you do not want to pursue a relationship, make sure that she knows that. And please do not lead her on. It will only make it worse/harder for her to get feelings for anyone else in the long run. Be nice to her, if you care about her stick around as a friend, if things ever escalate beyond that put a stop to them. Hell if you have started to not mind her being around, introduce her to your friends and maybe she will hit off with one of them. IDK.
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14103625 - 03/11/11 11:56 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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why didn't you just rape her? that would have helped her deal with her emotional issues about sex.
op is trollin
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: JT]
#14103768 - 03/11/11 12:40 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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get off your fucking high horse, op. you don't sound like you're in all that great of emotional health yourself.
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Re: Chilled With This Chick Last Month [Re: JT]
#14104975 - 03/11/11 05:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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JT said: why didn't you just rape her? that would have helped her deal with her emotional issues about sex.
op is trollin
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