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electricfeel
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Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it?
#14086143 - 03/08/11 11:24 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm sorry if this is TLTR but any input on this would really help me out.
Put yourself in this hypothetical situation that I am about to describe. Let's try to keep this as hypothetical as possible, because it would be seriously impossible to explain my personal situation through words, in a way that would allow anyone else to really understand-- there is always more to a story. But I am VERY curious about how anyone else at all would approach this situation, so I seriously strongly appreciate any comments anyone can give on the subject.
K so, the hypothetical situation. Keep these details in mind:
You have a girlfriend, you guys have been in a long term relationship, have expressed much love and care for each other over the course of almost a year, the girl was your "first", and you both were each others FIRST person to truly be in love with and be in a true relationship with.
You decide to do mushrooms together for the first time. The trip takes place at your girlfriend's house. At some point in the trip you guys had gone your separate ways to do some exploring on your own. You were walking at the lake by her house and she was at her house. You get a call from her in a very frantic state, telling you over and over that she needs you, she really needs you, she is scared, she needs help, please hurry. When you get to her house, she is in a ball in bed, under the covers, obviously in need of you, in need of love, in need of company, in need of comfort. And tripping on mushrooms.
There is plenty of info of "how to handle someone in a bad trip." But the suggestions on those lists are extremely vague to encompass a wide variety of situations, many times on those lists it will say "if the person doesn't know you, tell them your name" etc. So what I'm looking for is an approach more specific to the girlfriend-boyfriend situation and dynamic.
Keep in mind, this girl is someone you truly love and respect. The first girl that you have ever truly loved and respected, or had any real feelings for at all. The relationship you both have is the biggest thing in both of your lives. Much sacrifice was made on both parts up until this point.
Any input and details on how you would approach this situation would be greatly appreciated. I'm in a very painful situation right now. More details will probably be given later.
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AlmostAsCoolAs


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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: electricfeel]
#14086146 - 03/08/11 11:25 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Benzos.
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electricfeel
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
#14086155 - 03/08/11 11:27 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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No other drugs are available in the moment.
(Sorry for not mentioning that.)
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AlmostAsCoolAs


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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: electricfeel]
#14086170 - 03/08/11 11:31 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Sex/massage. Get her mind off whatever negative thoughts she has stuck in her head.
Is this all going on right now?
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: electricfeel] 3
#14086194 - 03/08/11 11:40 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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wrap her up in a cozy blanket, make her a cuppa tea and take her mind off it however you can, act casual about it dont act worried about it, you have to give off the buzz that her bad trip is nothing much at all and will be fixed in no time. if she sees you freakin' out about it its just gonna make her worse
failing that, give her a d-10 valium
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
#14086197 - 03/08/11 11:40 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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well this is where reverse negative thought patterns and vibes to gain a relaxing feeling that may help propell her trip to the positive. turn on her favorite music, if you have anything strong in vitamen c give it to her to drink. let her know your there and she is not by herself. tell her how physically appealing you think she is thats a big thought trigger in women! sing to her, chocolate maybe, if you have fire place lite it up and cuddle, those thing should bring her around.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
#14086198 - 03/08/11 11:40 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Would try and talk her down, reinforce positive thoughts, sing to her, give her a massage, get her some fruit... just try and remind her that its just temporary and that the bad feelings will pass and good ones will come.
Just remind her she will be fine, that its all okay, that I love her and that in an hour or two she won't be tripping so hard, try and get her to focus on her breathing and to take deep breaths... to relax
dunno. I've had people freak out on me and I just try and work them through it
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: electricfeel]
#14086210 - 03/08/11 11:43 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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It's really hard for any of us being currently sober to have an idea how we would react in that situation. It would really depend upon how much control your boyfriend has in a psychedelic state, or lack there of. If he's a seasoned tripper, or even a psychedelic super-hero like some of us he might have the words to move your frantic state towards a positive direction.
I think the best thing to do when someones having negative thought loops or finds themselves in a dark place during a trip is to remind them to let go. You have to let the ocean of chaos wash over you, and embrace acceptance. Everything was okay, is okay, and will forever be okay. Since you guys are emotionally entwined, it might help to reassure the girl with a positive physical sensation, like a hug or to hold your hand. Turn on some comforting music... Loose yourself in something beautiful...
It's all really subjective to the person and what they're going through though. You have to be willing to adapt while keeping your own thoughts in check. It's really easy to get freaked out when someone else is scared.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: thePatient]
#14086224 - 03/08/11 11:48 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Just put on her favorite tunes, and cuddle with her. Offer her a massage; talk her through her anxieties. Then DSHSB.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14086236 - 03/08/11 11:52 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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GOod vibes all around..
show and tell her there is nothing to be scared of.
i also agree with the sex thing, sex brings my ass right out of a mushroom trip if i start getting all hot and sweaty. no joke.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: electricfeel]
#14086242 - 03/08/11 11:53 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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put the dead on, and tell her to roll away the dew.
...and maybe a good dry smashing
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: Spiderbaby] 3
#14086262 - 03/08/11 11:57 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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tell her your semen is the antidote.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: The Ecstatic]
#14086270 - 03/08/11 11:58 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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You do what you do with any other middle age white woman. Throw benzos at it.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14086297 - 03/08/11 12:06 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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ifoundwaldo said: Just put on her favorite tunes, and cuddle with her. Offer her a massage; talk her through her anxieties. Then DSHSB.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: withoutawire]
#14086298 - 03/08/11 12:06 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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A similar thing happened to me when I introduced a past girlfriend, I hugged her, turned on the lights, consoled her, gave her a dipenhydramine more for the psychological effect since I did not have any benzos, and watched T.V with her. When someone is focused on the T.V they forget about the various trip issues.
However I have found that I am probably not the best trip buddy, because I usually like to be totally quiet and in a ball meditating throughout my trip. Other people usually want to walk around and stuff.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14086313 - 03/08/11 12:11 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
ifoundwaldo said: Just put on her favorite tunes, and cuddle with her. Offer her a massage; talk her through her anxieties. Then DSHSB.
this.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: nicechrisman]
#14086454 - 03/08/11 12:39 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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for notes:
always have benzos available if youre going to trip, for situations like that.
sex, music she likes, massage, cuddling, talking her out... all good options
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: ManianFH]
#14086752 - 03/08/11 01:39 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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i think the best thing you could do is talk to her in a very calm and soothing voice.
i dont think pushing sex on somebody freaking out in a mushroom trip would be a good idea, it would only probably exasperate the situation...
hold her, if she doesnt mind, and talk to her about anything, or ask her what she is thinking/whats going on in her head... tell her its going to be ok, it will end soon etc.
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: Slavaslave]
#14086842 - 03/08/11 01:58 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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knock her over the head with a glass bottle rendering her unconscious
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Re: Your girlfriend is having a bad mushroom trip. How would you handle it? [Re: zergroz] 2
#14086920 - 03/08/11 02:15 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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So ice in the pussy and ass doesn't work for a bad trip?
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