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OfflineThe_Ghost
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Re: In the way of love [Re: NastyDHL]
    #14079097 - 03/07/11 12:26 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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What exactly gets in the way of one treating others with love?



Attachments pretty much explains everything. Its not good or bad, it just is. People that treat others badly do so because of connection to a set of experiences which have shaped their particular outlook on things. Love is nothing more than a form of attachment as well, but instead of being attached to a particular person you can be attached to the cosmic consciousness in a very general way, in turn being able to appreciate and love every aspect of this experience and every person you meet. Of course there is a wide gradient to such an experience based on a particular perespective determined by a given set of attachments. The gradient can range from general acceptance of our fellow conscious beings, to a buddha or christ-like love of everyone.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: The_Ghost]
    #14079323 - 03/07/11 01:23 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

I try to treat everyone with at least neutral respect. I don't even do things to make people uncomfortable, even if they're making me uncomfortable. I do, however, always seem to have miss communications with people. They take my stand-off, quiet, no small talk, uncaring attitude personally, whenever in reality I just want to be left alone.

People taking things too personally is going to keep us from loving each other. The world and everything in it is much easier to love when we are no longer focusing on our egos and desires in our spotlight consciousness.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: NastyDHL]
    #14079555 - 03/07/11 03:10 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Re: In the way of love [Re: Chronic7]
    #14079798 - 03/07/11 06:59 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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:lol:
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Re: In the way of love [Re: Kickle]
    #14079915 - 03/07/11 07:47 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Do you know what it is like to tell someone you love them...knowing you're only doing it to hear it back.

It's like any other transaction.

Not saying it's always like that for me.  Just that I say "I love you" less than I used to.




Sure do. I also know what it's like to have someone tell you they love you, and know they are only saying it to hear it back.




Yeah.  :sadyes:

I suppose I'm a little stunted in this regard but I only became fully aware of this fairly recently.  Self-enquiry.  It's a bitch.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Cups]
    #14080115 - 03/07/11 09:08 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

There's a lot to be said about appreciating what is rather than looking for what is to appreciate you. I'm not sure why, but it seems to change things drastically.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Cups]
    #14080448 - 03/07/11 11:23 AM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Self-enquiry.  It's a bitch.




:shocked:  In what way?


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Chronic7]
    #14081053 - 03/07/11 01:22 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

In that you don't like what you see.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Kickle]
    #14081064 - 03/07/11 01:24 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

What isit you see that you don't like?


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Chronic7]
    #14081067 - 03/07/11 01:25 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Imperfection.


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It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.

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Re: In the way of love [Re: Poid]
    #14081107 - 03/07/11 01:31 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Self inquiry teaches you to look at what you are, not at what appears in front of you

If you say something about what you are seeing then you are not Inquiring into the Self, the Seer




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Re: In the way of love [Re: Chronic7]
    #14081129 - 03/07/11 01:36 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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What isit you see that you don't like?




Well when looking at what Cups described, attachment to the idea of being loved when the reality of that idea isn't present. As long as reality aligns with the idea, then no problem is seen. But seeing a disparity is disheartening and disillusioning when attachment remains. Or when hope remains. Or when any desire in any way remains. And most don't know how to be rid of these things, and that makes looking at the reality of a situation quite a problem indeed.

Here is my attachment. There is reality. I am amidst the rifting that causes suffering.
Self examination can become quite painful.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Kickle]
    #14081152 - 03/07/11 01:39 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

That must be examining the mind, not the Self


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Chronic7]
    #14081165 - 03/07/11 01:42 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

It's examining what appears on stage.
Which naturally happens in the mind.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Kickle]
    #14081185 - 03/07/11 01:45 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

If what appears on stage is the mind, then what is the stage?


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It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.

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Re: In the way of love [Re: Chronic7]
    #14081189 - 03/07/11 01:45 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Without getting into a debate of mind vs Self...I'd describe it like peeking at your christmas presents early.

You're pretty sure it's a great idea when you do it...then christmas comes and it sucks.

Or knowing the secret behind a magic trick.  The "magic" is gone and the best you can do is admire someone who does it well.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Poid]
    #14081199 - 03/07/11 01:46 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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If what appears on stage is the mind, then what is the stage?




The cup that never fills. Which is strange because all things pour into it.


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Re: In the way of love [Re: Chronic7] * 1
    #14081239 - 03/07/11 01:53 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

enough self-inquiry can lead to a breakdown of one's sense of self

"creation follows destruction"

what is Brahma without Shiva

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