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nicechrisman
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Re: fresh emc [Re: Doc_T]
#14069972 - 03/05/11 08:35 AM (13 years, 20 hours ago) |
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nicechrisman said:how many babies do yall fit in one of those boxes anyways? 
40 pound box, 8 pounds per baby. Five babies, that's why they're off center.
Our unofficial motto: "Time to make the babies!"
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Mello Kitty
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i absolutly HATE my Mum..!! and it hurts me to feel this way. what can i do to cope with this?  she does NOTHING for me and never has..! but i get to hear how much she does for everyone else. cuts me like a knife that she has practically abandoned me for no reason.. she is the trigger to most if not all of my problems
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nicechrisman
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I think sometimes it can help to look at a person from outside of your relationship with them. Look at her as an imperfects person who probably is having a difficult time with life instead of looking at her as "Mom". Maybe you can develop a little bit of compassion for her this way. Hell, even pity is better than hate.
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nicechrisman said: I think sometimes it can help to look at a person from outside of your relationship with them. Look at her as an imperfects person who probably is having a difficult time with life instead of looking at her as "Mom". Maybe you can develop a little bit of compassion for her this way. Hell, even pity is better than hate.
good perspective... but ive been looking at her as a person and not a mother for years.. im sick of it.. i need a mother, and i want a mommy
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nicechrisman
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have you communicated this to her? Maybe you need to sit down and have a heart to heart.
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nicechrisman
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some folks use religion for this purpose too. The whole "mother mary" thing. I'm not really religious myself, but I can understand the symbolism. Or if you are into eastern philosophy, Kwan Yin often can serve the same purpose.
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i have tried everything. nothing has worked. nothing will work. sorry about the rant. the meds werent kicked in. its all good now. i think i will just try to ignore her for the rest of my life. she better live to 200 because when she cant feed herself, or wipe herself i will be the one who is not there for her and she will be the one that is all alone
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somehow I don't think the meds are really going to solve your problem. They sure can ease the pain though. Problem is it always comes back if you don't ever deal with it.
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you are right... the only thing that i havent tried that may work is Group Therapy, but my mom would just be offended if i mentioned this. (i tried, she did) she is the type of person that you cannot communicate ANYTHING too. she will take a compliment, twist it around and make it bad about her, than be pissed off at you and make you out to be a villain. other times its like talking to a brick wall or she will change the subject. she is mental bipolar like me and she blinds herself with naivety to everything i dont know i guess that is her defense mechanism
i truly wish she could know how i feel.. REALLY. like if i could write it onto a Nail and Hammer it thru her thick numb skull into her brain. then i might have some relief even just a little if she could just know how/what i feel
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sounds like a tough situation. I'm sorry you don't have a better relationship with her.
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yeah, long story short. the word FAMILY to me means FAIL isnt it ironic, can u see the fail in family?
FA m IL y - FAIL
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working 
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Re: fresh emc [Re: rackem]
#14070111 - 03/05/11 09:46 AM (13 years, 19 hours ago) |
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Yeah I've been at work for 4 hours already. getting off in about 45 min. Work sucks
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Let me tell you guys. Doing homework is only slightly better than working. (At least for me.)
About to be productive and do recycling, get a haircut, get some McD's breakfast (mmm arteries clogging ), and get my dad a birthday present (iTunes gift card, I really have no idea what he wants and have been asking him for a week now)
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impressive and lucky you, still have that 5 hrs to go
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Re: fresh emc [Re: rackem]
#14070161 - 03/05/11 10:04 AM (13 years, 19 hours ago) |
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another day of being lazy
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i am irritable and madd at the world today  maybe i need a Xanax Bar
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Re: fresh emc [Re: rackem]
#14070192 - 03/05/11 10:14 AM (13 years, 18 hours ago) |
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Haha, maybe it will go by fast
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mmmm bars
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Re: fresh emc [Re: rackem]
#14070291 - 03/05/11 10:39 AM (13 years, 18 hours ago) |
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does anyone know how to clean up Plushies without hurting them? my pug slobbered on my Togepi and favorite my Melody plushies and the slobber got all hard and yucky  what can i use to clean them?
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