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Anonymous #1

How to say goodbye?
    #14050610 - 03/01/11 07:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i dated this girl for just under two years.  we lived together for a most of it.  we were very close, and shared the deepest moments.  we showed each other how to live and we were convinced we were perfect for each other.  i had found my twin, the one who enhanced everything good about me and vastly improved the bad parts of me.  she fucked me over. i found out she told her friend [paraphrasing] that she hasn't cheated on me yet but thinks about it a lot, and isn't sure why she gets in committed relationships when she just wants to be a slut and sleep around.  i dumped her ass but i regret it so much.  i know i shouldnt, considering... but i can't help but just want the girl back and the comfort of the relationship.  she has been over at my apartment a lot and we've been fucking a lot.  she is making a very strong play at getting back into my life and it's sucking me back in, but i don't want it.  i don't want this liar and cheat sucking the pleasure and happiness out of my life, because that's all that she can do for me.  i think i'm being blinded by pussy, oneitis, and missing the good parts of our relationship while ignoring all the bad parts (though very few and far between).  ive already fucked other girls and that hasn't put me past this at all.

this has pretty much destroyed me.  ive been shut in my apartment for the past several months since this happened.  i don't go out, i ignore my friends phone calls, i just get high all day, work, and eat.  im in a rut and it's this bitch's fault, well it's my fault too because im being a hermit, but whatever.  fuck her, i wish i wasn't stuck on her.

theres a bunch of these "ex-girlfriend" threads here in this section every day so i know this situation isn't unique but this helps me vent more than anything.  thanks for reading if you got this far.


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14050661 - 03/01/11 07:35 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I feel your pain man, I had an ex for a long time that I was ith on and off for about a year and a half after we "officially" broke up. It's hard when it's someone that means so much to you. I eventually got past it when I realized that if it was meant to be, it would. But it wasn't.


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14050700 - 03/01/11 07:42 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

You need to either get back with her, or stop seeing her completely otherwise you aren't going to be able to move on.  It's going to suck going cold turkey, but you are just making it worse for yourself right now.


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14050874 - 03/01/11 08:16 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
i dated this girl for just under two years.  we lived together for a most of it.  we were very close, and shared the deepest moments.  we showed each other how to live and we were convinced we were perfect for each other.  i had found my twin, the one who enhanced everything good about me and vastly improved the bad parts of me.  she fucked me over. i found out she told her friend [paraphrasing] that she hasn't cheated on me yet but thinks about it a lot, and isn't sure why she gets in committed relationships when she just wants to be a slut and sleep around.  i dumped her ass but i regret it so much.  i know i shouldnt, considering... but i can't help but just want the girl back and the comfort of the relationship.  she has been over at my apartment a lot and we've been fucking a lot.  she is making a very strong play at getting back into my life and it's sucking me back in, but i don't want it.  i don't want this liar and cheat sucking the pleasure and happiness out of my life, because that's all that she can do for me.  i think i'm being blinded by pussy, oneitis, and missing the good parts of our relationship while ignoring all the bad parts (though very few and far between).  ive already fucked other girls and that hasn't put me past this at all.

this has pretty much destroyed me.  ive been shut in my apartment for the past several months since this happened.  i don't go out, i ignore my friends phone calls, i just get high all day, work, and eat.  im in a rut and it's this bitch's fault, well it's my fault too because im being a hermit, but whatever.  fuck her, i wish i wasn't stuck on her.

theres a bunch of these "ex-girlfriend" threads here in this section every day so i know this situation isn't unique but this helps me vent more than anything.  thanks for reading if you got this far.




You're acting like a fucking BITCH man. 

You caught her BEFORE she did the shit, like a true pimp; dumped her, like a true pimp, and then went on to revoke your otherwise esteemed pimply ways and start feeling bad about the whole ordeal?

More importantly, she's over your house, pleasing YOUR cock and you're still complaining?  Dude you've got her where you want her insofar as she is claiming to want to get back together but you are resisting.

Don't get back with her.  She will give you the herp or worse, a kid, or even worse, someone else's kid.

Keep doing what you're doing until you're ready to end things with her, or end things now.  She already made her decisions and she feels like she feels and you can't pretend like that shit doesn't exist unless you want to have her fucking other guys.

Another option: tell her it's whatever about fucking other guys.  You can make up rules or there can be no rules, but you get to do the same with other ladies.

The shit's chess it ain't checkers.


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: Humility]
    #14052104 - 03/01/11 11:33 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

:curbyourenthusiasm:


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: andrewss] * 1
    #14052123 - 03/01/11 11:36 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

"Next bus comes in 15 minutes" best advice my momma ever gave me...


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14056426 - 03/02/11 07:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:


this has pretty much destroyed me.  ive been shut in my apartment for the past several months since this happened.  i don't go out, i ignore my friends phone calls, i just get high all day, work, and eat.  im in a rut and it's this bitch's fault, well it's my fault too because im being a hermit, but whatever.  fuck her, i wish i wasn't stuck on her.




you're contradicting yourself. it is all your fault, buddy. it's your fault you can't muster the strength/courage to purge this bitch from your life. it's your fault you mope and can't see that you're going it all to yourself. its your fault you're a codependent. it's your fault you aren't doing anything at all about it other than wallowing in dread.

i was in your shoes not to long ago. it didn't end until i made it very damn clear that this bitch can never, ever call me phone again or otherwise contact me. then i got to work on myself. i realized that i was using her almost like a drug, she covered up all of the 'shit' that had been piled up in me. when i started dealing with this shit (dealing with it includes quitting your abusive drug habits), i would be in tears for days at a time because i had taken my time to figure out wtf is wrong with me. anyway... time to eat blueberries..


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: dummy]
    #14060492 - 03/03/11 02:35 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

yeah, she didn't do anything wrong. there is a difference between "wanting to be a slut" and actually BEING a slut. also, i doubt she actually said she wanted to be a slut. maybe there was something else going on with you that was bugging her and she was losing attraction to you and now that she doesn't have you she realizes how much she enjoyed you. have you even talked to her rather than just fucking her? the fact that she still wants you after you've been acting like a hermit and molding in your apt shows a lot concerning how much she actually cares for you. be a man, make a decision and stop torturing her and yourself. oh and stop complaining. life is too short.


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: sotallytober]
    #14064126 - 03/04/11 12:20 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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sotallytober said:
yeah, she didn't do anything wrong. there is a difference between "wanting to be a slut" and actually BEING a slut. also, i doubt she actually said she wanted to be a slut. maybe there was something else going on with you that was bugging her and she was losing attraction to you and now that she doesn't have you she realizes how much she enjoyed you. have you even talked to her rather than just fucking her? the fact that she still wants you after you've been acting like a hermit and molding in your apt shows a lot concerning how much she actually cares for you. be a man, make a decision and stop torturing her and yourself. oh and stop complaining. life is too short.




the exact phrasing was "I just want to be a big slut and sleep around, I don't know why I keep getting myself stuck in these committed relationships."  yes she used the actual phrase "big slut". how is that not doing anything wrong? she doesn't want to be committed. i don't want to bein that serious relationship when she doesn't take committment seriously.

the exact phrasing on the other one was "No I haven't cheated on him yet but I think about it.  a lot." keyword is "yet" plus the additional afterthought, "a lot". she also cheated on 5 of her last 6 boyfriends, the only one not cheating on was her first in high school so there you have it the whole story.  no she didn't cheat but she shows intent and has a history so she's out. i took the advice here and stopped seeing her. i am moving on. i am no longer going to waste away and honestly ive been inspired by that other thread on page 1 here called The Game. im done complaining. i haven't complained at all to anyone online or irl, just here anonymously. 


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14064187 - 03/04/11 12:41 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

good job!


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: dummy]
    #14064758 - 03/04/11 05:24 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

agreed

dump her, use her, forget her. apparently that's what she's up for anyway. :grin:


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Re: How to say goodbye? [Re: godisanastronaut]
    #14070714 - 03/05/11 12:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

good for you. sorry, i misunderstood while reading. my point was that words are just words. anyway, self proclaimed sluts suck. literally.


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