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I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS *DELETED*
    #14040957 - 02/28/11 09:58 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14040962 - 02/28/11 10:01 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

You may want to put this as anonymous.. RL has a habit of catching up to you :P


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14040986 - 02/28/11 10:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

So your crazy gf ordered you to cheat on her then got pissed when you did? Man, that's just wrong.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #14040988 - 02/28/11 10:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Honestly your current GF sounds a little psycho.
She was probably baiting you to see what you would do.
Like a test.
Then again maybe she thought she would be OK with it and in the end started being jealous?

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I was so close to living out my fantasy I couldnt say no! I hung up my phone and turned it off. I immdiantly went to S and we made out until we got naked and I fucked her. The sex was kinda shitty as I had whisky dick and couldnt stay hard. Im still wondering if S will want to do this again, I really want to show her what I can do with my normal erection.




Probably should not have kept going if you wanted to keep the relationship :P

But then again she DID give you the green light...

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Tell my gf I dont want anyone else cept her and actually live it?
Tell her that and fuck S again anyway?
Tell T to fuck off and pursue S, even though she isnt really the type of girl I would want to date?

T is so amazing I can't believe this is happening. I love her but something inside me is really wanting to fuck the shit out of S. I thought if I could have banged S really good, she would like it enough to be open to the idea of playing with my gf too. Damn did that plan blow up in my face.

Help? What would jesus do?
What would YOU do?




Threesomes are always slightly risky business if one of the partners gets jealous. Thats why you should ALWAYS talk it over in great detail when you are sober.
I guess you really need to sit down and talk with T and basically tell her everything you said here.
Or say screw it, break up, fuck S, and get a GF more suited to you and your needs.

PS. Jesus would do:
Tell her that and fuck S again anyway?

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14041002 - 02/28/11 10:13 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Damn dude... that is shitty. I wonder if she was just testing you? I mean, tell her that she shouldn't of told you it was OK to do that shit. I mean really, its NOT your fault, she said to go out and do it. If you really love T, you shouldn't keep hooking up with S, but only if she is worth it to you. Trust me. I've learned the hard way. Things you do will come to bite you in the ass if it isn't right.

Good luck mate...try and reason with her. You were drunk/high and she gave you the OK :shrug:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Uzziel]
    #14041011 - 02/28/11 10:15 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Damn dude... that is shitty. I wonder if she was just testing you? I mean, tell her that she shouldn't of told you it was OK to do that shit. I mean really, its NOT your fault, she said to go out and do it. If you really love T, you shouldn't keep hooking up with S, but only if she is worth it to you. Trust me. I've learned the hard way. Things you do will come to bite you in the ass if it isn't right.

Good luck mate...try and reason with her. You were drunk/high and she gave you the OK :shrug:




And if she was trying to test you that is extremely deceptive and sneaky and I would kick her ass to the curb.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #14041597 - 02/28/11 12:19 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Would you want to find out T was fucking another guy? Even if you both agreed he was attractive?


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Lynnch]
    #14041617 - 02/28/11 12:22 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Would you want to find out T was fucking another guy? Even if you both agreed he was attractive?




What's to find out if he told her to fuck some other guy and then texted her while she and other guy were together and told her to give him a hand job.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Lynnch]
    #14041632 - 02/28/11 12:24 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Lynnch said:
Would you want to find out T was fucking another guy? Even if you both agreed he was attractive?




I assume this was in regards to my comment?

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Tymoteusz3
And if she was trying to test you that is extremely deceptive and sneaky and I would kick her ass to the curb.




If I thought "T" was fucking another guy, I would talk to her about it. Sneaking and setting up behind someones back undermines the entire relationship.

If you do not trust the other person you do NOT have a chance at a lasting relationship.

At least for me, in my relationships, I do not want to have to worry about what my partner is doing.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #14041688 - 02/28/11 12:33 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I guess my point is, how often do you get in a committed relationship where either party is really and truly ok with the other sleeping with someone else?

OP: You were supposed to say "Yea S sure is hot, but nowhere as near as hot as you baby"
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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Lynnch]
    #14041723 - 02/28/11 12:37 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Lynnch said:
I guess my point is, how often do you get in a committed relationship where either party is really and truly ok with the other sleeping with someone else?

OP: You were supposed to say "Yea S sure is hot, but nowhere as near as hot as you baby"
:facepalm:




I guess it depends on the relationship :smile:
But that aside, testing is not right, and anyone who engages in it should be kicked to the curb.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #14041933 - 02/28/11 01:08 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

It seems to me that you and T should have had this talk about you sleeping with S while you were both sober.

I honestly don't know how to go about handling your situation because I would not have slept with S.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Lynnch]
    #14042716 - 02/28/11 02:46 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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OP: You were supposed to say "Yea S sure is hot, but nowhere as near as hot as you baby"
:facepalm:




I agree. I think it's fucked up of T to try and bait/test you like that but honestly you were both drunk/high and she says maybe half jokingly "you should hook up with her" and you do, what do you expect? It sounds like you really like T why would you risk fucking it up with S even if she is hot?


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14042910 - 02/28/11 03:23 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

We can haz pics nao?


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #14043292 - 02/28/11 04:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

It sounds like your girlfriend didn't know where her boundaries were. She was probably ok with the idea of what you did, but the act itself probably pushed the boundaries more than she expected beforehand and she flipped out in turn. That's something I can actually relate to. I had a really nebulous relationship with this girl long ago. I didn't really consider us a couple, and I remember thinking that it wouldn't bother me if she hooked up with someone else. I'm not sure if I ever expressed that to her. But she did and I was, uh, devastated. It hit me like a ton of bricks for some reason. We ended up staying together for several years afterward...the whole episode definitely set the boundaries though, and added a lot of baggage that eventually drove us apart. Bottom line, infidelity wrecks relationships, but you don't understand the extent of that until it happens.

Just be single dude, or accept that relationships at your age are ephemeral.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals *DELETED* [Re: Lynnch]
    #14044687 - 02/28/11 07:35 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
    #14045461 - 02/28/11 09:29 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

You came out of your disguise..

but yea man, it seems to me like you don't love T as much as you put off.  If you loved her as intensely as you say you do, you wouldn't be thinking about ditching her for a hot piece of ass that you wouldn't date. :shrug:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Cynosure]
    #14046068 - 02/28/11 11:15 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Smash the fuck out of S, get over T.
I guarantee if you dont talk to her for say 5 days and answer a call on the 5'th with "hey, whatsup?" she will pretty much be saying IM SORRY, ITS MY FAULT, I WANT YOU BACK.
None of this bullshit ill have you back if you want me to take you back, no fuck THAT.
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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals *DELETED* [Re: azshroomer]
    #14047254 - 03/01/11 07:37 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
    #14047291 - 03/01/11 07:54 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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So much for being anonymous. Oh well these girls don't know how to use forums (No0bZ!) it should be fine.




Haha thats what I thought but it turned out they did lol


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #14047376 - 03/01/11 08:31 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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It sounds like your girlfriend didn't know where her boundaries were. She was probably ok with the idea of what you did, but the act itself probably pushed the boundaries more than she expected beforehand and she flipped out in turn. That's something I can actually relate to. I had a really nebulous relationship with this girl long ago. I didn't really consider us a couple, and I remember thinking that it wouldn't bother me if she hooked up with someone else. I'm not sure if I ever expressed that to her. But she did and I was, uh, devastated. It hit me like a ton of bricks for some reason. We ended up staying together for several years afterward...the whole episode definitely set the boundaries though, and added a lot of baggage that eventually drove us apart. Bottom line, infidelity wrecks relationships, but you don't understand the extent of that until it happens.

Just be single dude, or accept that relationships at your age are ephemeral.





This, nine times out of ten.

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: numonkei]
    #14048905 - 03/01/11 02:44 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Sounds like good problems.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #14049223 - 03/01/11 03:41 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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We can haz pics nao?




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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Lynnch]
    #14049410 - 03/01/11 04:10 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Lynnch said:
I guess my point is, how often do you get in a committed relationship where either party is really and truly ok with the other sleeping with someone else?

:facepalm:





I would suppose not very often.

But if a partner I was with claimed that our relationship was this type, I do believe I would take her word for it and act accordingly.

Though slowly, and openly, because I think anon 4 had one of the best points. If this wasn't a test (and if it was OP is dealing with a manipulator) then it was probably just the GF confusing her boundaries... which still ultimately lies on her own head...


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14053840 - 03/02/11 10:38 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Hey guys I updated with pics. Lemme know what you think


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14053855 - 03/02/11 10:41 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: automan]
    #14053880 - 03/02/11 10:47 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

If T is crazy and S is less crazy than T, mathematically the correct answer is S, presupposing that the crazyness level of T doesn't cause her to do you physical harm, and presupposing that S has a relatively constant level of crazy.

I'm pretty sure I saw this exact word problem in a math book back in High School.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: Humility]
    #14053973 - 03/02/11 11:05 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Looking at the pictures I would say go fuck the hell out of S.
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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS *DELETED* [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14054211 - 03/02/11 11:53 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I need some sex pics to further believe you :tongue:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: p4kSouL]
    #14055146 - 03/02/11 02:56 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

yo dawg you a playa dawg shiet son


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
    #14056141 - 03/02/11 06:07 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Would that make me a sleeze to put pics of my ex up?




Not at all. I will (and I am sure many others) will give you many gold mushrooms :laugh:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14056909 - 03/02/11 08:31 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i call that this is a huge troll..

Quote:

Anonymous said:


This is lovely Ms. T








This is sexy little S





So which would you choose?




So which would you choose?




all 5 of those pictures look  like 5 different girls  :nerd:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #14057436 - 03/02/11 10:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i dunno they probably are the same two tho they are looking pretty different in each


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: andrewss] * 1
    #14057642 - 03/02/11 11:20 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Man... I HATE those kinds of dillemas. 

And I'm not talking about that specific situation, but the jealousy part.

It's the jealousy dilemma that I hate.

A lot of my friends are quite.. alternativey types (as I imagine a lot of us here at the Shroomery are), and a lot of friends talk about orgies and threesomes (foursomes etc..) and getting naked for websites like ishotmyself and ifeelmyself and beautifulagony and being polyamorous and all sorts of things.

This all does my head in a little bit, because I get so confused where the lines are, I start to feel like I'm a goddamn prude in sexuality/relationships or something...


From what I've learnt from friends... a lot of people don't know their own lines either.  And they just get trashy and cross them like a motherfucker (ESPECIALLY if they fuck someone's mother, in fact).

Then they go and regret that shit later / break down in to tears about feeling "abused" or whatever.  Or they start to develop some kind of intimacy complex where they can't stand to be with one person for long periods of time.

Let me quickly get this straight.. As long as all parties involved are consenting adults, I have no problem with whatever the fuck people do.
 

It's just when shit gets into the personal territories that it becomes confusing.

I was dating a girl mid-last year who kind of wanted to experiment with the boundaries of a relationship, she was also interested in the underworld of the sex industry, and worked as a receptionist at a brothel for a while.
But, she also had SERIOUS issues with sex, and her body in general. 
Quite the headfuck hypocrasy.. I didn't know wtf was going on.  I just felt like I was being used for other things, emotional companion when she desired, but not really there for my own emotions.


I guess with these things it's always about communication - OPEN and HONEST communication.

And I don't think that inebriated states are a necessarily particularly good base point to make these strong emotional decisions from. 

The problem, by the sounds of it, was that when you discussed it, you were both inebriated and therefore both of you couldn't decide things properly. 
She said yes, then she goes back on it.  Somebody earlier mentioned that she probably liked the IDEA, but then it all sunk in.


Personally, I don't like to mess around with the emotional boundaries of the people I love.  I want them to KNOW I love them, and I consider sex and sexuality a VERY personal VERY vulnerable thing.  It's not all funsies.  (This is my prude part)... but I feel it's something special.  Procreation is the reason for sex.. and I think we enjoy sex because we are emotional creatures, so the enjoyment of eachother's company is important for our procreation. 
We, of course figured out ways to liberate the enjoyment, and there's no problem with that! 

But, I still think that we are subconscious beasts.  We want to mate and protect our mate. 
We are also emotional and intelligent creatures.. so we don't want to tie another person down if they want to experience all the freedoms of life.

We have quite the dichotomy going on....


Speak with T about your boundaries.  Ask her about hers.
Speak your mind about your desires, no matter how mad or jealous she may become. 

Everyone knows when there's something else going on in people's heads that they haven't mentioned.

And, Good luck!!!!


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: ZenXi6]
    #14057874 - 03/03/11 12:15 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i choose girl #5 :thumbup:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #14058406 - 03/03/11 04:36 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
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ChiefGreenLeaf
So much for being anonymous. Oh well these girls don't know how to use forums (No0bZ!) it should be fine.




Haha thats what I thought but it turned out they did lol




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Re: I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14060880 - 03/03/11 03:44 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Girl has got personality issues bro. Stay away from her. My ex was an amazing woman (yes woman she is 29) but apparently had some "hidden" ish personality issues that really came out with a several doses of MDMA. She told me that I could have sex with my ex; we'll call her K and my ex B. And, while the three of us messed around pretty heavily on a couple occasions, she still would get pissed off at K for being around and stuff. I never knew where to draw the line. Trust me bro, if you wanna have a threesome, do it OUTSIDE of a relationship. Don't bring that shit into a flowering relationship, no matter how bad you want it. It almost always ends poorly.

Sadly, my ex B was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, otherwise known as split personlities. And yes, sometimes it was like Jekyl and Hyde. I was pretty much forced to break up with her, it got to be unbearable. Just, if you love someone, don't fuck it up. You never know if you will ever find another like the one that you love. And having that over your head is an awful feeling.

Also. ALL BITCHES ARE CRAZY. It just depends on how well they can hide/manage it. But trust me, they're all whacky.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #14066444 - 03/04/11 01:55 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
    #14066488 - 03/04/11 02:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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i call that this is a huge troll..



:royalrainbow:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
    #14076823 - 03/06/11 05:47 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

holy fuck this is hysterical! i just read the title and the ops deleted txt. "FML" i didnt even get done readin it b4 i busted out laughin. holy shit, im puttin this as my sig. hahaha

:rofl::rofl::rofl:


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: tripp23]
    #14077035 - 03/06/11 06:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

lol i wonder if life finally caught up to the shroomery for this man.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals *DELETED* [Re: tripp23]
    #14077359 - 03/06/11 07:23 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
    #14080539 - 03/07/11 11:46 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Yeah you should dump your girl and fuck that hoe, or keep your girl and fuck that hoe, just lie to your gf. It's not that hard.


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Nemo_Hoes]
    #14097194 - 03/10/11 11:11 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

HAHAHA this thread makes me ROFL

So I'm fucking S and T both now!
T told me that an open relashionship is ok because I'm worth it
Don't you love happy endings!


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Re: I "cheated" on my gf. crazy sex scandals [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14097694 - 03/10/11 12:49 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I saved all of those pictures.


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