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Hakim0777
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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: badchad]
#14029554 - 02/26/11 09:48 AM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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why is it scumbaggy if he doesnt want to go? If you dont want to do something then dont do it.
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PeterGriffin467
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Just cuz it would more than likely hurt his moms feelings and he probably knows that so it would be kinda shitty if he didnt show up. Like others said tho OP if your mom is a nagging bitch and you dont have a good relationship then its not anything to worry about but if you and your mom get along well and she is a good mom I would show up just for a bit.
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Buckthorn
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I was gonna go to my mom's 50th birthday party....
....but then i got high
doo doo
I was gonna reply to all your comments....
....but then I got high high
bah dah dah
my mom was a bit dissaspointed,
but that's allright!
because i got high because i got high because i got high
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koraks
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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: nice1]
#14029661 - 02/26/11 10:15 AM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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nice1 said:
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koraks said: But human expectations are anything but fictional.
Scientology is real too ya know? It must be if an imaginary creation of the human mind is a physical construct to you. Time is not real, dates are not real, birthday celebrations are something we do based on a fictional belief set. If you raised a child without creating this fiction in their head then the concept of a yearly birthday celebration would not exist.
But if you raise a child in a society where birthdays are celebrated and the kid gets used to getting some special treatment on his birthday, then he'll expect that treatment every year. The whole birthday concept may still be fictional, but the fact that a human being has an expectation is everything but fictional. If you don't get this, you'll probably never grasp what I'm talking about. Which would be your loss. And the wolves'.
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Humility
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How would you feel if your mom died the day after her 50th birthday?
I try my best to show love to people whenever I see them because you never know what might happen. Some people's lives are so routine that they forget this, that only means that it's that much more of a jarring shock when it happens.
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LobsterSauce


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Stop being an oddball. You can play xbox later. Play ball.
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AlteredAgain
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circularvortex said:
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blah said:
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biff said: That would be a dick move not to go. Unless you have a VERY valid reason I suppose.. It's your mom man.
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nice1
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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: koraks]
#14029791 - 02/26/11 10:49 AM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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koraks said: the fact that a human being has an expectation is everything but fictional. If you don't get this, you'll probably never grasp what I'm talking about. Which would be your loss. And the wolves'.
The only person at a loss are the ones who believe in the fictional concept. If you see it for what it is then you can't lose anything because you realise it doesn't matter if the son comes to your birthday party or not and that this one action is not a reasonable thing to judge a person as "scumbag or good son" on.
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LobsterSauce


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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: nice1]
#14029816 - 02/26/11 10:54 AM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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People mean a lot to other people. As such,celebrating their existence once a year is a nice thing to do. Your own mother especially.
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13.step
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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: nice1]
#14030040 - 02/26/11 11:52 AM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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No, it's your loss, because I get a present and get to spend quality time with my friends, while you're still wondering if wolves have birthdays...
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smokesnugz
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If your mom's a cunt that hasn't contributed to any of your well being of positive energy, I'd say fuck it.. If it's the opposite and she's a decent person and a typical mother.. I'd definitely go.. Yes you'd be a bit of a douchebag not to... And forealz dude.. Are they prudes or what?? There's gotta be a chance of free food and booze..
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nice1
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People waiting for the day they feel good, happy birthday, happy birthday.
Kinda sad that people have to have a special day to tell them to visit and respect a family member. All it really says to me is how destroyed the family unit has become by the system of modern living thats been forced upon us.
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DrMambo
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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: nice1]
#14030292 - 02/26/11 12:44 PM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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it's not deep, man, just fun
I love partying it up and acting like a clown for an arbitrary reason
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markofthebeast



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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: nice1]
#14030415 - 02/26/11 01:10 PM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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nice1 said:
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koraks said: the fact that a human being has an expectation is everything but fictional. If you don't get this, you'll probably never grasp what I'm talking about. Which would be your loss. And the wolves'.
The only person at a loss are the ones who believe in the fictional concept. If you see it for what it is then you can't lose anything because you realise it doesn't matter if the son comes to your birthday party or not and that this one action is not a reasonable thing to judge a person as "scumbag or good son" on.
You sound like everybody forgot your birthday in the past or something.
How is it a fictional concept though? It was the day you were born, a day that only comes once a year, and an excuse to get hammered with your friends and have a great time. Just because it's a normal day for you, and you obviously don't care about others' feelings, doesn't mean OP's mom wouldnt find it disrespectful for her own son to not show up to her special day.
You can say that the days of the week are fictional concepts and serve no purpose as well. But you can also live a boring-ass life living day to day never celebrating any holidays, and ultimately wind up as a depressed old man looking back at the good times he could have had. Life is about enjoying yourself, not about being an overly analytical, uncaring individual like yourself.
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Dunno
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so did the OP go?
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Enjoywho
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Quote:
Enpo said: I was gonna go to my mom's 50th birthday party....
....but then i got high
doo doo
I was gonna reply to all your comments....
....but then I got high high
bah dah dah
my mom was a bit dissaspointed,
but that's allright!
because i got high because i got high because i got high
And nice1
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nice1
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Re: Am I a scumbag [Re: Enjoywho]
#14037278 - 02/27/11 05:45 PM (13 years, 5 days ago) |
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TY
I know, I know
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