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Parents smoking pot?
#14017774 - 02/24/11 01:10 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Hey shroomery, I need some advice. First a little back story:
My dad and I have never been too close. I mean, I love him very much and he's been a great father, we just never really got close to the point where I felt comfortable sharing personal details about my life with him. The same goes for my mom. Maybe it's just me. Regardless, him and I have a good relationship. My parents divorced a little over a year ago, and I live at home with my dad. It's just the two of us here.
Well, one day I was in my dad's room looking for this huge jar of quarters he keeps stashed away (so I can't steal any), and I stumbled upon a coke can that had been bent and made into a make-shift pipe. This kind of surprised me, as I didn't picture my dad as the weed smoking type. He likes to drink, but I never suspected him of smoking. Hahah, I thought it would be funny if one day I went in and replaced the coke can with my pipe to see what he says 
After that I was determined to find his stash (not to steal any, just so I could check out what kind of quality weed he had), but to no avail. This made me think that maybe his girlfriend was the one who was the smoker...but tonight I found a nice looking bag in my truck that my dad forgot about (i pinched a little nug so I can smoke it to see what he's workin with here)
Well, now I'm sort of torn. I am a regular smoker, and I don't know if my dad knows or not! I have reason to believe that he knows I smoke (my room sometimes gets pretty dank from grinding up weed), but I just can't be sure. One time he walked in my room while my buddy was over and he said "hey, why does it smell like weed in here??" and I just looked at him and shrugged my shoulders. As if that's not solid enough proof, right? 
I want to say something to him, but I just don't know how to bring it up, or what I would say once I did. We're going to Las Vegas for my 21st birthday in a week, I figure that would be a good time to spark up a conversation about it. Anyone have parents that smoke? Any advice shroomery??
tl;dr - I found out my dad smokes pot and don't know how to approach him about it.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14017787 - 02/24/11 01:13 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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from what it sounds like, you know he smokes, he in all likelihood knows you smoke, and you're about to turn 21. I don't see what you could possibly lose by asking your dad if he wants to smoke together with you...
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Pigasus]
#14017798 - 02/24/11 01:18 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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just wait till he catches u smoking and offer him a toke
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
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My dad smoked before he passed away, to be honest and we smoked together a few times, I wouldn't say that's the right thing to do in this situation because from then on he treated me like his buddy, and he wasn't a father to me anymore, in a sense.
First off, he probably knows you smoke. My dad knew I smoked without me telling him, and I thought I had done a perfect job hiding it. You can casually bring it up, but tread lightly. I would say since you're going to Vegas, to wait til he's liquored up and slip it into a conversation but that would seem a little deceiving. You can mention some friends of yours smoking, ask his opinion on it. Ask him what he thinks about parents smoking, you know, just ease into it. If you just start bombarding him with questions he's likely to either deny it or get extremely defensive.
I don't think anyone will have the perfect advice for you here, you're the only one who knows your dad, we don't know what kind of reaction he will have in this situation. But like I said, just tread lightly and keep in mind that it might be a real problem for him, maybe it's his escape, just like it's a lot of other people's escapes. Hope it all works out.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Jukon]
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you would be surprised but divorce can fuckin change people you and your pa might see eye to eye more because he might have felt trapped or required to be concealed when he was involved in his marriage but now your really his priority... to see you succeed or just plain happy before he dies someday is his real goal don't think any different. ive seen this happen to a friend with a real snobby mom and after his dad left she decide that she would experiment with pot when my friend found out he was completly open about his habit and eventually they both quit together for the most part but she surprises him with some on holidays lol
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over a plant... and you stepping into real adult hood, I would want my son to tell me and not feel like he had to hide something that we both obviously accepted. That thin ice shit is no good, only the full truth will make it right between you two.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14017878 - 02/24/11 01:43 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said: I went in and replaced the coke can with my pipe to see what he says 
Do that, or buy him a cheapo glasser for himself.
aluminum cans are bad to smoke 
maybe he'll pay you in quarters
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14017882 - 02/24/11 01:45 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Stealing money from your dad.
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Grungeman17 said: over a plant... and you stepping into real adult hood, I would want my son to tell me and not feel like he had to hide something that we both obviously accepted. That thin ice shit is no good, only the full truth will make it right between you two.
I am just wary because of some experiences I've had in the past. I ALWAYS pictured my dad as an anti-pot type of guy. I also don't want to make things awkward between us, because what if my dad doesn't want me to know about his use? He's obviously hiding it from me. I figure if my dad wanted me to know, he would tell me... Then again I don't know...maybe he's waiting til vegas to bring it up to me! bleeehhhhQuote:
AlmostAsCoolAs said: Stealing money from your dad.
stealing quarters for the bus to go to work  I make my own money
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where I come from, even if your parents didn't agree with what you do they expect you to be a man and tell them because thats what real men do what real families do... I would feel like the bigest peice of shit father there was if my son couldn't tell me something he really wanted to.
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My dad smokes weed 1-2 year. Mom doesn't. Once I got into college they encouraged it because I wasn't drinking and it's much healthier.
Then again I got strung out as fuck couple years later, but they don't see any connection between that and weed. They are fine with it.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14017902 - 02/24/11 01:52 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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approach him about. i wish i had a chance like this. you do. so make something of it.
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Grungeman17 said: where I come from, even if your parents didn't agree with what you do they expect you to be a man and tell them because thats what real men do what real families do... I would feel like the bigest peice of shit father there was if my son couldn't tell me something he really wanted to.
well we obviously have very different families. my dad has never been emotional with me. I've never talked to him about my problems, etc. To be honest I never talked to either of my parents about my problems. I just don't feel comfortable doing it, because my parents were never very responsive, or very busy with work. I've also always had this thing of solving my problems by myself, so I never really reached out for help from them. It's an interesting relationship.
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you hold your ground man... prove to him that he raised one, i know this situation all to well and i can tell you now that "awkwardness" your afraid of manififest itself hiding or avoiding the truth. jesus is right... this will enpower you when you know you talked man to man with your dad and said what was up.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14017920 - 02/24/11 01:57 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Grungeman17 said: where I come from, even if your parents didn't agree with what you do they expect you to be a man and tell them because thats what real men do what real families do... I would feel like the bigest peice of shit father there was if my son couldn't tell me something he really wanted to.
well we obviously have very different families. my dad has never been emotional with me. I've never talked to him about my problems, etc. To be honest I never talked to either of my parents about my problems. I just don't feel comfortable doing it, because my parents were never very responsive, or very busy with work. I've also always had this thing of solving my problems by myself, so I never really reached out for help from them. It's an interesting relationship.
he's just trying to not let on that he's stoned out of his gourd
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14017930 - 02/24/11 01:59 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Personally i WOULDNT approach him. Just get high as possible and wait till he calls you out.
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MisterMuscaria said: Personally i WOULDNT approach him. Just get high as possible and wait till he calls you out.
I get high every day. I'm around him all the time while ripped out of my mind... I am pretty sure I can tell when he's high too, but he's never called me out.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14017972 - 02/24/11 02:09 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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GIVE HIM SOME GLASS!
It's your Dad, don't let him rip coke cans.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: DrMambo]
#14017978 - 02/24/11 02:11 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Many people have their reasons for not carrying or using glass.
I know a guy who blows glass djembes but he smokes out of coke cans.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: DrMambo]
#14017984 - 02/24/11 02:12 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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let him 'find' your weed?
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
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have you tripped before on shrooms? because this shit would eat me the fuck up if i were you, no offense to you at all but if that shit was on my chest trippin when answers started hitting me it would emotionally smash my face in. not just the pot thing... i would hunt him down and ask him face to face... why the silence for so long?
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But, damn, correlation between aluminium and alzheimers or not, I can't imagine those fumes are good for your noggin.
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Grungeman17 said: have you tripped before on shrooms? because this shit would eat me the fuck up if i were you, no offense to you at all but if that shit was on my chest trippin when answers started hitting me it would emotionally smash my face in. not just the pot thing... i would hunt him down and ask him face to face... why the silence for so long?
I've tripped on shrooms many...many times. I have a good relationship with my dad. I understand him, and where he's coming from, and why he is the way he is. His father was a horrible dad. He beat my dad (not badly, but some), and basically dismissed my dad as a failure for not following his dads wishes. My dad was written out of his fathers will...his family was never receptive of his feelings either, so he never learned how to express them. I do see the ways he shows me he loves me, we just don't have contact on that emotional level like a lot of other people do with their parents.
It's tough to find a good way to bring this up other than just flat out saying "let's get this on the table...I know you smoke weed, I smoke weed..." I'm just nervous about how he'd reply to me.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
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it seems like you and your dad have a very similar relationship as me and my dad. only difference was i lived with my mom. i ended up getting caught smoking a handful of times though and my mom absolutely hated it, but my dad never really made a big deal about it. eventually my stepmom told me that she and he smoked too, so the thought of smoking with him/them was always in the back of my mind as well.
then one day on a car ride home (not long after getting caught again) i just threw it out there, "hey dad, would you ever smoke with me?" he seemed kind of taken aback by the question and didn't really give a direct answer, just like "wow, phew, wow, well gee how'd you even know i smoke? you know your mom would absolutely hate something like this, etc etc." next day (also my last day before leaving to college), he calls me up and asks if i wanna come over and 'hang out' so i knew what that meant and headed over. we smoked and chatted, he told me stories and gave me a beer. it was all very strange, but it was pretty chill.
i've only smoked with him once since then, but i'm guessing i probably will next time i see him. id say we're definitely closer now, but whoever mentioned that he'll be more of a buddy to you is right. my dad started acting a lot more like we were pals after that. not that thats a bad thing, but i think its just something in dads that they wanna feel like they're actually friends with their son, not just a guardian, and smoking with him would definitely bridge that gap. so i dunno man, take whatever you want from that lil anecdote, but i hope it all goes well for ya.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Natorade]
#14018089 - 02/24/11 02:48 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Natorade said: it seems like you and your dad have a very similar relationship as me and my dad. only difference was i lived with my mom. i ended up getting caught smoking a handful of times though and my mom absolutely hated it, but my dad never really made a big deal about it. eventually my stepmom told me that she and he smoked too, so the thought of smoking with him/them was always in the back of my mind as well.
then one day on a car ride home (not long after getting caught again) i just threw it out there, "hey dad, would you ever smoke with me?" he seemed kind of taken aback by the question and didn't really give a direct answer, just like "wow, phew, wow, well gee how'd you even know i smoke? you know your mom would absolutely hate something like this, etc etc." next day (also my last day before leaving to college), he calls me up and asks if i wanna come over and 'hang out' so i knew what that meant and headed over. we smoked and chatted, he told me stories and gave me a beer. it was all very strange, but it was pretty chill.
i've only smoked with him once since then, but i'm guessing i probably will next time i see him. id say we're definitely closer now, but whoever mentioned that he'll be more of a buddy to you is right. my dad started acting a lot more like we were pals after that. not that thats a bad thing, but i think its just something in dads that they wanna feel like they're actually friends with their son, not just a guardian, and smoking with him would definitely bridge that gap. so i dunno man, take whatever you want from that lil anecdote, but i hope it all goes well for ya.
Well I work with my dad installing carpet and other types of construction, and I've been doing that since I was like 13. We also work at the same bar, bartending so he's always sort of been like a buddy to me, and was usually way less strict than my mom growing up. He coached my baseball team for a few years, so we definitely have a good friendship.
I think my dad would probably respond well if I asked him about it, but I just don't wanna step onto unknown territory like that. Idk, I'm just apprehensive.
Side note: his weed isn't too bad
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: DrMambo]
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DrMambo said: But, damn, correlation between aluminium and alzheimers or not, I can't imagine those fumes are good for your noggin.
If I remember correctly aluminum doesn't give off fumes at the temperatures a lighter normally reaches, I think the paint or whatever it is that coats and covers the can is probably worse than the aluminum itself.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Pigasus]
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If you're apprehensive about it, then I would do it in a sort of indirect way.
Like when he's reading the newspaper or a book, walk up to him and be like "Hey dad, here's some glass, soda cans are bad for your health." and then walk away. 
But seriously, get him some glass
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Yeah, if I knew my dad smoked pot out of a can, I would definitely get him some glass. I think it would be a great conversation piece
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Ralafe]
#14020584 - 02/24/11 03:26 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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thanks for all the replies, I think I'm gonna get him a piece as a gift...hopefully it'll be a good ice breaker.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
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I don't think there's any way I could ever smoke with my parents. It would just be too completely bizarre.
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Agreed. Though we had intense debates over my substance use as a teenager that sort of alienated me from the family.  I would kind of feel betrayed if it turned out they smoke, but I know they don't.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
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Sigh, my parents think you can't achieve anything if you smoke pot, apparently they haven't heard of moderation.
But yeah, I don't mix weed and calculus. Writing, reading comprehension, sure. Some things it can even make marginally interesting enough to keep you focused.
I mean, seriously people, how many times do you expect me to read god damn Shakespeare and still have it be interesting unless I'm stoned or sketched on adderal something???
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: DrMambo]
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DrMambo said: But, damn, correlation between aluminium and alzheimers or not, I can't imagine those fumes are good for your noggin.
It's burning the paint that's bad for you. A flame will not release particulate aluminium from anodized sheets of it until you're at the melting point, if I understand chemistry at all. The only time I ever smoked out of a can we used a tallboy and filled the top level with weed and used it very carefully like a gravity bong.
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AlmostAsCoolAs said: Stealing money from your dad.
Stealing quarters no less. Wtf? What, were you gunna steal one and go down to the gas station to buy a loosey?
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
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Grungeman17 said: over a plant... and you stepping into real adult hood, I would want my son to tell me and not feel like he had to hide something that we both obviously accepted. That thin ice shit is no good, only the full truth will make it right between you two.
I am just wary because of some experiences I've had in the past. I ALWAYS pictured my dad as an anti-pot type of guy. I also don't want to make things awkward between us, because what if my dad doesn't want me to know about his use? He's obviously hiding it from me. I figure if my dad wanted me to know, he would tell me... Then again I don't know...maybe he's waiting til vegas to bring it up to me! bleeehhhh
He's probably not going to tell you. The relationship's going to be slightly more akward anyway because you now know. Bet he's stressed about where his bag went though. He might even have an idea where he left it.
If it was me, when I found the bag in the truck I would have joked with him about it for a bit, given it to him, and asked if he wanted to smoke some.
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Stealing quarters no less. Wtf? What, were you gunna steal one and go down to the gas station to buy a loosey? 
I had to take the bus downtown to go to work and I didn't have any money. I tell him when I steal his money and pay it back, it's only like $2...he doesn't care.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
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oh, haha
you made it sound like you steal from him all the time and he's resorted to hiding his money so you dont take it
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14021075 - 02/24/11 05:06 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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LOL, my father, when I got out of Navy bootcamp, took me over to a farmer he knew, go me some dank bud and a bit of oil. My father said, he used to smoke in the 40's and listen to jazz bands.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14021086 - 02/24/11 05:08 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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i say go for it man.
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Anthony917
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: MelloRed]
#14021102 - 02/24/11 05:11 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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StaleShrooms said: oh, haha
you made it sound like you steal from him all the time and he's resorted to hiding his money so you dont take it 
hahah well he DID hide the jar of quarters, but he's a bastard lol I don't actually steal
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Grungeman17 said: over a plant... and you stepping into real adult hood, I would want my son to tell me and not feel like he had to hide something that we both obviously accepted. That thin ice shit is no good, only the full truth will make it right between you two.
I am just wary because of some experiences I've had in the past. I ALWAYS pictured my dad as an anti-pot type of guy. I also don't want to make things awkward between us, because what if my dad doesn't want me to know about his use? He's obviously hiding it from me. I figure if my dad wanted me to know, he would tell me... Then again I don't know...maybe he's waiting til vegas to bring it up to me! bleeehhhh
He's probably not going to tell you. The relationship's going to be slightly more akward anyway because you now know. Bet he's stressed about where his bag went though. He might even have an idea where he left it.
If it was me, when I found the bag in the truck I would have joked with him about it for a bit, given it to him, and asked if he wanted to smoke some.
yea I should have said somethin when I found the sack...but oh well. I don't care at all that he smokes obviously, and actually I think it's kinda funny. we'll see...Im thinking of just buying him a pipe and seeing what he says. smoking outta cans
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The Todd
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Anthony917]
#14021117 - 02/24/11 05:13 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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We have very similar parental situations. Me n my fam are good, we get along and love eachother. But we were never close emotionally. I never came to them for advice (even tho they gave me plenty I didn't ask for). My dad smokes and my parents found out I smoke in my last year of college, and I can smoke freely with my friends at the crib now.
Me n pops have never smoked together, and its still an awkward situation, but we do discuss weed every once in a while. And we have both helped eachother out in a drought.
I would say if u are gonna do it, just be straight up about it. Don't be sneaky. I don't think that's how u wanna start that part of your relationship.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: The Todd]
#14142444 - 03/18/11 10:20 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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My mom has smoked for years, my dad did for awhile too apparently. Of course now that they caught me my mom told me she couldn't be a hypocrite and all about her LSD trip and how my dad was big into coke for a couple of years. Well, now that I have decided to stop, just cause it's not something I totally enjoy, my mom uses my old pipe and my dad knows nothing of the wiser.
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Re: Parents smoking pot? [Re: Takura001]
#14142721 - 03/18/11 11:20 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Tell him you got da bombest shit in da world. EVER. And go from there.
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