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Anonymous #1
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Girlfriend talks/txt wayy too much.
#14008982 - 02/22/11 06:03 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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So I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now and I moved up to be with her. I love her so much and have never felt a connection with a person as intense as with her. We did long distance for a while and I thought that living with her would help to ease up on the amount of time she feels is necessary for us to be in communication, but it is driving me a bit crazy.
I know that her calling/texting me so much is purely out of love, and possibly a bit of insecurity... but I can't seem to get it across to her that it is driving me crazy. I just have to ignore her calls to be able to get my work done. Any time I try to bring it up to her she feels that I am not empathetic enough with her and that I don't listen, etc. Most of it is just her venting or wanting love, but sometimes I can literally set the phone down for 5+mins and not say a word with her just going on and on. When we were in long distance, it ran up my minutes & txt's so high that I had to pay an enormous bill. I don't know what to do, I can't really bring it up with her and I can only ignore so much. We both love each other soooo much, but I feel like it is a huge problem for the long term future. It is just part of her personality that she can't really change, so I guess I have to accept it or leave it. Anyway, I just wanted a bit of advice with anybody who has been through a similar experience.
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Krez
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Re: Girlfriend talks/txt wayy too much. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14009017 - 02/22/11 06:09 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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How old is she and does she work?
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Re: Girlfriend talks/txt wayy too much. [Re: Krez]
#14009054 - 02/22/11 06:18 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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If she's talking a lot, you should always have a bag of Laffy Taffy handy. (Hedberg reference)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Girlfriend talks/txt wayy too much. [Re: Moronicus]
#14009071 - 02/22/11 06:21 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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She is 23 and she goes to school and works close to fulltime.
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Re: Girlfriend talks/txt wayy too much. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14009277 - 02/22/11 07:05 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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You have to tell her tactfully. Maybe next time you are cuddling on the couch or something, tell her in a sweet way that you need your space and that the time apart is what makes time together that much better. You have to put your foot down one way or another
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Re: Girlfriend talks/txt wayy too much. [Re: Rebirtha]
#14009404 - 02/22/11 07:29 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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