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Nordique
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my Girlfriend and I just broke up.
#14004919 - 02/21/11 11:50 PM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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not a b'awww thread. It's about time.
She has always been paranoid, I got tired of it, so I just did stuff until she broke up with me.
She's accused me of recording our phone conversations and shit. It's just bizarre.
So finally I was just a total dick to her so she would break up with me. I would have just ended it myself, but she would never let me, and she would be heartbroken if I dumped her. I care about her, she's just too paranoid and shit.
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LoveYourLife
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14004942 - 02/21/11 11:54 PM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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Maybe she's developing Schizophrenia? Haha that's a very strange thing to accuse somebody of without reason.
But dude being a dick to somebody to make them break up with you is so much worse. I've done it to somebody before as well as experienced it and the effects of that linger. If you want her to really get over you and learn from it you need to tell her the honest truth about why things didn't work out. It's especially more important to the female psyche I believe.
That's what somebody who really cares would do, but that's just my opinion of course.
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: LoveYourLife]
#14004950 - 02/21/11 11:56 PM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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umm does she have a record of heavy meth use?
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Nordique
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: LoveYourLife]
#14004954 - 02/21/11 11:57 PM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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I know, what I did was an asshole thing, but she's already trying to patch things up with me. She wants to be friends now, which I'm okay with. She's weird as fuck, I know.
had I broken up with her, she would have hated my guts forever. She's a sweet girl, jsut a bit off her head.
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shallowbastard
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: LoveYourLife]
#14004970 - 02/22/11 12:00 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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LoveYourLife said: Maybe she's developing Schizophrenia? Haha that's a very strange thing to accuse somebody of without reason.
But dude being a dick to somebody to make them break up with you is so much worse.
wrong. that's actually the best way to break up with somebody. you see she already wants to be friends. just keep on doing what you're doing kid, move on into bigger and better things.
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shallowbastard
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and when i say 'bigger' i don't mean obese
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meatcakeman
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14004979 - 02/22/11 12:03 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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she sounds like my first gf. now, she's a mom and married to some dude that's not even the father of her baby just cause he has money.
you did the right thing.
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Nordique
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: meatcakeman]
#14004995 - 02/22/11 12:06 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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Update. Now she says she wants to get back together, and that she wants to give a me a second chance. sigh.
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shallowbastard
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14005000 - 02/22/11 12:07 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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there you have it. prove that they love being treated like shit.
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rackem



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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14005001 - 02/22/11 12:07 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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fuck that... ex for a reason.l
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Nordique
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: rackem]
#14005012 - 02/22/11 12:09 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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I didn't treat her that badly though. I just played into her paranoid weirdness. I'm not going to get back together with her.
now she's crying. She wants to come over to my house now. fail.
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meatcakeman
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14005013 - 02/22/11 12:10 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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Nordique said: Update. Now she says she wants to get back together, and that she wants to give a me a second chance. sigh.
this also happened to me as well. don't do it. she's an obvious succubus.
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shallowbastard
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14005015 - 02/22/11 12:10 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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that's okay. that means that shes willing to do shit for you. just don't get back with her.. yet.
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meatcakeman
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14005018 - 02/22/11 12:11 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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Nordique said: I didn't treat her that badly though. I just played into her paranoid weirdness. I'm not going to get back together with her.
now she's crying. She wants to come over to my house now. fail.
LOL she's playing the typical emotionally hurt girl card. two options: give in or don't give in. choose wisely.
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Nordique
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: meatcakeman]
#14005027 - 02/22/11 12:12 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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So what I should do if she shows up?
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ShroomXolomilco
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: rackem]
#14005033 - 02/22/11 12:13 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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Hahahaha this thread is hillarious. This girl you're talking about sounds kinda dumb IMO.
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shallowbastard
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14005037 - 02/22/11 12:14 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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fuck her, then tell her you need to stay friends for now
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meatcakeman
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: Nordique]
#14005044 - 02/22/11 12:15 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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Nordique said: So what I should do if she shows up?
well, if she's coming over, she's doing it for a reason. be the better man. comfort her, be there for her as a friend, but don't give in to it. tell her you need time to clear your head a bit. give her a real and genuine reason why you don't believe it would work out right now.
if she's looking for a friend, be one. but if she's asking you to do something you don't want to do, don't do it.
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if you tell her you want to brreak up i dont think she'll give a shit
unless she hears a song or somethign
but then she'll jus listen to new music
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Nordique
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Re: my Girlfriend and I just broke up. [Re: meatcakeman]
#14005062 - 02/22/11 12:17 AM (13 years, 11 days ago) |
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She's not dumb, she just never had anyone love her until me. Her dad abused her and her mom hated her. So, I'll comfort her. good suggestions. She just said she's on her way
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