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So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other...
#14004783 - 02/21/11 11:25 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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The title isn't 100% accurate so read before you respond.
I met this dude a while ago in one of my classes, we'll call him P. P was a stoner type; a chill, kind of quiet, soft-spoken guy. P and I kicked it a few times before and after class, and he was a nice enough guy so I'd hit him up from time to time. One night, him and I were hanging out at his crib and his girlfriend shows up, we'll call her K.
I'll pause it right here and throw in some backstory before continuing: P and K have been together for like 4 or something years. They have a kid together, and at this point in the story they are in the process of moving to live in the same apartment. Back to the story:
So I was introduced to K, and for the rest of the night we all just hung out and conversed and smoked some. I instantly got great vibes from K, and she did the same from me.
After meeting K for the first time that night, when P and I hung out, K would join in progressively more and more until the norm was the three of us hanging out. Then I introduced them to ecstasy... I've rolled countless times, it was their firsts. We all rolled together and all got really close after that night. We started hanging out more and more, soon after they moved into that apartment together and I would be over all the time.
I started feeling like K was into me. It was fucking weird, because I'd never stab a friend in the back like that so I didn't have any bad intentions or anything, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit that she was very pretty. And for some reason me and her just CLICKED, that's the best way I could describe it, we just clicked and played off each other's energy really well. I didn't really see that going on with her and P... When the three of us would be hanging out her and I would go on endless streaks of jokes and just be laughing our asses off while P was kind of out of the loop. Me and P were still cool, and hung out alone at times, but the way me and him vibed was a candle compared to the inferno K and I shared. P would also start picking up some of my mannerisms, clothing style, etc. It felt weird 
Slowly, she started showing this affection towards me... When we would all drink, she would get super touchy with me, right in front of P. She would compliment my looks and my body and everything... P never really reacted to her saying these things. I was quite uncomfortable, and really tried my best not to respond to her, but she was really sexy...
Eventually this turned to her pecking me on the lips! I didn't know how to feel. P witnessed all of this and was completely okay with it. I NEVER, not once, initiated any kissing or anything inappropriate, it was all her. Swear!
Eventually when we would get drunk and P had to go somewhere for a bit or we had some alone time we would talk about what was going on. It was finally brought out in the open and we both admitted that we just have these weird feelings toward each other like we click really well and it's becoming more and more obvious. She tells me she has trouble keeping her hands off me, and is constantly turned on by me and thinks I'm incredibly sexy. She tells me I'm the guy I'd be with if it wasn't for P. She would tell me how she liked to have sex and how much she loved getting fucked.
In a way I feel guilty but I didn't do anything wrong... me and her just clicked fabulously and it's not my fault P and I or P and her didn't have the same connection. I feel bad P was out of the loop but the energy me and her had was just amazing!
Eventually, things went sour. There was a fight between the three of us, and I counted on everything working out in the end, but when I tried to fix things, the only thing keeping things from going back to normal was K. K wasn't having it and was making stupid excuses as to why not to be my friend. We didn't talk since.
I really think it was because K couldn't handle her feelings towards me anymore and had to force things to end. It kind of sucks, but what can I do. Thanks for listening, Shroomery, I had to get all of that off my chance because I never told really anyone this cuz I don't want them getting the wrong impression of me.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... *DELETED* [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004789 - 02/21/11 11:27 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Post deleted by suiReason for deletion: Im getting sick of seeing, DSHSB as a reply to every post. if you dont have anything to add dont post.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Doc_T]
#14004794 - 02/21/11 11:28 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Too late, we don't talk anymore.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004803 - 02/21/11 11:29 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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You should of asked her to date you. I know it's a douche move, but hey, sometimes you only find the right girl once. Good read.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Uzziel]
#14004827 - 02/21/11 11:33 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thanks for reading. Ugh, it's been a few months since we all fell out and stopped talking but I still think about her sometimes. I really did feel a little bit of love towards her, she was an amazing person. We would sometimes hang out just me and her, and we would laugh so fucking much together that my stomach would literally hurt.
The fact that they had a child made anything like that impossible in my eyes
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004837 - 02/21/11 11:35 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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You don't know how happy I am to hear this... So many guys/chicks come on here posting this EXACT SAME FUCKING STORY except it ends with them fucking the girl.
It's refreshing to see it doesn't happen 100% of the time.
The girls in the other stories, after getting their cake (and eating it of course) eventually use the poster as a launching board to become promiscuos. This wouldn't be wholly bad, if the girls weren't using emotional men to get their jollies. Then just fucking them over (not fucking them.)
Bark!
You don't know how happy I am to hear this... So many guys/chicks come on here posting this EXACT SAME FUCKING STORY except it ends with them fucking the girl.
It's refreshing to see it doesn't happen 100% of the time.
The girls in the other stories, after getting their cake (and eating it of course) eventually use the poster as a launching board to become promiscuos. This wouldn't be wholly bad, if the girls weren't using emotional men to get their jollies. Then just fucking them over (not fucking them.)
Bark!
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004840 - 02/21/11 11:36 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I don't really know what I'd do in that situation
I guess if you and K did get together, you'd both feel guilty. That could have been trouble in the future
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Uzziel]
#14004845 - 02/21/11 11:37 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I made this exact post on here about four years ago. It's always a shitty situation, and very rarely ends well.
I don't talk to the couple from my situation either, they are now married with a kid. I on the other hand and am in a really good 2+ year relationship now.
Still think about her though from time to time.....
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004847 - 02/21/11 11:37 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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rough situation. very similar to the one im in currently.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004848 - 02/21/11 11:37 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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damn I wasn't expecting it to end like that while I was reading it. Bummer. There is something there though between you too, definitely try to pick it up again. You don't find too many girls that you can vibe with like that too often, well for me at least.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Todcasil]
#14004861 - 02/21/11 11:40 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I probably could have fucked her, and I definitely fantasized about it, but I would never, ever do that to a friend of mine.
It ended with P, again, being out of the loop, and K and I knowing truly why this tripod couldn't stay up.
And Big Worm, I really rarely vibe with girls this well too. Since I experienced my first love a few years ago I haven't ever come close to feeling this way about a girl.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004871 - 02/21/11 11:41 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've seen this a few times with friends, and once in my own life and countles posts about it on the Shroomery;
So far, about 85% of the time, the girl doesn't care about anyones feelings but their own. It just how it is.
That girl wouldn have been with you; for years possibly, but always until she gets bored and picks someone else. Straight up put the hate up.
Girls like that are no mans friends, especially if you wear your heart on your sleeve. 
Meow.
I've seen this a few times with friends, and once in my own life and countles posts about it on the Shroomery;
So far, about 85% of the time, the girl doesn't care about anyones feelings but their own. It just how it is.
That girl wouldn have been with you; for years possibly, but always until she gets bored and picks someone else. Straight up put the hate up.
Girls like that are no mans friends, especially if you wear your heart on your sleeve. 
Meow.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004876 - 02/21/11 11:42 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said: Thanks for reading. Ugh, it's been a few months since we all fell out and stopped talking but I still think about her sometimes. I really did feel a little bit of love towards her, she was an amazing person. We would sometimes hang out just me and her, and we would laugh so fucking much together that my stomach would literally hurt.
The fact that they had a child made anything like that impossible in my eyes
True. Thinking about that, a child changes everything.
Still, sometimes in life, things don't come around twice. Sometimes they do though. Sounds like you're gonna have to find that one again... but don't worry, me too.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Todcasil]
#14004882 - 02/21/11 11:43 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Guys can we talk about the fact that THEY HAVE A KID? I feel like this really changes everything and should be kept in mind more
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004890 - 02/21/11 11:44 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said: I probably could have fucked her, and I definitely fantasized about it, but I would never, ever do that to a friend of mine.
It ended with P, again, being out of the loop, and K and I knowing truly why this tripod couldn't stay up.
And Big Worm, I really rarely vibe with girls this well too. Since I experienced my first love a few years ago I haven't ever come close to feeling this way about a girl.
That's tough man, because the truth is that passions like that rarely last. They burn out, and it is amazing to be with someoene like that... So part of me is OK with how these normally end, but the other part of me feels bummed for the third wheel.
That's tough man, because the truth is that passions like that rarely last. They burn out, and it is amazing to be with someoene like that... So part of me is OK with how these normally end, but the other part of me feels bummed for the third wheel.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004891 - 02/21/11 11:44 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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How old were they when they had the kid?
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004903 - 02/21/11 11:45 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Someone must have been telling lies about K...
(epic kafka reference.)
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004904 - 02/21/11 11:46 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said: Guys can we talk about the fact that THEY HAVE A KID? I feel like this really changes everything and should be kept in mind more
You should keep in mind the fact that having a kid won't stop a girl or guy from fucking someone else. MANY TIMES OVER.
In theory the kid should matter, but in reality it's a 50/50 bet.
You should keep in mind the fact that having a kid won't stop a girl or guy from fucking someone else. MANY TIMES OVER.
In theory the kid should matter, but in reality it's a 50/50 bet.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Todcasil]
#14004912 - 02/21/11 11:47 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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PS I had kids with my ex-wife, didn't stop her ass from fucking a seventeen year old that worked with her 
PS I had kids with my ex-wife, didn't stop her ass from fucking a seventeen year old that worked with her
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Todcasil]
#14004923 - 02/21/11 11:50 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Uzziel said:
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noticeofeviction said: Thanks for reading. Ugh, it's been a few months since we all fell out and stopped talking but I still think about her sometimes. I really did feel a little bit of love towards her, she was an amazing person. We would sometimes hang out just me and her, and we would laugh so fucking much together that my stomach would literally hurt.
The fact that they had a child made anything like that impossible in my eyes
True. Thinking about that, a child changes everything.
Still, sometimes in life, things don't come around twice. Sometimes they do though. Sounds like you're gonna have to find that one again... but don't worry, me too. 
Well may both of us find our own. It's crazy how completely unexpectedly important people sometimes come into your life.
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LloydChristmas said: How old were they when they had the kid?
At this point we're all around the same age; 20. They had the kid when they were about 18 or so I wanna say?
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That's tough man, because the truth is that passions like that rarely last. They burn out, and it is amazing to be with someoene like that... So part of me is OK with how these normally end, but the other part of me feels bummed for the third wheel.
Yeah I have split feelings about the third wheel too. I guess that's just how it's supposed to be; everything is relative depending on your perspective.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Todcasil]
#14004938 - 02/21/11 11:53 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Same thing happened to me a couple years back, I was good friends with the guy so I never made any moves and waited it out cause I knew they was gonna break up eventually and a day after they did My ass got incarcerated
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14004959 - 02/21/11 11:58 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Damn, that's some kind of irony. Sorry to hear that.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Todcasil]
#14004973 - 02/22/11 12:01 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Seriously, that's some shit timing
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004985 - 02/22/11 12:04 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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totally natural. the only thing separating you from being happy is the 'i don't mess with my friend's exes' thing.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Uzziel]
#14004986 - 02/22/11 12:05 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Uzziel said: Still, sometimes in life, things don't come around twice. Sometimes they do though. Sounds like you're gonna have to find that one again... but don't worry, me too. 
There are 7 billion humans to fall in love with on Earth. P and K have a child together. Think of the child's situation.
I think we all have numerous "soul mates"
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14004993 - 02/22/11 12:06 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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And when I was finally released after my trial one of my orders was to live on my reserve for a year
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14005002 - 02/22/11 12:07 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: And when I was finally released after my trial one of my orders was to live on my reserve for a year

Did you ever get a chance to hit her up?
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005007 - 02/22/11 12:08 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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i think it all ended how it should have. if you really consider all the potential paths this situation could have taken, the one that eventually happened was probably the safest and least harmful one.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: meatcakeman]
#14005014 - 02/22/11 12:10 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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meatcakeman said: i think it all ended how it should have. if you really consider all the potential paths this situation could have taken, the one that eventually happened was probably the safest and least harmful one.
Depends on where your priorities are. But I will say that in some alternate universe if me and K were together we could have been something real special. I didn't see anything with her and P.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: meatcakeman]
#14005022 - 02/22/11 12:11 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah, OP, props to you for having the respect to not fuck with your friends girl. You are a better man than most I've encountered
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005028 - 02/22/11 12:13 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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meatcakeman said: i think it all ended how it should have. if you really consider all the potential paths this situation could have taken, the one that eventually happened was probably the safest and least harmful one.
Depends on where your priorities are. But I will say that in some alternate universe if me and K were together we could have been something real special. I didn't see anything with her and P.
just because you didn't see anything there doesn't mean there wasn't something there. don't be ignorant. they were together for over 4 years. there HAS to be something there.
i think it'd be pretty stupid to assume that she'd be happier with you than with P. you wouldn't know otherwise unless you walked in their shoes.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: meatcakeman]
#14005048 - 02/22/11 12:15 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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All is fair in love and war.
But you know what I do wish I could talk to her or tell her some of this. I don't know, it just felt weird completely cutting off communication without reminiscing or talking about what happened.. Or at least tell her how I felt.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005056 - 02/22/11 12:17 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: And when I was finally released after my trial one of my orders was to live on my reserve for a year

Did you ever get a chance to hit her up?
Not once in two years, we IM'd all the time and talked on the phone after I got out but it just slowly died out as I got more and more depressed living in that shithole. Now we dont even talk to eachother that often.
Im making a trip down there in a months time to check everyone out again, she said she might cry when she see's me again....
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14005065 - 02/22/11 12:18 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Tears make great lube 
For real though, good luck bud
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005067 - 02/22/11 12:18 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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sometimes you need to consider being the better person. if that means to not meddle and to let things go, then you should do it. there's no reason to play with fire if you don't like to get burned.
and i doubt you were destined to be with her anyways. and, if you truly believe that, then who cares? it's destiny. it'll happen anyways, whether you do anything or not.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: meatcakeman]
#14005075 - 02/22/11 12:20 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I don't think that's how destiny works And I'm sure I wasn't meant to be with her. Even though it ended badly it was still kind of refreshing to feel that way about a person for even a little while, in such a long time. I don't want to play with fire, I'm basically just looking for some closure
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... *DELETED* [Re: Doc_T]
#14005086 - 02/22/11 12:23 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Doc_T said: Post deleted by sui<p>Reason for deletion: Im getting sick of seeing, DSHSB as a reply to every post. if you dont have anything to add dont post.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... *DELETED* [Re: twighead]
#14005092 - 02/22/11 12:24 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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He locked a couple decent threads where there was a good convo going today, wonder what crawled up his ass?
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Acaterpillar
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... *DELETED* [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14005206 - 02/22/11 12:54 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: He locked a couple decent threads where there was a good convo going today, wonder what crawled up his ass?
More like: Who DSHSB?
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005285 - 02/22/11 01:20 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said: All is fair in love and war.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#14005340 - 02/22/11 01:38 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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yeah until you lose. Then you were wishing for rules.
yeah until you lose. Then you were wishing for rules.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Todcasil]
#14005406 - 02/22/11 01:56 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said: All is fair in love and war.
Spoken by a sociopathic egomaniac.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Acaterpillar]
#14005441 - 02/22/11 02:04 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Todcasil said: yeah until you lose. Then you were wishing for rules.
yeah until you lose. Then you were wishing for rules.
i have lost before.Quote:
Rabidbaboon said:
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JesusGoneRogue said:
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noticeofeviction said: All is fair in love and war.
Spoken by a sociopathic egomaniac.
  you know me so well.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Acaterpillar]
#14005447 - 02/22/11 02:04 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Rabidbaboon said:
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JesusGoneRogue said:
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noticeofeviction said: All is fair in love and war.
Spoken by a sociopathic egomaniac.
I'll only admit to the first part
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005453 - 02/22/11 02:05 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said:
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Rabidbaboon said:
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JesusGoneRogue said:
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noticeofeviction said: All is fair in love and war.
Spoken by a sociopathic egomaniac.
I'll only admit to the first part
You didn't speak it, you typed it. 
I meant the origins of the idiom.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Acaterpillar]
#14005484 - 02/22/11 02:12 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Rabidbaboon said:
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noticeofeviction said:
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Rabidbaboon said:
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JesusGoneRogue said: Spoken by a sociopathic egomaniac.
I'll only admit to the first part
You didn't speak it, you typed it. 
I meant the origins of the idiom.
I figured that much but I decided to input anyway
I also speak everything I type on the keyboard, even when I press the backspace.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005496 - 02/22/11 02:15 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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So you don't speak your thoughts, but instead pronounce each separate letter?
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Acaterpillar]
#14005523 - 02/22/11 02:21 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well, except for the "www" with website addresses. People who still say/write "www" need to get the fuck out.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14005917 - 02/22/11 04:59 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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That's a bummer dude.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: noticeofeviction]
#14006025 - 02/22/11 06:13 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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1. Things ended as best as possible.
2. Destiny is the idea that everything in life is predetermined. So, the way the other guy said destiny works IS the way destiny works. Whether or not destiny exists is another matter. (aside from of course the shared destiny of death which is about 99 percent guarantee.
3. Closure is for pussies. When substances comprised of complex molecules break, they end up in fragmented pieces. That's just nature. Accept it. Having a conversation with her in which you tell her how you feel and all that shit won't make anything better. Leave well enough alone. Things really are as good as they are going to be in that situation. Your mind might torment you with "what ifs" but things almost never work out the way you see them in your head.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Senor_Doobie]
#14006276 - 02/22/11 08:18 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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This exact same thing happend to me to and i gave her her first roll to lol
but the ending was different i ended up falling for her but didnt want to fuck my friend over thats what i told her and she got depressed.
so then i completely cut myself off from her and my mate
that was 3 years ago since then she has been harassing me with declaration of love txts and ringing me at 3 in the morning so i changed my number but a couple weeks ago she came round mine and asked me why have i been ignoring her?
that was so  i said we should just be friends because i didnt have feelings for her anymore but she still keeps asking me to come out and get spangled wit her, should i go to spangladesh with her? or will she start coming onto me AGAIN? meh i should just go with it
WELL DONE OP FOR NOT FUCKING YOUR FRIEND OVER
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: DR. Gonz]
#14006821 - 02/22/11 11:12 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I wouldn't get spangladesh with her unless her boyfriend is around to keep her from eating your cock.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Senor_Doobie]
#14006895 - 02/22/11 11:35 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Senor_Doobie said: 1. Things ended as best as possible.
2. Destiny is the idea that everything in life is predetermined. So, the way the other guy said destiny works IS the way destiny works. Whether or not destiny exists is another matter. (aside from of course the shared destiny of death which is about 99 percent guarantee.
3. Closure is for pussies. When substances comprised of complex molecules break, they end up in fragmented pieces. That's just nature. Accept it. Having a conversation with her in which you tell her how you feel and all that shit won't make anything better. Leave well enough alone. Things really are as good as they are going to be in that situation. Your mind might torment you with "what ifs" but things almost never work out the way you see them in your head.
Rationalism doesnt apply to everything , and if it was just chemicals alone, people would be smoking serotonin and mainlining dopamine instead of crack and herion.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14006922 - 02/22/11 11:41 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear about the troubles man. I will say I think you did the right thing in not trying to get involved with her. It sucks that the friendship came to an end, but sometimes this is best.
I can say that getting cheated on is not hip, and I think you showed incredible compassion by not fucking this dude over.
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Re: So you and your friend's girlfriend fall in love with each other... [Re: Senor_Doobie]
#14007965 - 02/22/11 02:43 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Senor_Doobie said: 2. Destiny is the idea that everything in life is predetermined. So, the way the other guy said destiny works IS the way destiny works. Whether or not destiny exists is another matter. (aside from of course the shared destiny of death which is about 99 percent guarantee.
I meant destiny doesn't work like "Let me just sit on my ass and let 'destiny' take care of the rest"
Also, like Bodhi said you can't apply logic to everything. Love is pretty beyond logic a lot of the time. If you could rationalize your love it would make things a hell of a lot easier I bet
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