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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #13999487 - 02/21/11 02:43 AM (13 years, 12 days ago)

ah well i guess i dont do any drugs either.. just a couple cigs every day i havent had any cannabis in months. and i only trip DMT on occasions like once a month or so..
only done mushrooms about  3 times
acid once.
mescaline maybe 4 times
2ce i think 3 times

also coffee sometimes

ive been smokin JWH daily for about a year but just stopped.. like literally just a couple seconds ago im all out now and cant get any more cuz its illegal lol

i was gettin sick of that stuff anyway :shrug:


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13999890 - 02/21/11 08:11 AM (13 years, 12 days ago)

i'd just roll with it. i tend to over think shit like this (and everything else, for that matter). it would be nice to have someone to enjoy boulevard park with when the sun is shining and that beautiful breeze is blowing in off the bay :psychsplit:

b'ham is a trip in itself, no intoxication required. as long as she doesn't get all preachy about the "sober life" than i'd just take it as it comes and let it be what it is.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: gerryjarcia]
    #14000268 - 02/21/11 10:02 AM (13 years, 12 days ago)

It can work. Been with my girl (who I would honestly consider my soulmate) for nearly 3 years now and apart from a bit of alcohol with me or the odd bowl once in 3 blue moons she's not into drugs whatsoever yet things are pretty smooth. She does know that I do utilize psychedelics with meditation every now and then, but how frequently is unknown. She can see a positive change in me however. :shrug:

But yeah, definitely go for it regardless of the fact that she doesn't do drugs. At least you can rest assured she'll be your purer half/voice of reason if this does kick off. Plus it'll make you appreciate finding joy even during sobriety.

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #14000283 - 02/21/11 10:04 AM (13 years, 12 days ago)

I think in order for the relationship to work you will have to cut down on your drug use a little bit, or she will have to start getting high and going to the bars with you a little bit. You'll have to find some sort of middle ground. I don't think it'd work if she was 100% sober and you get high on a daily basis.

When I met my girlfriend she wasn't a drug user and we've been together for 3 years now. :heart:
She had only smoked weed a handful of times and that was it. But now she loves psychedelics as much as I do and she has done pretty much every drug under the sun. She gets high just as much as I do now.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: RobMarley420]
    #14000922 - 02/21/11 12:03 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

As I said earlier, I want to reduce my usage of weed and particularly alcohol lately. I think this could be a good catalyst for this.

We haven't really talked about psychedelics before. She has brought up the not drinking not smoking weed thing a fair number of times, but almost kinda in an apologetic way? Like she feels like she needs to explain herself for it. I actually kinda respect it. It would be cool to introduce her to mushrooms or something non habit forming like that. I would feel bad if I introduced her to something habit forming though. Just cuz I have habits doesn't mean I need to validate them by getting others to have them too.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #14001004 - 02/21/11 12:21 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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nicechrisman said:
As I said earlier, I want to reduce my usage of weed and particularly alcohol lately. I think this could be a good catalyst for this.

We haven't really talked about psychedelics before. She has brought up the not drinking not smoking weed thing a fair number of times, but almost kinda in an apologetic way? Like she feels like she needs to explain herself for it. I actually kinda respect it. It would be cool to introduce her to mushrooms or something non habit forming like that. I would feel bad if I introduced her to something habit forming though. Just cuz I have habits doesn't mean I need to validate them by getting others to have them too.




or invalidate them by being with someone who doesn't participate with you...
I mean, I would never cut back my smoking or shrooming just for a bitch. You should cut back for yourself, because that's the only way it will actually stick.
Good luck though...
also, PICS NAO


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
    #14001014 - 02/21/11 12:24 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

I do want to reduce my use for my own reasons. Not my use of mushrooms, but I usually only shroom a couple/few times a year, so it's not really a habit for me, but weed and alcohol have both become VERY habitual for me. I'm not giving them up for a "bitch" as you so eloquently put it. I haven't spoken of giving anything up, I just think it would be positive for me to have someone in my life who doesn't view intoxication as their "raison d'etre". In fact she has never made any indication that it's an issue. Like I said, she seems almost apologetic that she doesn't get intoxicated.

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #14001051 - 02/21/11 12:31 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

You guys are bold for posting pics of girlfriends. That shit could come back and bite you in the ass :uhoh:


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #14001140 - 02/21/11 12:43 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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nicechrisman said:
She doesn't seem like the controlling or judgemental type (although i guess they don't at first)



Haha, so true!
Seems like you really like her if you are considering this.
Cliche, but don't be afraid to be yourself, cause you might have times where you deny or hide your lifestyle choices to get on her good side.  I personally have not had good experiences dating someone that was completely sober all the time.  Problems arise when your not yourself  around them in an alter state, because your afraid of what they truly think about it.  Goes both ways though. 
Wish you the best!

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #14001229 - 02/21/11 12:57 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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Rabidbaboon said:
You guys are bold for posting pics of girlfriends. That shit could come back and bite you in the ass :uhoh:




Wow...wow, this girl isn't his girlfriend. Therefore I think it's absolutely appropriate so we, as the shroomery community, can pass our judgement down to the OP.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #14001231 - 02/21/11 12:57 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

Go for it mate. IME having a straight edge lady around really helps if you want to cut back on intake yourself. Lessens the exposure. I got a good feeling for you here. Be honest with her - I think she can handle it, from what little I've gathered here.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
    #14001250 - 02/21/11 01:00 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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Anthony917 said:
Quote:

Rabidbaboon said:
You guys are bold for posting pics of girlfriends. That shit could come back and bite you in the ass :uhoh:




Wow...wow, this girl isn't his girlfriend. Therefore I think it's absolutely appropriate so we, as the shroomery community, can pass our judgement down to the OP.



Whatever man, I have seen past shroomerites catch shit over doing things of that nature.
I'm just dropping some advice, he doesn't have to take it.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: benzod]
    #14001255 - 02/21/11 01:00 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

Well, there's a recognizable situation...
Dating a sober girl...
- ...didn't help me kick any habits, although I kinda hoped it would. I primarily fell for the short skirts she wore though, so no real harm done there.
- ...lasted for a quite a while, actually; we lasted for four or five years, don't rightly remember. Her having hung around potheads for years did help a lot though.
- ...ultimately didn't work out. After a couple of years, she got sort of serious, like in buying a house and getting a litter o'kids and all, and that just didn't really work for me. And she thought I was sort of a worthless pothead in a way too, which ultimately I didn't want to (couldn't) give up for her.

We had a lot of fun, and she was really sweet and all, but it just didn't last. No regrets though, it had ran its course, and we still get along real'good. So by all means, go for it, and see where you end up. Might as well enjoy the whole process :wink:

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Re: Dating a sober girl? *DELETED* *DELETED* [Re: koraks]
    #14001281 - 02/21/11 01:04 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Galvie_Flu]
    #14001299 - 02/21/11 01:07 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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1 word, NO! lol seriously.

If you guys cant be equals on that level it will turn to shit.  She will eventually move on because she cant get high all the time, she will be looking for sex behind your back as your looking to get high, thats a fact, she will turn to a caniving plotting bitch, leave now while you can.



Those are some pretty bold assumptions about the character of the girl in question. She sounds like she has a stronger moral fiber than that.
Jaded from past experience much?


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #14001327 - 02/21/11 01:11 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

yeah, its pretty obvious isn't it. Actually I didnt even have time to go thru the whole post, but it sounds like the girl in question may be above the bar, but I always like be prepared for shitty girls who are liars and take advantage of men.

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: enthiangenic]
    #14001360 - 02/21/11 01:16 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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Maybe she will be good for you. You said you'd like to lessen the amount of alcohol and weed you use, so maybe she can be the catalyst to bring about a happier life style. And if it doesn't work out well it's just some more memories. Life is about experience after all.

I think love is the most powerful psychedelic there is...because it can last a lifetime. And just like a powerful trip, love will leave a deep impression on you forever.




This...

From my experience though it didn't work out. It caused a lot of problems and ended up with a lot of lying and me living a double life (sober around her, intoxicated with the buddies) and hating myself for that and that drove me deeper to my intoxicating lifestyle and ended up with me in rehab...if you'd like me to go more in depth I can but I'd rather leave it at that...

Just stating my experience. I hope it works out for you as it may but from my experience it didn't and I found my current girlfriend who does do drugs and things are working wonderfully with her.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: freeskierpj]
    #14001521 - 02/21/11 01:41 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

Do you have any idea of her perception/opinion on drugs and alcohol?  I think that will be the main issue, not so much whether she drinks or does any drugs herself.

Edited by nicolerc (02/21/11 01:41 PM)

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Galvie_Flu]
    #14002149 - 02/21/11 03:20 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

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She will eventually move on because she cant get high all the time, she will be looking for sex behind your back as your looking to get high, thats a fact, she will turn to a caniving plotting bitch,



If she was one to begin with, then why yes, this relationship will definitely reinforce that trait. But rest assured that there are actually sweet girls out there with warm characters and more on their mind than getting laid by muscular sex gods. You should try one sometime. Or leave 'em all for me, that's alright as well :wink:

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #14002243 - 02/21/11 03:37 PM (13 years, 12 days ago)

I've been dating a sober girl lately too. She wasn't always sober, she drank and did meth very heavily in high school and then cleaned up. Now the only psychoactives she's willing to use are coffee and cigarettes.

She claims not to mind if I drink or do drugs around her; I usually don't, because it makes me feel like a fiend. But there is something very peculiar about our interactions that I can't quite put my finger on.


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