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meatcakeman
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advice?
#13999366 - 02/21/11 02:00 AM (13 years, 13 days ago) |
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so there's this girl. she's the first girl that i've met since my last gf that i actually find interesting, and i've been out of the loop for little over a year now. and surprise surprise she's asian , which is typically a bad thing, imo. anyways, here's the thing: i don't have her number, she's graduating next quarter, i've hung out with her in total maybe 6 times (most of which we were both intoxicated, and all of which in groups), and she's one of my roommate's friends which i think could potentially be an issue maybe. so, naturally, i usually play the passive card every time we hang out because i'd rather softly flirt with her than come off too strong, but this kept me from really getting to know her also . well, fast-forward to this past thursday. we threw her roommate and her friend a joint birthday party at my house. and through some magical divine intervention or something, i find her laying in my bed and we end up hooking up and sleeping together (no sex) in my bed. from how i perceived it, it was kinda just a drunk-fuck-around sorta situation. but, what made it awkward for me was that i kinda have a crush on her. i've never pursued a girl i just randomly hooked up with because usually it was solely based on inebriated attraction and not intrinsic appeal. but, this time, i was genuinely intrigued. i find this girl beautiful, smart, funny, and sweet. and its kind of a turn-on that she doesn't smoke cigarettes or weed. 
so this is where i need you guys. i've never been in a situation like this before where i actually think i could fall for a girl i randomly hooked up with because i like to get to know a girl i like before i try anything physical; imo, you don't really need to get to know whores/sluts/skanks. well guys (and girls), i need to know if it is worth pursuing and how i should go about this. i'm a bit wary because i don't know how she perceived it and i don't know how i should contact her without coming off too strong/direct/awkward. has anyone else been in a similar situation? how did it turn out? was it worth the investment? or, if you're a girl, what do you think i should do if you were in her situation?
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Anthony917
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i cant resist. DSHSB
serious: approach her and see how she feels about you
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JesusGoneRogue


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why dont you get her number. thats a good start.
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Set
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pics for advice is a fair trade
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meatcakeman
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Anthony917 said: i cant resist. DSHSB
serious: approach her and see how she feels about you
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JesusGoneRogue said: why dont you get her number. thats a good start.
i only see her when my roommate invites her roommate over and she happens to be with her... she's also in a different department at school so i'd probably never see her around campus..
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meatcakeman
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Re: advice? [Re: Set]
#13999434 - 02/21/11 02:24 AM (13 years, 12 days ago) |
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Set said: pics for advice is a fair trade
how do i know your advice is worth the trade?
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JesusGoneRogue


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get her number from the room mate, then tell her how you feel. honesty is the best policy.
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Larrythescaryrex
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the way I see, you have no choice but to rape her as she walks back to class. If my experience with hentai is anything to go on, by the time you creampie her, she'll be convinced she's in love.
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Anthony917
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Quote:
meatcakeman said:
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Anthony917 said: i cant resist. DSHSB
serious: approach her and see how she feels about you
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JesusGoneRogue said: why dont you get her number. thats a good start.
i only see her when my roommate invites her roommate over and she happens to be with her... she's also in a different department at school so i'd probably never see her around campus.. 
well if you really wanna do something about it, man up and find a way to get a hold of her. otherwise you're just gonna talk about it on teh shroomery
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the bizzle
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i'm not sure what you mean by "hooked up", but if kissing someone isn't reasonable enough grounds to obtain their phone number from a friend,
then i can only assume 96% of people on earth have aids or herpes
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meatcakeman
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JesusGoneRogue said: get her number from the room mate, then tell her how you feel. honesty is the best policy.
me and my roommate aren't close, so i'd feel kinda awkward doing that. but if you think it's worth it, i might try tomorrow when he gets back.
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JesusGoneRogue


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meatcakeman said:
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JesusGoneRogue said: get her number from the room mate, then tell her how you feel. honesty is the best policy.
me and my roommate aren't close, so i'd feel kinda awkward doing that. but if you think it's worth, i might try tomorrow when he gets back.
its not about if i think its worth it. it about if you think it worth it.
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"if we're lost, how can we lose?"
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Larrythescaryrex said: the way I see, you have no choice but to rape her as she walks back to class. If my experience with hentai is anything to go on, by the time you creampie her, she'll be convinced she's in love.
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meatcakeman
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the bizzle said: i'm not sure what you mean by "hooked up", but if kissing someone isn't reasonable enough grounds to obtain their phone number from a friend,
then i can only assume 96% of people on earth have aids or herpes 
i've never been in this kinda situation.. i wasn't sure if it'd be worth it.. my original plan was to leave it up to destiny and wait to see if i ever saw her again.
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Set
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Quote:
meatcakeman said:
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Set said: pics for advice is a fair trade
how do i know your advice is worth the trade? 
because I am expert
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Re: advice? [Re: Set]
#13999464 - 02/21/11 02:34 AM (13 years, 12 days ago) |
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i'll post a picture if you make me a grilled cheese sandwich... with out the crust
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JesusGoneRogue said: its not about if i think its worth it. it about if you think it worth it.
you don't think she'd feel weird if i got her number from my roommate? iunno im beginning to feel like it's worth it
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Quote:
meatcakeman said:
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the bizzle said: i'm not sure what you mean by "hooked up", but if kissing someone isn't reasonable enough grounds to obtain their phone number from a friend,
then i can only assume 96% of people on earth have aids or herpes 
i've never been in this kinda situation.. i wasn't sure if it'd be worth it.. my original plan was to leave it up to destiny and wait to see if i ever saw her again. 
if you want it you gotta go get it. don't wait for shit to happen, make it happen. god i feel like a motivational speaker, but seriously...
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her vagina is sideways
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