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Dating a sober girl?
    #13998556 - 02/20/11 10:21 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

So I'm going on a date with this girl who I used to work with tomorrow. We've hung out a couple times. I actually took her mushroom hunting for chantrelles in the fall.

Thing is- I don't think I've ever dated a girl who doesn't smoke pot or at least drink alcohol. I really like her personality and she's super cute and pretty and stuff, but intoxication has become such an everyday part of my life, I'm not sure if this could work out. Then again, maybe it would be good for me. She doesn't seem like the controlling or judgemental type (although i guess they don't at first), and she knows that I do these things (we haven't talked about psychedelics yet). Also I tend to be a little shy about putting the moves on, and have always found alcohol to be a useful social lubricant in these types of situations.

Anybody else here ever date a totally sober person? I'm not even sure what to do together. I need some shroomery opinions on this matter.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13998580 - 02/20/11 10:24 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

in my experience it doesnt work. but taking her mushie hunting, now that sounds like chemistry :happyheart: :thumbup:

EDIT: i wasnt thinking girl :confused: but sober boys oops.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #13998591 - 02/20/11 10:26 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

the two lifestyles just clash so much, I think it's bound to fail...
although, who knows...maybe you'll see this girl and turn her on to the idea of smoking weed or drinking.
I've found a lot of people who don't drink/smoke have a lot of false, preconceived notions about the effects. Once they see that someone who smokes pot every day can actually live a normal, happy life, sometimes their view changes.

If all else fails you could at least DSHSB


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
    #13998616 - 02/20/11 10:31 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

I don't really want to try to change her. I actually kinda respect the choices she's made. We've talked about that before. She's totally an artist and involved in the art scene, has lots of gay friends, etc. It's not like she's sheltered or hasn't had the chance to try things, she's just made the conscious decision not to. I can accept that about her as long as she can accept me.

In all honesty, I kinda wish I could break out of the habits of intoxication that i'm currently in. Not like I'm into heavy drugs, but daily use of alcohol and large amounts of marijuana aren't the best thing for me I think.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13998630 - 02/20/11 10:34 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

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nicechrisman said:
I don't really want to try to change her. I actually kinda respect the choices she's made. We've talked about that before. She's totally and artist and involved in the art scene, has lots of gay friends, etc. It's not like she's sheltered or hasn't had the chance to try things, she's just made the conscious decision not to. I can accept that about her as long as she can accept me.

In all honesty, I kinda wish I could break out of the habits of intoxication that i'm currently in. Not like I'm into heavy drugs, but daily use of alcohol and large amounts of marijuana aren't the best thing for me I think.




hmm, well in that case definitely DSHSB.
I mean, the conflict of interest seems to be insurmountable. Although, if she's as open minded as you say, and she likes you then I suppose it could work.
I wouldn't want to date her if I was you, cause I'd rather have my GF smoking & drinking with me.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
    #13998654 - 02/20/11 10:37 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

dude dont just start talking about drugs with a girl who doesn't do'em. that relationship wont last long


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman] * 2
    #13998669 - 02/20/11 10:40 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

Corrupt her. Its the only way.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: smokin427]
    #13998674 - 02/20/11 10:40 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

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smokin427 said:
dude dont just start talking about drugs with a girl who doesn't do'em. that relationship wont last long



yeah, that wasn't really too close to the list of topics I had figured on discussing. I think we're gonna go for a walk if it's nice tomorrow, get some dinner and go bowling, or play shuffleboard or something.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13998693 - 02/20/11 10:44 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

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nicechrisman said:
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smokin427 said:
dude dont just start talking about drugs with a girl who doesn't do'em. that relationship wont last long



yeah, that wasn't really too close to the list of topics I had figured on discussing. I think we're gonna go for a walk if it's nice tomorrow, get some dinner and go bowling, or play shuffleboard or something.




capping the night off with a fatty spliff :getstoned:


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
    #13998702 - 02/20/11 10:47 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

Or DSHSB.


or both...


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13998719 - 02/20/11 10:51 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

Maybe she will be good for you. You said you'd like to lessen the amount of alcohol and weed you use, so maybe she can be the catalyst to bring about a happier life style. And if it doesn't work out well it's just some more memories. Life is about experience after all.

I think love is the most powerful psychedelic there is...because it can last a lifetime. And just like a powerful trip, love will leave a deep impression on you forever.

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: enthiangenic]
    #13998735 - 02/20/11 10:56 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

thanks for the positive response. I'm hoping it will go well.


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13998963 - 02/20/11 11:49 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

Oh yeah, one more thing I forgot to mention-she's vegetarian too. Makes me wonder what her vice is. I mean everyone's gotta have one. Maybe she's into some crazy sexual shit or something :datass:


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13998995 - 02/20/11 11:58 PM (13 years, 13 days ago)

bring her over to the dark side  :hellfire:

i mean the brighter side


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #13999282 - 02/21/11 01:24 AM (13 years, 13 days ago)

I wish I could meet a sober girl. I no longer smoke pot, drink or do any illegal drugs yet all the girls who are interested in me are complete stoners or drunks.

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Envix]
    #13999294 - 02/21/11 01:30 AM (13 years, 13 days ago)

You never know she might come to realize pot isn't bad on her own might as well see where it goes

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: MisterMuscaria] * 3
    #13999296 - 02/21/11 01:30 AM (13 years, 13 days ago)

lol square wut are you doing on a drug forum


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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Envix]
    #13999301 - 02/21/11 01:33 AM (13 years, 13 days ago)



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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Envix]
    #13999316 - 02/21/11 01:39 AM (13 years, 13 days ago)

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lol square wut are you doing on a drug forum



Im a former user but still want to hunt edible mushrooms when the season hits. Honestly i just like the banter here. When I signed up I was tripping every week, drinking daily and smoking pot daily. Thangs happened and now Im living a straighter life.

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Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #13999376 - 02/21/11 02:02 AM (13 years, 12 days ago)

If she wont judge you for what you're doing, you're fine. Sometimes even chicks who drink/smoke are very judgmental and think you intoxicate yourself too much.

But it would be very nice, you would always have someone to look after you when you overdose :laugh: and you have a designated driver.

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