|
nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 33,241
Last seen: 4 years, 6 months
|
Dating a sober girl?
#13998556 - 02/20/11 10:21 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
So I'm going on a date with this girl who I used to work with tomorrow. We've hung out a couple times. I actually took her mushroom hunting for chantrelles in the fall.
Thing is- I don't think I've ever dated a girl who doesn't smoke pot or at least drink alcohol. I really like her personality and she's super cute and pretty and stuff, but intoxication has become such an everyday part of my life, I'm not sure if this could work out. Then again, maybe it would be good for me. She doesn't seem like the controlling or judgemental type (although i guess they don't at first), and she knows that I do these things (we haven't talked about psychedelics yet). Also I tend to be a little shy about putting the moves on, and have always found alcohol to be a useful social lubricant in these types of situations.
Anybody else here ever date a totally sober person? I'm not even sure what to do together. I need some shroomery opinions on this matter.
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
|
Mello Kitty
Beautiful Burnout



Registered: 12/04/08
Posts: 8,556
Loc: Sanriotown, Harmonyland
Last seen: 7 years, 5 months
|
|
in my experience it doesnt work. but taking her mushie hunting, now that sounds like chemistry 
EDIT: i wasnt thinking girl but sober boys oops.
--------------------
Edited by ellenallien (02/20/11 10:27 PM)
|
Anthony917
why dont we do it in the road



Registered: 05/14/09
Posts: 3,243
Loc: Earth
Last seen: 12 years, 2 months
|
|
the two lifestyles just clash so much, I think it's bound to fail... although, who knows...maybe you'll see this girl and turn her on to the idea of smoking weed or drinking. I've found a lot of people who don't drink/smoke have a lot of false, preconceived notions about the effects. Once they see that someone who smokes pot every day can actually live a normal, happy life, sometimes their view changes.
If all else fails you could at least DSHSB
-------------------- Prisoner#1 said: I got my ass kicked by a 9yo when I was 17 Trippin? Click Me
What is life? I'm tired of life...
|
nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 33,241
Last seen: 4 years, 6 months
|
Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
#13998616 - 02/20/11 10:31 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
I don't really want to try to change her. I actually kinda respect the choices she's made. We've talked about that before. She's totally an artist and involved in the art scene, has lots of gay friends, etc. It's not like she's sheltered or hasn't had the chance to try things, she's just made the conscious decision not to. I can accept that about her as long as she can accept me.
In all honesty, I kinda wish I could break out of the habits of intoxication that i'm currently in. Not like I'm into heavy drugs, but daily use of alcohol and large amounts of marijuana aren't the best thing for me I think.
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
Edited by nicechrisman (02/20/11 10:33 PM)
|
Anthony917
why dont we do it in the road



Registered: 05/14/09
Posts: 3,243
Loc: Earth
Last seen: 12 years, 2 months
|
|
Quote:
nicechrisman said: I don't really want to try to change her. I actually kinda respect the choices she's made. We've talked about that before. She's totally and artist and involved in the art scene, has lots of gay friends, etc. It's not like she's sheltered or hasn't had the chance to try things, she's just made the conscious decision not to. I can accept that about her as long as she can accept me.
In all honesty, I kinda wish I could break out of the habits of intoxication that i'm currently in. Not like I'm into heavy drugs, but daily use of alcohol and large amounts of marijuana aren't the best thing for me I think.
hmm, well in that case definitely DSHSB. I mean, the conflict of interest seems to be insurmountable. Although, if she's as open minded as you say, and she likes you then I suppose it could work. I wouldn't want to date her if I was you, cause I'd rather have my GF smoking & drinking with me.
-------------------- Prisoner#1 said: I got my ass kicked by a 9yo when I was 17 Trippin? Click Me
What is life? I'm tired of life...
|
smokin427



Registered: 07/27/09
Posts: 603
Last seen: 7 years, 7 months
|
Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
#13998654 - 02/20/11 10:37 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
dude dont just start talking about drugs with a girl who doesn't do'em. that relationship wont last long
-------------------- I know exactly what you mean. Let me tell you why you're here. You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain, but you feel it. You've felt it your entire life, that there's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me. Do you know what I'm talking about?
|
The_Ghost
ゴースト


Registered: 03/27/07
Posts: 15,802
Loc: USG Ishimura
Last seen: 11 months, 3 days
|
|
Corrupt her. Its the only way.
-------------------- / / / / / / / LISTEN TO MY MUSIC: E X E D / / / / / / / The universe gives no fucks. And takes no fucks. May His Circuits Ever Function
|
nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 33,241
Last seen: 4 years, 6 months
|
Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: smokin427]
#13998674 - 02/20/11 10:40 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
smokin427 said: dude dont just start talking about drugs with a girl who doesn't do'em. that relationship wont last long
yeah, that wasn't really too close to the list of topics I had figured on discussing. I think we're gonna go for a walk if it's nice tomorrow, get some dinner and go bowling, or play shuffleboard or something.
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
|
Anthony917
why dont we do it in the road



Registered: 05/14/09
Posts: 3,243
Loc: Earth
Last seen: 12 years, 2 months
|
|
Quote:
nicechrisman said:
Quote:
smokin427 said: dude dont just start talking about drugs with a girl who doesn't do'em. that relationship wont last long
yeah, that wasn't really too close to the list of topics I had figured on discussing. I think we're gonna go for a walk if it's nice tomorrow, get some dinner and go bowling, or play shuffleboard or something.
capping the night off with a fatty spliff
-------------------- Prisoner#1 said: I got my ass kicked by a 9yo when I was 17 Trippin? Click Me
What is life? I'm tired of life...
|
nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 33,241
Last seen: 4 years, 6 months
|
Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Anthony917]
#13998702 - 02/20/11 10:47 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
Or DSHSB.
or both...
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
|
enthiangenic


Registered: 02/14/10
Posts: 527
|
|
Maybe she will be good for you. You said you'd like to lessen the amount of alcohol and weed you use, so maybe she can be the catalyst to bring about a happier life style. And if it doesn't work out well it's just some more memories. Life is about experience after all.
I think love is the most powerful psychedelic there is...because it can last a lifetime. And just like a powerful trip, love will leave a deep impression on you forever.
|
nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 33,241
Last seen: 4 years, 6 months
|
|
thanks for the positive response. I'm hoping it will go well.
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
|
nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 33,241
Last seen: 4 years, 6 months
|
|
Oh yeah, one more thing I forgot to mention-she's vegetarian too. Makes me wonder what her vice is. I mean everyone's gotta have one. Maybe she's into some crazy sexual shit or something
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
|
Envix
Avoidant Disorder



Registered: 11/04/08
Posts: 18,206
Last seen: 9 months, 25 days
|
|
bring her over to the dark side
i mean the brighter side
-------------------- smack a hoe out this dimension continue my ascension -bhad bhabie rip. todcasil, acid sloth, st1llnox, zappaisgod, big worm (sketch), tim b
|
MisterMuscaria



Registered: 05/13/08
Posts: 27,646
Loc:
|
|
I wish I could meet a sober girl. I no longer smoke pot, drink or do any illegal drugs yet all the girls who are interested in me are complete stoners or drunks.
|
Cakk


Registered: 01/30/10 
Posts: 1,362
|
Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Envix]
#13999294 - 02/21/11 01:30 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
You never know she might come to realize pot isn't bad on her own might as well see where it goes
|
Envix
Avoidant Disorder



Registered: 11/04/08
Posts: 18,206
Last seen: 9 months, 25 days
|
|
lol square wut are you doing on a drug forum
-------------------- smack a hoe out this dimension continue my ascension -bhad bhabie rip. todcasil, acid sloth, st1llnox, zappaisgod, big worm (sketch), tim b
|
gzuf
٩(̾๏̮̮̃̾๏̃̾)۶



Registered: 07/13/09
Posts: 6,535
|
Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Envix]
#13999301 - 02/21/11 01:33 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
-------------------- +1 Post ٩(̾๏̮̮̃̾๏̃̾)۶
|
MisterMuscaria



Registered: 05/13/08
Posts: 27,646
Loc:
|
Re: Dating a sober girl? [Re: Envix]
#13999316 - 02/21/11 01:39 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Envix said: lol square wut are you doing on a drug forum
Im a former user but still want to hunt edible mushrooms when the season hits. Honestly i just like the banter here. When I signed up I was tripping every week, drinking daily and smoking pot daily. Thangs happened and now Im living a straighter life.
|
VituGhazy


Registered: 11/10/10
Posts: 52
Last seen: 11 years, 6 months
|
|
If she wont judge you for what you're doing, you're fine. Sometimes even chicks who drink/smoke are very judgmental and think you intoxicate yourself too much.
But it would be very nice, you would always have someone to look after you when you overdose and you have a designated driver.
|
|