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Tchan909 said: That's because their weight would place far more strain on their ankles than you or I would have to deal with. Fortunately, there are many ways to keep in shape other than running a mile. And in fact BBW/SSBBW models are usually in very good shape, because it's their business to take care of their bodies.
I personally can't get along with people if we can't share long nature hikes together, and all of my long-term sexual partners, huge or not, have been capable of this. 
I have very very rarely known HUGE girls who were willing to go on hikes.
I am sorry to say, but I often find there is a correlation between super super overweight and lazy. Most people who love physical activities don't end up that way, without some serious medical condition or a ridiculous diet.
Regarding attraction (if were getting serious for a minute here. ha)
I have been with everything from damn near anorexic to not-quite-as-big as the ladies you pictured (maybe 1/2? haha). I think that a persons physical features (the parts I tend to find attractive) are just blurred or hidden under fat, when there is THAT much extra fat.
It can also depend on the person. The girl in pic 1, for example, to me, still looks much more feminine. Looking at her face, I almost see a Big-Mac-a-holic Jennifer Garner or something.
That last picture on the other hand... might as well be a fucking man with some makeup. That seems to happen to some girls when they get heavy-- they just loose too many of the features that make them look "cute" or "feminine."
Not to mention bodies, and physical stuff.
Moderately fat girls (IME) are kinker and sometimes more explorative and kinky than their skinnier counterparts, but not always.
However, going back to the laziness thing... thinking of 2 of my heavier partners in particular...both were lazy slugs in bed, mostly. The last one was okay on top, because she actually put in effort.
But really... if you think you're such a sex bot that you don't have to do anything but lay there.... you're probably wrong.
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CidneyIndole said: But really... if you think you're such a sex bot that you don't have to do anything but lay there.... you're probably wrong. 
This is true and I agree with it 100%. I can't stand it when a woman just lies there and expects that to be considered "good sex." I put serious effort into it, and if she can't be bothered to do the same then I lose interest pretty quick.
I think the first picture was my favorite too. But I have to say that for me, personally, rolls of fat on a woman don't cover up her femininity, they accent it. The girl in the third pic doesn't look manly to me at all - the proportions of her limbs, shoulders, hips, and stomach are very distinctly feminine and her skin is too smooth, so on. Must be a different perspective. 
And what with you said about fat women usually being lazy, I said the same thing about conventionally attractive women usually being huge bitches with unrealistic expectations. Neither of these things are always true, you and I have just picked our battles differently.
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Much as I hate to disagree with a person I like, I'm going to have to at least this once.
I think one thing that stands out at me is this:
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And what with you said about fat women usually being lazy, I said the same thing about conventionally attractive women usually being huge bitches with unrealistic expectations. Neither of these things are always true
You know, there is a reason that stereotypes exist. It's because there is usually some kernel of truth in them. I think that lots of "conventionally attractive" girls ARE high-maintenance, *insert stereotype*, etc.
However, that's a generalization, and I realize it's not true in all cases. Likewise, I recognize that there is the occasional person who is morbidly obese because of a thyroid condition, or some other genetic inheritance. But the fact remains that the number of people who have conditions that SERIOUSLY prevent them from being in shape, is disproportionately small to the number of people who are actually morbidly obese.
I think in this case, it is important I make a couple clear distinctions.
Morbid obsesity (see pictures above) is one of those. When I say that I believe it is more laziness than genetics, those are usually the women I'm thinking of. Now, it gets complex here... because I think that personality traits can be inherited, and behaviors learned from parents. So some things like an inactive lifestyle or BAD eating habits could, in a way, be "inherited."
But I still think there is an element of self control coming into play.
As an example, I have the junkie-gene (whatever that is) running all up and down both sides of my family. And I did, in fact, end up becoming an opiate addict. But I'm not sure it's fair to say that I was destined, or doomed to be a junkie. I made some bad decisions. In fact, I had to make a repeated series of bad decisions in order to really end up a full-fledged junkie.
(Now, of course, actually being an addict can imply poor impulse control, and that can be a big part of the disease... so those "decisions" I made would have been, in a odd kind of catch-22, influenced by the disease itself.)
I am probably a combined "endomorph-mesomorph" which gives me a reasonable frame and okay base for musculature, but I put on fat far easier than muscle. Aside from the addictive genetics, there is a fair bit of obesity in my family. A little on my dad's side (he is tall and skinny though), and a TON (no pun) on my mom's side (she is short and thick).
As a child, I started getting pretty fat around 5-6 years old, and that continued until I was in my young teens. Most of my early eating and exercise habits were influenced by both parents-- mother who was perpetually on weight watchers and (only) occasionally exercising, and my father who was rail thin, ate a ton, and was only sometimes active in his lifestyle.
I dieted right along with my mother as a kid, and never managed to lose all that much.
It was when I was a teenager that I figured out that Weight Watchers and every other diet on the planet is half a crock of shit. Half a crock of shit, because the fact is that unless you're CURSED with HORRID genetics, you really can get away with eating quite a lot if you remain very active.
It wasn't easy to change a lifetime of eating and exercise patterns, but I did, and became a "normal weight."
When I became a junkie I actually gained it all back and worse. But I have since lost all that crap. Identifying myself, in my mind, as "an addict" and even sometimes as "fat" it was not always easy to work against my NATURAL cravings and instincts.
But I did.
And I don't think I'm exceptional for it.
I understand that it is harder for some than others, and hell... as hard as it was for me, maybe it was cake (some pun) compared to the difficulty others have faced. But I still think that unless there is a serious disability, you do not become morbidly obese without getting a little hungry and a little lazy.
A few pounds overweight is different.
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I don't think junk addiction and junk food addiction are quite so eminently comparable, but I understand there is overlap in the way it affects the reward pathways.
I'm extremely ectomorphic myself and have always been, so we obviously have different experiences. I couldn't gain weight if I wanted to, and my diet has had a number of really spectacular rock bottoms (I basically lived on Burger King for a couple years and then on beer for another couple).
Anyway, all my intellectual rationalizations for my sexual preferences ultimately mean very little; in the end, it's window dressing. I can't control what turns me on. That said, my preference for fat women does not sentence me to having lazy, apathetic lovers. My experiences have proven this true. And I plan on making damn sure that whoever I have children with is dynamic and active regardless to her body mass.
I respect your opinion though and I especially appreciate the respectful way you presented it.
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Mad_Larkin said: Whatever tickles your nipples brah.
Whatever creams your twinkie, broham.
@Tchan: out of curiosity, how fat is your mom? (SERIOUS QUESTION!) I'm wondering what the origins of this fetish might be... definitely not into it myself but hey, if you're into it it's more cushion for the pushin'. 
Me, I've never been into fat chicks. I can see the appeal of plump 'uns but I definitely wouldn't date any girl who weighs more than I do. Might have to do one as a one night stand kinda thing, though... there's a fraternity tradition at my college called "going whaling" which pretty much constitutes seeing how many fat women you can bang in the course of a single night. 
EDIT: oh god, imagine if fat chick pr0n merged with vorarephilia. The frog would explode while trying to engulf the sheer girth of some of the women Tchan909 posted. 
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deCypher said: EDIT: oh god, imagine if fat chick pr0n merged with vorarephilia. The frog would explode while trying to engulf the sheer girth of some of the women Tchan909 posted.  
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Mad_Larkin said: Whatever tickles your nipples brah.
Whatever creams your twinkie, broham.
@Tchan: out of curiosity, how fat is your mom? (SERIOUS QUESTION!) I'm wondering what the origins of this fetish might be... definitely not into it myself but hey, if you're into it it's more cushion for the pushin'. 
Me, I've never been into fat chicks. I can see the appeal of plump 'uns but I definitely wouldn't date any girl who weighs more than I do. Might have to do one as a one night stand kinda thing, though... there's a fraternity tradition at my college called "going whaling" which pretty much constitutes seeing how many fat women you can bang in the course of a single night. 
EDIT: oh god, imagine if fat chick pr0n merged with vorarephilia. The frog would explode while trying to engulf the sheer girth of some of the women Tchan909 posted.  
My mom is not thin but she is not overweight either. She's very average. I actually think the roots of this fetish involve other early childhood experiences, I've had very thin girls hurt my feelings very badly at a very early age and it has lessened my inclination to be physically attracted. At least, that's my theory. When I was in Kindergarten I became very close friends with a stick-limbed little half-Asian girl; for years we were very close and made mock plans to get married and everything. After, in fifth grade, I determined that I actually "actually" really liked "liked" her and informed her of such, in my ludicrously awkward fifth-grade beginning-adolescence way, she never so much as looked at me again.

I really don't want the things I'm about to say to be seen as misogynistic because I think they're very legitimate gripes... very often, conventionally attractive women think that because they look like the people on the TV set, they deserve the same level of respect at a young, unaccomplished age as a man who is older, has achieved success, and provides for himself and loved ones. This is simply not true. Would you give a clown that level of respect? I wouldn't. 
I don't have a PROBLEM with conventionally attractive women. I have many conventionally attractive friends, and they deserve my respect because they're good, intelligent people and they work hard and go to school. I've just been very turned-off by the massive inequality in proportions of respect many others of them feel they deserve vs. what they give back.
You should at least be friendly with fat chicks though Cypher, they don't deserve to be disrespected for their girth. That goin' whalin' tradition is seriously fucked up, and it also tends to make bigger women wary of me when I call them attractive. 
Also, fat chick pr0n HAS merged with vorarephilia, and it goes both ways. Never forget Rule 34, my friend. Though obviously, in maintaining fidelity to Rule 34, it is important that we get a :tastestoomuchman: now that the has been achieved
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and my girlfriend gives me crap for being into bdsm.
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Tchan909 said: You should at least be friendly with fat chicks though Cypher, they don't deserve to be disrespected for their girth.
Oh I'm friends with a few fat girls; I definitely don't disrespect them in any way. My statement was just in regards to dating them. I have heard, though, that since they're generally so desperate for physical intimacy due to their large nature they often will be willing to do things most girls wouldn't in the bedroom... T/F in your experience?
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am i still the only one that is turned on by the idea of a threesome with a frog and a bitch? i might even fuck the frog if shit starts to really steam.
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Dunno said: am i still the only one that is turned on by the idea of a threesome with a frog and a bitch?
I sincerely hope so...
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hahah tchan my brother is in to fat chicks too...hahaha he just laughs and says "I dunno, I just like fat chicks". It's definitely not as weird as
I would just rather have sex with a chick would could move around... If I can't pick her up I won't have sex with her
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I find the increased mobility and flexibility to be one of the issues there.
For example my ex (who I already mentioned is big) was a complete nympho...wanted it 20 times a day. But, there were maybe 3 or 4 positions we could have sex in.
With a thin girl, sometimes, I will push her legs/knees up to her chest, and fuck her like that (goes very deep, and is one position from which even I can bruise a cervix with my average tool. Girls often like it. Squeeze the legs together for +1). But big girls really can't do this as well, as well as any of a number of positions I can think of.
That is a disadvantage, even the girls would have to admit to. And having to have sex the same way, every time, little variety, REALLY does not help pep up the libido.
(And again, I'm mainly talking about morbidly obese size, or close to it. Not just a little chubby)
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Dunno said: am i still the only one that is turned on by the idea of a threesome with a frog and a bitch? i might even fuck the frog if shit starts to really steam.

Frogs are very satisfying according to this chimp
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I was going to post that video but didn't know if it was too far.
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Oh no...it isnt 
Haha i was surprised no one posted it yet
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Out of curiosity, I had to see what that original girl looked like naked.
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