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Anonymous #1
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how does sex compare to masturbation?
#13985802 - 02/18/11 05:27 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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for someone who is a virgin, how would you compare the experience of making love with a significant other to the solitary act of masturbation?
infinitely better? not much different? depends on the partner?
thanks for the input
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Anonymous #2
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13985843 - 02/18/11 05:35 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Depends on the partner, situation, chemistry. It's possible that it could feel all wrong.
Still a 50+% chance that it's 1000x times better than masturbation.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#13985865 - 02/18/11 05:38 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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girls start fucking with your head once you have sex with them. its a bitch.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: PilzeEssen]
#13985878 - 02/18/11 05:41 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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masturbation doesn't even compare to the real thing but it's a bloody good substitute
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Anonymous #1
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: PilzeEssen]
#13985882 - 02/18/11 05:42 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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they probably do it purposely too, huh?
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13985886 - 02/18/11 05:43 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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girls and there feelings, pfft.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: PilzeEssen]
#13985898 - 02/18/11 05:47 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
PilzeEssen said: girls start fucking with your head once you have sex with them. its a bitch.
they fuck with my head before i have sex with them
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13985909 - 02/18/11 05:49 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Whooa whoa whoa. Not even true. Some girls suck at being cool about sex, just like some guys suck at being cool about sex. But not ALL girls do shit like that, believe me.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Cephalopod]
#13986035 - 02/18/11 06:15 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Sex is way better but a lot of work sometimes
The times that you are tired go for a blowjob
It depends on the partner if she is willing to blow you are not after a long day
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dummy
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13986069 - 02/18/11 06:20 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: for someone who is a virgin, how would you compare the experience of making love with a significant other to the solitary act of masturbation?
infinitely better? not much different? depends on the partner?
thanks for the input 
this is actually something i've done a good deal of thinking about, so let me tell you how i see it.
masturbation and sex are like distant cousins. sure, in the end you jizz, it feels pretty good, and you're sleepy. but thats about it. when i first had sex i was almost disappointed because i thought it would be very similar to masturbation. the major difference, as i see it, is that when you masturbate there is something you're looking at that is turning you on. whether that is a vagina being penetrated, someone playing with themselves, etc etc. when you're having sex you aren't looking at the point of penetration. you can get a peak, but you can't really stare because you would be in an awkward position. in sex you're mostly feeling as apposed to masturbation where you're mostly seeing.
also the feelings you get are quite different. from the physical sensation on your cock (much more of a subtle, warm, novel, good feeling than your hand which isn't 'subtle' because you know how to make yourself cum and it isn't particularly special) also you just can't trust as fast as you can jack yourself off. the orgasms aren't very much different between sex and masturbation. i've had the best orgasms ever from masturbating but i still prefer sex.
another thing; you can masturbate to really freaky shit and it feels exciting. if you try to do some of these things (depending on who you are of course) in real life, you'll probably be really uncomfortable.
tldr; masturbation is about looking, sex is about feeling.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: dummy] 1
#13991723 - 02/19/11 07:21 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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*Good* sex is sooo much more. To not only feel amazing, but to make someone else feel amazing at the same time is... god, when you both cum at the same time and the whole fucking world just disappears for an unknown moment, and you collapse onto/into each other laughing in ecstasy, really it can be spectacular. Or it can be just physical sex, just getting off...
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Lynnch]
#13992658 - 02/19/11 10:00 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Both are important. I wouldn't solely want one, ever.
I'd probably say sex is "better" than masturbation for obvious reasons, but masturbation is a very selfish thing, it's easy to start or stop whenever you want to, you're usually pretty good at it, and you can indulge in a much wider variety of subject material. And of course, most men entered the world of sex with masturbation so it has a pretty special place in most people's life stories.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Lynnch]
#13992667 - 02/19/11 10:01 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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ya sex can be a lot like masturbation. but thats just shitty sex.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Humility]
#13992714 - 02/19/11 10:10 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Humility said: Both are important. I wouldn't solely want one, ever.
I'd probably say sex is "better" than masturbation for obvious reasons, but masturbation is a very selfish thing, it's easy to start or stop whenever you want to, you're usually pretty good at it, and you can indulge in a much wider variety of subject material. And of course, most men entered the world of sex with masturbation so it has a pretty special place in most people's life stories.
is masturbation a negative and unproductive act in your opinion?
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Anonymous #3
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13993306 - 02/19/11 11:51 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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When you get laid on a regular basis you'll have no need for using masturbation for sexual release because sex is so much better. Wackin' it will only be necessary to pass boredom.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#13993389 - 02/20/11 12:06 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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And/or masturbate with/for your partner.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#13993796 - 02/20/11 01:29 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Sex is waaaaay better if for no other reason than the sound a girl makes when you make her come.
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Doc_T]
#13993842 - 02/20/11 01:39 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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For me, masturbation is somewhat of a chore whereas sex is pure satisfaction. There's so much more to immerse your senses in with sex, it's fantastic. It's like playing flight simulator compared to actually flying an aircraft.
dummy makes some excellent points. I found a stack of porno when I was fairly young and I think from that point on I became hardwired into being more visually stimulated than physically stimulated by sex. If I'm having sex regularly, I pretty much need to see some of the action to get off, otherwise I'll just go forever and eventually lose interest.
Of course, nobody ever got pregnant or caught a STD from masturbating. Having had numerous 'scares' concerning both of these potential consequences made it sink in that the sexual impulse can be a lot of trouble, and that maybe masturbation ain't so bad after all...
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#13994553 - 02/20/11 08:35 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I feel if you're in a long term relationship masturbation is the greatest thing for a man. If she holds you hostage with sex, you can throw on some porn and go to town for those 2-3 minute Nothing pisses a woman off more than you jerking it to another woman.. or at least in my experience. And if you get bored with your dominant hand just sit on the other for a few minutes and go stranger!
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Re: how does sex compare to masturbation? [Re: D3n3]
#13996732 - 02/20/11 05:14 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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i just wanna have sex already 
these threads made me feel like such a loser
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