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PreparationH
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: TheHandOfDoom]
#13981614 - 02/17/11 09:54 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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probably didnt know she took drugs
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: PreparationH]
#13981698 - 02/17/11 10:07 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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Yeah they are assholes. And it makes me sick thinking about it.
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: Legend]
#13981710 - 02/17/11 10:10 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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People are just fucked up like that. They would rather make a fool of you than to help a person in need.
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: masterfluffypants]
#13981734 - 02/17/11 10:13 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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This thread is so deep. Aghhh, fuck suffering
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: Luc1d]
#13981744 - 02/17/11 10:15 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: Shroom_i]
#13981761 - 02/17/11 10:18 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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But again to Wiccan_Seeker, if you'd like to pm me I can provide a photo of myself and proof of DOB in hand if it comes down to that.
I'll take your word for it, I'm glad that's out of the way.
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: Legend]
#13981766 - 02/17/11 10:19 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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Heres a shroom for all those who have fallen prey of death's ugly fingers Peace love and unity to all my shroom brothers and sisters and may your days be long and filled with joy and prosperity. AND MUSHROOMS
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: Shroom_i]
#13981862 - 02/17/11 10:38 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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Shroom_i said: It started off innocent enough, he started smoking, cigarettes and weed. I would openly criticize his choices, and try to change him, to no avail. He begn having problems at home, tired of sneaking, and having no freedom. He felt alone, and like his family was against him, so he made a habit of running away for a few days, then coming home.
This was me at that age. I think of it a lot. Sometimes I wish things had gone differently. I felt like my parents were attacking my freedom, and just hurting me more, so I rebelled violently.
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Eventually the weed wasn't enough. He begn his downfall, and constantly chased the dragon. All he did was get into trouble over drugs. He was back and forth between states, pawned off on other family members to try to "straighten him out." He moved on from weed, to... anything.
That is a hard ugly life, and I am sorry to say that I understand why your brother could not deal with it any longer.
After a while you even kind of lose sense of who you are and where you came from. You just know that shit got really fucked up, and you don't have a do-over. Sometimes people can't see past that.
I am really sorry for your loss. 
And if there are any parents reading this, who just caught your kid using drugs. GIVE THEM A FUCKING HUG AND THEN TALK TO THEM GOD DAMN YOU. Don't talk down, don't preach, try like hell to understand. If you don't you might just drive your kid away from you forever, or help set them on a path that will destroy them.
People will make their own choices, but kids still need their parents. And not just the judgment and rules of their parents. They need love, support, understanding, non-judgmental guidance. If your emotionally-disturbed teen is taking drugs and you reinforce to them the message that they're a fuckup and never will go anywhere, then this is what is likely to happen.
This is, how I see it, another casualty of the drug war. Government brainwashes society so badly that even HIPPIES WHO SMOKED THE STUFF WHEN THEY WERE KIDS are freaking out when they catch their kids smoking pot. Sometimes that situation works out "normally." Sometimes it does not. The parents freak out, try to put a stranglehold on the child's social life, giving them even greater incentive to rebel.
I bet this scenario is more common than anyone realizes. Sad, and ironic.
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: CidneyIndole]
#13981886 - 02/17/11 10:42 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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that reminds me of the mother that posted on the shroomery about her daughter who had taken mushrooms and was having personality disorder type symptoms and stuff. i thought it was really cool she came to us to try to understand about it instead of just raging against her kid.
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: nicechrisman]
#13982036 - 02/17/11 11:03 PM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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nicechrisman said: that reminds me of the mother that posted on the shroomery about her daughter who had taken mushrooms and was having personality disorder type symptoms and stuff. i thought it was really cool she came to us to try to understand about it instead of just raging against her kid.
The world really does need more of that.
I almost feel like there should be some kind of better social programs in place to prevent this kind of thing.
Level-headed, sane, emotionally-mature parents that were able to offer proper guidance to their children seem to be in demand. I haven't personally known very many, in my lifetime.
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: nicechrisman]
#13983250 - 02/18/11 06:31 AM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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nicechrisman said: that reminds me of the mother that posted on the shroomery about her daughter who had taken mushrooms and was having personality disorder type symptoms and stuff. i thought it was really cool she came to us to try to understand about it instead of just raging against her kid.
i remember that mom. she was awesome and showed true concern for her daughters well being. we need more parents like her.
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: gerryjarcia]
#13983253 - 02/18/11 06:35 AM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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link guys?
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: masterfluffypants] 1
#13983299 - 02/18/11 07:22 AM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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masterfluffypants said: People are just fucked up like that. They would rather make a fool of you than to help a person in need.
Seeing a teenager fall asleep on the way to school at 7AM wouldn't exactly raise alarms for most people I don't think. I never drew on them, but everyone slept on my bus in highschool
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: Cellzaa]
#13983476 - 02/18/11 08:35 AM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: 4runner]
#13983488 - 02/18/11 08:39 AM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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this thread has been pretty good as far as spreading awareness
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Re: How my 15 year old brother accidentally committed suicide. [Re: DrGuano]
#13984227 - 02/18/11 11:51 AM (13 years, 15 days ago) |
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DrGuano said:
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masterfluffypants said: People are just fucked up like that. They would rather make a fool of you than to help a person in need.
Seeing a teenager fall asleep on the way to school at 7AM wouldn't exactly raise alarms for most people I don't think. I never drew on them, but everyone slept on my bus in highschool
I mean in the sense of drawing on her face and shit. This same principle goes for if someone gets shitfaced and passes out at a party or social gathering. If someone knocks out, it is a 99.99999% chance people will do something stupid to that person. But I guess that person is also at fault for getting so fucked up. But still. I have yet to meet someone that wouldnt wake up if they just fell asleep because they were tired and people started fucking with them.
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