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Girls: how long to wait before calling your number?
#13873658 - 01/29/11 10:04 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Got a number last night, how long am I stalling for before calling the girl? Usually I call on the third day or so. I don't see why people make such a big deal out of this petty shit.
Girls: If a guy called the next day, would you feel like he's desperate? What if he waited a whole week? Does it really MATTER?
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: noticeofeviction]
#13873663 - 01/29/11 10:05 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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I was just thinking of this. I think the shit's so retarded. Why bother calling at all if you're too fucking cool to not call right away? Same with dating sites. I've read things that you're "supposed to wait 2 days, no less" before responding? Why? You're on the site to MEET people and talk with them, I don't get it.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: noticeofeviction] 1
#13873668 - 01/29/11 10:06 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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7 days.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: The_Ghost]
#13873678 - 01/29/11 10:09 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Whenever it's most convenient to you.
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noticeofeviction
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: pfxtc] 1
#13873681 - 01/29/11 10:10 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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pfxtc said: I was just thinking of this. I think the shit's so retarded. Why bother calling at all if you're too fucking cool to not call right away? Same with dating sites. I've read things that you're "supposed to wait 2 days, no less" before responding? Why? You're on the site to MEET people and talk with them, I don't get it.
and with dating sites the other person knows you logged on and read their message... and then proceeded to ignore it and respond days later
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: Belac] 1
#13873683 - 01/29/11 10:11 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Stop thinking about it.
It's not how long you waited.
It's that you were too busy with your independence prior to calling, however long that takes.
Get it?
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: pfxtc]
#13873698 - 01/29/11 10:13 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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I got a girls number last week and still haven't called her When I do call her, I will explain that I have been been really busy and I would NEVER miss the opportunity to possibly make friends with a such sweetheart like herself. She seemed like she was a caring person and I hope she understands.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: Arden]
#13873704 - 01/29/11 10:15 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Arden said: Stop thinking about it.
It's not how long you waited.
It's that you were too busy with your independence prior to calling, however long that takes.
Get it?
I feel like 90% of the time people just wait X number of days to give off that impression.
Got hot girls number, damn do I suddenly have a busy life.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: danlennon3]
#13873711 - 01/29/11 10:16 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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danlennon3 said: I got a girls number last week and still haven't called her When I do call her, I will explain that I have been been really busy and I would NEVER miss the opportunity to possibly make friends with a such sweetheart like herself. She seemed like she was a caring person and I hope she understands.
Nice, making her feel insecure by not calling her then totally swoopin' in and making her feel worthy of you thus making her wan't your dick more. Smooth.
I Kid, I hope shes a keeper
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: noticeofeviction]
#13873731 - 01/29/11 10:19 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said:
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pfxtc said: I was just thinking of this. I think the shit's so retarded. Why bother calling at all if you're too fucking cool to not call right away? Same with dating sites. I've read things that you're "supposed to wait 2 days, no less" before responding? Why? You're on the site to MEET people and talk with them, I don't get it.
and with dating sites the other person knows you logged on and read their message... and then proceeded to ignore it and respond days later
I was talking with this one girl and it was going real well, we had about 15 messages between us, and out of nowhere she deletes her account.
Online dating is a fucking train wreck.. only doing this shit because I'm in the middle of nowhere.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: pfxtc]
#13873754 - 01/29/11 10:24 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Got hot girls number, damn do I suddenly have a busy life.
so true.
I usually contact them in a couple of days.
If it's too "fast" or "forward" then they're playing fucking games, and probably think missionary is adventurous.
Since I work by efficiency I cancel these twats off and move forward.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: noticeofeviction]
#13873761 - 01/29/11 10:25 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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um, what? Why is this even being asked. Just call her.
If she is a normal person, she won't care when you call her, period.
If she is crazy, she might care because she has some delusional expectation about phone calls... in which case you don't ever want to hang out with her.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: Arden]
#13873765 - 01/29/11 10:26 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Just jack off and forget about her
-------------------- koods said: Young male going by the name "Bassfreak" entered Worcester General complaining of a sharp pain in his buttock region after attending EDM event. Attending physician considered a possible diagnosis of acute rave anus, but upon further investigation it was determined there was nothing cute about patient's anus. Life-long trip report
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: Belac]
#13873768 - 01/29/11 10:27 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Belac said:
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danlennon3 said: I got a girls number last week and still haven't called her When I do call her, I will explain that I have been been really busy and I would NEVER miss the opportunity to possibly make friends with a such sweetheart like herself. She seemed like she was a caring person and I hope she understands.
Nice, making her feel insecure by not calling her then totally swoopin' in and making her feel worthy of you thus making her wan't your dick more. Smooth.
I Kid, I hope shes a keeper
That wasnt my intentions... But you are probably right!
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: Meat_hod]
#13873781 - 01/29/11 10:33 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Meat_hod said: um, what? Why is this even being asked. Just call her.
If she is a normal person, she won't care when you call her, period.
If she is crazy, she might care because she has some delusional expectation about phone calls... in which case you don't ever want to hang out with her.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: pfxtc]
#13873894 - 01/29/11 11:04 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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pfxtc said: I was just thinking of this. I think the shit's so retarded.
sometimes the social "games" we think we have to play are just plain stupid
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: deCypher]
#13873919 - 01/29/11 11:10 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sometimes I just wish we could pull in the old school and just go all medieval on some prime.
I'm not sure what I just said.
deCypher your signature is fucking hilarious.
-------------------- koods said: Young male going by the name "Bassfreak" entered Worcester General complaining of a sharp pain in his buttock region after attending EDM event. Attending physician considered a possible diagnosis of acute rave anus, but upon further investigation it was determined there was nothing cute about patient's anus. Life-long trip report
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: noticeofeviction]
#13873933 - 01/29/11 11:11 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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noticeofeviction said: Got a number last night, how long am I stalling for before calling the girl? Usually I call on the third day or so. I don't see why people make such a big deal out of this petty shit.
Girls: If a guy called the next day, would you feel like he's desperate? What if he waited a whole week? Does it really MATTER?
The fact you're anxiously waiting to call her, and suffering having to wait a few days, is what turns a girl off quick... the reason dudes wait to call chicks, is because they don't want to be THAT guy... and girls know who you are.
I've gotten girls numbers before, but I never call 'em, I lose interest very quickly and I just don't have the energy to bother with people... unfortunately, when you're genuinely a standoffish asshole like me, the girls often times will track your ass down and say "why didn't you call" and wind up obsessed with you... so maybe you should call her next week?
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: pfxtc]
#13873969 - 01/29/11 11:19 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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pfxtc said: Sometimes I just wish we could pull in the old school and just go all medieval on some prime.
I'm not sure what I just said.
deCypher your signature is fucking hilarious.
Thanks man. Yeah, there's definitely moments where I ponder why we can't just go paleolithic style and club some attractive woman to drag her back to the cave.
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Re: Girls: how long to wait before calling your number? [Re: deCypher]
#13874062 - 01/29/11 11:43 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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deCypher said:
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pfxtc said: I was just thinking of this. I think the shit's so retarded.
sometimes the social "games" we think we have to play are just plain stupid
My thoughts exactly...
I understand trying to "woo" a lady...
But "the game" is fucking lame, unfortunately all these rules and regulations seem to be backed up by modern media. The ladies that don't care about the game and drama are far and few between, at least around my parts...
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