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Your parents having sex
#13825724 - 01/21/11 12:13 PM (13 years, 10 days ago) |
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My parents were in a sexless marriage by the time I popped out... well not completely, but defiantly by the time I was old enough to remember. It wasn't because of the kids, it was because of the stress of private doctor practice. It was more my dad's fault than anything, because I know my mom still tried to be romantic and such.. well until the effort was futile.
I never really saw them having any real romance at all. None. All I ever saw him was being bitter as time got rolled on. He passed away not too long ago, but I always ponder if my mom will ever remarry. I kind of doubt it, but I wouldn't stand in her way. She deserves someone that actually romances her and sexes her up right. Gross I know to talk about a mother, namely mine, but I've grown beyond the whole ewwww factor and realize she is like any body else with needs of her own that my dad failed to provide for. I'm not looking to set her up on dates or what not, but if on the off chance I walked in the door one day and heard a squicky bed and what not, I wouldn't be disgusted, and I would leave them be of course.
Has anyone either walked in on their parents, or into a house knowing it was going on? Or shared a wall or something? How did it effect you? As a kid, I think I honestly would have been a happier one knowing romance got put back into their lives even if I didn't understand what the hell was going on.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Lennyk]
#13826253 - 01/21/11 01:57 PM (13 years, 10 days ago) |
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My situation is much like yours. The most intimacy I have ever witnessed is them in bed watching a movie BARELY touching each other.
Good and bad I guess. Definitely not the way I want it but it would have been *traumatic* for me to see those two old people fucking. My mom and dad were around 40 when I was born and did not take good care of their bodies so I'd be witnessing a horrible event.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Humility]
#13826926 - 01/21/11 03:47 PM (13 years, 10 days ago) |
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My parents never expressed romantic emotion with each other. At least not with us kids around. Well, almost never. I think that's why I don't really express much emotion.
I did, however, recently witness my grandparents buying a bottle of lube when I was on a shopping trip with them. They tried to be sorta discreet, but not enough so. They're in their mid 70's.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Lennyk]
#13826948 - 01/21/11 03:51 PM (13 years, 10 days ago) |
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My parents get it on all the time, they're in their mid-60's.
They've been happily married for 42yrs
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They would always fuck on family camping trips and we could hear them, it was gross.
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Never seen, heard, or encountered any evidence of my parents having sex. Thank God.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: deCypher]
#13830571 - 01/22/11 08:59 AM (13 years, 9 days ago) |
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Hm. My parents have been married almost 30 years and they're in their mid 50s. They sleep in separate rooms and I have never suspected them to have had sex in the last 15 years or more.
It's really depressing as they are almost in a loveless-marriage... hmm. They rarely ever kiss or touch... I would prefer to have them romantic and hear them having sex lol. As sick as that is!
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i woke up early for school (elementary) one day and walked out of my room into my hallway. My parents room is directly on the right and the door was open...
i acted like i didnt see anything and walked into my bathroom and started showering...
scarring experience, but it also gives me a bit of hope that even though my parents dont put on that they are the closest couple, they do actually love each other and arent just married out of convenience or worse, because of me and my brother
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Slavaslave]
#13831395 - 01/22/11 12:45 PM (13 years, 9 days ago) |
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I'd tell my parents to get a divorce if they were staying together on my behalf.
It's really sad to see people in a loveless relationship that has been going on for X number of decades.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Lennyk]
#13832424 - 01/22/11 04:32 PM (13 years, 9 days ago) |
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I've woken up early on a couple occasions and overheard them. Disturbing, but I got over it.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Silversoul]
#13833218 - 01/22/11 07:08 PM (13 years, 8 days ago) |
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When I was 7 i walked into the living room around midnight I was gonna get myself a drink. Saw my dad banging my mom on the floor... Gross, worste thing you would ever want to see.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: iwanna]
#13833350 - 01/22/11 07:28 PM (13 years, 8 days ago) |
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I don't see how it is that bad... I have walked in on friends... it is whatever and smells sometimes.. but still it isn't like walking in on abuse.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Lennyk]
#13836207 - 01/23/11 10:40 AM (13 years, 8 days ago) |
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If you're 8 and don't really know what sex is all about I think it could be kinda traumatic. You might even think it is abuse. Especially if mom and dad are into a little bit of s&m and u see dad wailin on moms ass with a frying pan.
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I guess it really depends on the upbringing. Those that saw no love wished to see anything at all, and those that heard it without comprehending it were like 
I guess it is perhaps I was exposed to sex at such a young age... or porn really. I had an older brother by a few years and he had older friends that would rot their brain to the scrambled channels. They snuck a couple of playboys and such, and you read about stuff. I didn't understand it completely, but my mind always seemed very developed in that area.
Perhaps that is why I don't see sex as such a big deal. If I'm not the one having it, and see people going at it in a parking lot or something, I am more better not be by my car lol.
Although, I've never been one to get scarred from anything, even being molested several times as a child. It was bad, but doesn't doesn't effect me today. If I ever saw it going on though, throats would be cut no doubt.
I'm still waiting for that gal that loves me as much as her, then maybe sex will seem more special.
Kind of odd how we as humans are a product of sex, and yet at an early age, exposure can either be somewhat positive, neutral or completely disastrous.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Silversoul]
#13841770 - 01/24/11 12:04 PM (13 years, 7 days ago) |
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Silversoul said: I've woken up early on a couple occasions and overheard them. Disturbing, but I got over it.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: LSDXM]
#13847447 - 01/25/11 11:51 AM (13 years, 6 days ago) |
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When I was younger, my sister and I were doing the trash. She got the trash from my parents bathroom, and for whatever reason was possessed to root around in the trash.
She found a used condom that was tied up. It was repulsive.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: arekusu]
#13848441 - 01/25/11 02:47 PM (13 years, 6 days ago) |
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did she eat it?
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I've walked in on sex and abuse (separately). Abuse is worse, but walking in on your dad giving it to your mom with the weird kind of vigor that comes from years of being jaded is pretty awe-inspiringly disgusting.
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This lucky guy right here shared a wall with his mom and her new boy friend for about 2 years. Shit sucked.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: thissongis]
#13851265 - 01/25/11 10:45 PM (13 years, 5 days ago) |
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thissongis said: This lucky guy right here shared a wall with his mom and her new boy friend for about 2 years. Shit sucked. 
I'm also subject to that hell, and it fucking sucks.
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The interesting question is whether or not this is due to societal taboos or innate disgust: is there anyone here who, if not took enjoyment out of their parents' sexual relations ( ), then at least took pride in their expressed loving bond?
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: deCypher]
#13851442 - 01/25/11 11:16 PM (13 years, 5 days ago) |
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Our parents are our models for morality, and our society demonizes sex because, centuries later, we are still puritanical freaks. As a child, when you don't know what's going on, it's a disturbing sight because sex is a pretty strange, animal act. When you do know what it is, it's disturbing because of that hatred of sex that's been pounded in to you by society.
I give fuck all about social taboos, but it's hard to undo the 12 or so years of programming I had before I could think independently.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: deCypher]
#13852963 - 01/26/11 10:10 AM (13 years, 5 days ago) |
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deCypher said: The interesting question is whether or not this is due to societal taboos or innate disgust: is there anyone here who, if not took enjoyment out of their parents' sexual relations ( ), then at least took pride in their expressed loving bond? 
now, looking back, i take pride in it... considering today's divorce rate and the non-documented loveless marriages, i am very proud to know that my parents still have intimate feelings toward each other
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Slavaslave]
#13858110 - 01/27/11 03:09 AM (13 years, 4 days ago) |
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Trust me, less sex is better than more sex. Before my parents divorced, they rarely had sex. My dad admitted it to me, which I think is pretty whack. It's like...you're married - which means you "can't" have sex with anyone but your spouse, yet your spouse won't have sex with you?! Uhh wtf? But now that he's got a girlfriend, they have sex pretty often. My bedroom is right below my dads, so every bed motion transfers VERY AUDIBLY through the floor and it's not even tight. I'm tryin to sleep at 1am but all I hear is fucking. Gotta move out....
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Anthony917]
#13870694 - 01/29/11 11:50 AM (13 years, 2 days ago) |
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I think deep down I am disgusted by it because of upbringing as well.
It makes no sense, especially when u look at other cultures around the world where sex is done openly in front of children.
Fucking Idiots, ruining kids lives...get a fucking room already you nudist scum.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: AlphaFalfa]
#13879416 - 01/30/11 10:11 PM (13 years, 19 hours ago) |
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My parents seperated when I was young but I found videos my dad shot of him fucking his new wife and walked in on my mom and her boyfriend.. It bothered me at the time but looking back it's not a big deal at all.
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Re: Your parents having sex [Re: Synesthetic]
#13879511 - 01/30/11 10:34 PM (13 years, 19 hours ago) |
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Synesthetic said:
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thissongis said: This lucky guy right here shared a wall with his mom and her new boy friend for about 2 years. Shit sucked. 
I'm also subject to that hell, and it fucking sucks.
makes me hurl
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