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Offlinepfxtc
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forgot how to do this shit
    #13800089 - 01/16/11 11:49 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

i havn't dated in over 2 years, it's been a pretty rough time, i've moved, whole bunch of stuff has happened.

is it awkward to just approach women in public and strike up conversation? recently i've been so paranoid about the whole ordeal, but i'm trying to adopt a more "not giving a fuck" approach and just want to start talking to as many women as possible. i'm not ugly or good looking, just average i suppose. anyone have anything else to add? i've learned that to counter anxiety you have to deal with the issue at hand.


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: pfxtc]
    #13800153 - 01/17/11 12:03 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)

I'm pretty awkward when it comes to approaching women in random public places and striking up conversation, but getting buzzed at a bar and talking to 'em has always served me well.


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: deCypher]
    #13800770 - 01/17/11 04:14 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)

I totally won that shit; but boys, I dunno If it can be taught. 

They are just fucking people like you and I...  You want to talk about her tits and vagina; i know....  and you get awkward cuz you think she knows...  And then she knows. 
:gameover:

at some point, you get to a time where you don't care...  Or perhaps, more to the point, outcomes of your greetings are out of your concern.  Simply chatting, relaxed and pleasant with a person you find attractive, for a minute is awesome. Perhaps you stop wasting energy on all that thinking... :shrug:

OH....  Perhaps this will help; Sex, love, lust, farts and bad breath are all in the cards somewhere, even for you awkward, junkie or ugly types; So just smile as it all passes, doing whatever it may.  You are bound to stick it in someone.  I for one would rather a bunch of pleasant conversations in the mean time.  Especially with really hot girls who won't know what hit em' when a guy treats them like a person.  Just chill and sincere. 

Best advice is to talk to women at every chance, just as people. Cuz they are!


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: pfxtc]
    #13800810 - 01/17/11 05:01 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)

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pfxtc said:
i havn't dated in over 2 years, it's been a pretty rough time, i've moved, whole bunch of stuff has happened.

is it awkward to just approach women in public and strike up conversation? recently i've been so paranoid about the whole ordeal, but i'm trying to adopt a more "not giving a fuck" approach and just want to start talking to as many women as possible. i'm not ugly or good looking, just average i suppose. anyone have anything else to add? i've learned that to counter anxiety you have to deal with the issue at hand.





It's not awkward. People do it all the time. We are very social creatures and will respond well to genuine conversation, unless you're a pretentious whore. Also, sometimes the best person to talk to is the one who listens. Be the catalyst. Introduce a topic, listen, add ambiguous commentary, transition into next topic, and so on. Don't talk up a storm only to find yourself in an awkward dead-end. Make witty comments that are funny. It'll remind her that you're listening and it'll make her see a less serious side of you.
Practice on girls you know are in your league for a little. Nothing too serious, just fun and games. It'll put you back in gear and keep your game sharp. Make it gradual. You'll start to learn the different types of girls, and their pertaining personalities. You'll begin to judge moments with a fairly clear understanding of what is an appropriate thing to say and what isn't. This will all make the process of striking up conversation run smoothly. Then, once you've regained your confidence, you can really step it up.


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13801401 - 01/17/11 10:38 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)

Confidence and having an attitude of not giving a fuck either way has always worked for me.

When I was single and used to try to pick up the ladies. I would strike out more times then not. The key is just laughing it off pegging it as her loss and move on to the next one.
Sometimes even the fact that you so easily let them go and moved on to the next gets them.

Learn to watch people body language subtle things. Go out and people watch.
Dont just approach random chica's in public wait till they give you the look then approach them. Bars on the other hand are fair game. Unless her boyfriends right there(not always the case some couples share :ashamed:).

Women want it just as bad as we do not all of them because we live in a sexually repressive society . Thanks monotheism :jesus2:


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: Dickhead]
    #13814176 - 01/19/11 01:24 PM (13 years, 30 days ago)

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Awebig said:
I totally won that shit; but boys, I dunno If it can be taught. 

They are just fucking people like you and I...  You want to talk about her tits and vagina; i know....  and you get awkward cuz you think she knows...  And then she knows. 
:gameover:

at some point, you get to a time where you don't care...  Or perhaps, more to the point, outcomes of your greetings are out of your concern.  Simply chatting, relaxed and pleasant with a person you find attractive, for a minute is awesome. Perhaps you stop wasting energy on all that thinking... :shrug:

OH....  Perhaps this will help; Sex, love, lust, farts and bad breath are all in the cards somewhere, even for you awkward, junkie or ugly types; So just smile as it all passes, doing whatever it may.  You are bound to stick it in someone.  I for one would rather a bunch of pleasant conversations in the mean time.  Especially with really hot girls who won't know what hit em' when a guy treats them like a person.  Just chill and sincere. 

Best advice is to talk to women at every chance, just as people. Cuz they are!





QFT :thumbup:


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: Dickhead]
    #13821111 - 01/20/11 03:04 PM (13 years, 29 days ago)

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Awebig said:
I totally won that shit; but boys, I dunno If it can be taught. 

They are just fucking people like you and I...  You want to talk about her tits and vagina; i know....  and you get awkward cuz you think she knows...  And then she knows. 
:gameover:

at some point, you get to a time where you don't care...  Or perhaps, more to the point, outcomes of your greetings are out of your concern.  Simply chatting, relaxed and pleasant with a person you find attractive, for a minute is awesome. Perhaps you stop wasting energy on all that thinking... :shrug:

OH....  Perhaps this will help; Sex, love, lust, farts and bad breath are all in the cards somewhere, even for you awkward, junkie or ugly types; So just smile as it all passes, doing whatever it may.  You are bound to stick it in someone.  I for one would rather a bunch of pleasant conversations in the mean time.  Especially with really hot girls who won't know what hit em' when a guy treats them like a person.  Just chill and sincere. 

Best advice is to talk to women at every chance, just as people. Cuz they are!




i think this maybe the issue for all men in such situations. the underlying presumption that sex is some how apart of a conversation that you strike up in public. it shouldn't be or you're doomed to start with. it has to be an innocent curiosity if you want anything good, or anything at all to come of such contact. i'd say leave the bar sluts alone because they're similarly lost. fare well gents.


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: pfxtc]
    #13822963 - 01/20/11 08:55 PM (13 years, 29 days ago)

you gotta learn some game


too much game will get you in trouble though cause you'll end up with absolutely anyone cause you were too busy to get a feel for the girl and she turns out to be a real psycho and is truly psychotic and calls you once a day even though you havent answered in a week...like that girl I met at the train stop

too little game and you become a friend...which means you are a guy that doesn't have what she wants and she will continue to talk to you because she thinks it is rude and awkward to just drop you from her life

anyways those are the two things that happen if all you are after is pussy

if you're after more than pussy then all you gotta do is act natural

its helpful to develop a complete and intricate charade too... i develop mine around being sane, responsible, and motivated....every girl will fall for it long enough for you to fuck them...it isnt evil though cause if after she fucks you you have to live the charade....its like man becomes art and you become smart and shit and start having cocktails at gallery openings and shit

yeah that is my relationship with the pussy....man becomes art


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: Cherk]
    #13823036 - 01/20/11 09:09 PM (13 years, 29 days ago)

Nicely written post.

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cherokee said:
its helpful to develop a complete and intricate charade too... i develop mine around being sane, responsible, and motivated....every girl will fall for it long enough for you to fuck them...it isnt evil though cause if after she fucks you you have to live the charade....its like man becomes art and you become smart and shit and start having cocktails at gallery openings and shit




I'd rather not have to pretend I'm someone I'm not, though.  Why not improve yourself first and then go after women?


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Re: forgot how to do this shit [Re: deCypher]
    #13823051 - 01/20/11 09:12 PM (13 years, 29 days ago)

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deCypher said:
Nicely written post.

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cherokee said:
its helpful to develop a complete and intricate charade too... i develop mine around being sane, responsible, and motivated....every girl will fall for it long enough for you to fuck them...it isnt evil though cause if after she fucks you you have to live the charade....its like man becomes art and you become smart and shit and start having cocktails at gallery openings and shit




I'd rather not have to pretend I'm someone I'm not, though.  Why not improve yourself first and then go after women?





i like women that think they are in for a fixer upper and then BAM MOTHERFUCKER you blow them out of the water


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