Dude, OP, you are acting really immature and insecure. She is definitely cheating on you.. maybe that's why she was crying - guilt! Get real about it. You want and love her really really badly and you'd do anything to get her back. You constantly feel like she isn't giving you enough attention or doesn't love you enough and can't understand why she isn't swept off her feet when you tell her how much you love her and want to marry her. You probably tell her how you're going to go out and fuck someone else if she doesn't make a commitment to you. She senses your insecurities from a mile away, just as everyone else in this thread can.
How do I know so much? Because you act just like my girlfriend. That's right, you act like the bitch who spreads her legs and gets on all fours whenever I ask her to. And calls me daddy. There's something wrong when you remind me of her.
The girl is the one who is supposed to be emotional. The girl should be the one calling the guy and wondering if he loves her. She has the upper hand on you emotionally and you are going to get burned for it. No girl wants a whiny bitch for a boyfriend.
On the bright side, even though I recognize my girlfriend's insecurities, I don't take advantage of them. I would never cheat on her or use her insecurities in a fight to make her feel bad about herself. In other words, you don't have to pretend like you're somebody you're not, as you are doing. You should break up with her to save yourself from embarrassment down the road. Once she grows up a little, she'll realize how she has the upper hand and use it to fuck other more confident alpha males behind your back, if she's not already, to get back at you for all the times you made her feel like shit.
P.S. I highly doubt you would have been able to fuck one her friends simply by adding her on facebook, especially since your girlfriend probably tells her how crazy you are. And she could have easily seen it for what it was - flirting with her for revenge - and realized your insecurities if she didn't already.
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