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InvisibleLegend
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How to get over a 2 year relationship?
    #13480038 - 11/13/10 08:00 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Ive been with this girl for a little over 2 years, and i love her to death, but some shit happened. We've been fighting alot lately, and just haven't been able to see each other. just so much shit. So its just not working anymore. Long story short. Im still in love with this girl, and we broke up, how can i get over her? she was my life.


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Legend]
    #13480049 - 11/13/10 08:02 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Cut off all contact with her, and then just let time do its thing.


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Legend]
    #13480054 - 11/13/10 08:03 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I was in the same situation for a while

I went out with a girl for 1 year 11 months then we broke up.

I was depressed allot for the first couple months, a year has passed and im still not fully over it. Im over it for the most part. I started doing allot of things to get my mind off of it, start making new friends, going new places, doing new things. Finding a hobby is a good one.

CUT ALL CONTACTS UNTILL YOU GET OVER IT. I'm saying this from experience, it causes allot of drama/frustration most of the time. There's allot of girls out there, try not to see her as the only one.


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Edited by Zardos (11/13/10 08:05 PM)

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Zardos]
    #13480090 - 11/13/10 08:11 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

you must cut all contacts. it will really hurt you if u dont. even if that means facebook. its still gonna suck, but find other girls, get laid. it will help. either way, time heals

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Zardos]
    #13480097 - 11/13/10 08:13 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

nothing will work if you still love her, sorry.

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: dshow]
    #13480100 - 11/13/10 08:14 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

You dont have to cut all contact off, just become her friend. There is no need to create all this "relationship" nonsense. You have to be emotionally independent and mature if your gonna have any chance at having a real relationship.

Learn to have fun with yourself, who cares what she thinks, you decide your life not her.

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: p4kSouL]
    #13480115 - 11/13/10 08:16 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Go date someone else, anyone will do, you need temporary relief, plus if you find someone it will make her jealous.

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: lazyfingers]
    #13480124 - 11/13/10 08:18 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Dont play games, just do what you want to do its about what you want in your life not her, your life is your responsiblity.
Be nice and respectful, but let it go and find someone else. There is tons of interesting people out there.

Edited by p4kSouL (11/13/10 08:19 PM)

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: p4kSouL]
    #13480171 - 11/13/10 08:28 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

its just so much change, it was like she was mine, and we were each other. She was comfortable. She was safe, she knew me, and i knew her. Its just idk this is so much


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: p4kSouL]
    #13480177 - 11/13/10 08:28 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Pretty much nothing but time and ceasing contact with her is going to help you, man.  I went through it after a 2 1/2 year relationship and it was the worst.  Try not to let it fuck you up as much as you can, because you're going to eventually find another girl that really suits you better at the end of all this.

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: abltsandwich]
    #13480205 - 11/13/10 08:34 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

it seems like i dont want to find anyone else, i just dont think it is possible


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Legend]
    #13480235 - 11/13/10 08:42 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Do you live with her? When my last relationship ended I had to live with my ex for like 4 months because we both had nowhere else to go. I wish that on no one.

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Legend]
    #13480252 - 11/13/10 08:48 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

legit27 said:
Ive been with this girl for a little over 2 years, and i love her to death, but some shit happened. We've been fighting alot lately, and just haven't been able to see each other. just so much shit. So its just not working anymore. Long story short. Im still in love with this girl, and we broke up, how can i get over her? she was my life.




Damn I just dealt with some truly similar shit. But my girl and I made amends.
I thought I made the right decision by dumping her. But then when she was gone,
I felt so incredibly horrible. It wasn't right. I had to get her back.

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: DeadHearts]
    #13480287 - 11/13/10 08:56 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

no we do not live together


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Legend]
    #13480307 - 11/13/10 09:01 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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legit27 said:
it seems like i dont want to find anyone else, i just dont think it is possible




Listen. This happens to everybody. Cut all contacts with her and get over it (you will). What else is there to say?

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Grizvok]
    #13480402 - 11/13/10 09:27 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

:feelsbadman::sad::sad::sad: :cruelworld: this is what i'm gunna do soon enough.

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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #13480444 - 11/13/10 09:39 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

this does :feelsbadman:
what to do with this bitch
You may choose only one


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Legend]
    #13480460 - 11/13/10 09:44 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Don't suppose you have a fuck buddy you could call?  Putting your dick in someone else is the quick road to recovery.

Seriously though.  Go hang out with your friends and have a good time.  Go places that she didn't like to go very often.  Bars, sci-fi movies, thai food.  Whatever it was that you compromised on... Now you don't have to.  Go have some fun.


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: ShockValue]
    #13480480 - 11/13/10 09:49 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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ShockValue said:
Don't suppose you have a fuck buddy you could call?  Putting your dick in someone else is the quick road to recovery.

Seriously though.  Go hang out with your friends and have a good time.  Go places that she didn't like to go very often.  Bars, sci-fi movies, thai food.  Whatever it was that you compromised on... Now you don't have to.  Go have some fun.



1.i wish i did, but i lost her a while ago.and didnt really care since i had a girlfriend. but now i see i shouldve kept her around.

2.the only thing i wasnt really aloud to do, is drugs. and now i have some heart problems (no diganosed) so i cant get fucked up.
im thinking about drinking alot with some friends tonight though.


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Re: How to get over a 2 year relationship? [Re: Legend]
    #13480491 - 11/13/10 09:51 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Alcohol in a depressed and "i just broke up" state is a dangerous line.  Don't go overboard.


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