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Slavaslave
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i wish i could see...
#13474636 - 11/12/10 04:43 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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things through other people's eyes. I always over analyze everything that happens around me. I cant act on a whim because im too busy thinking about all the aspects that have gone into what caused this exact moment. I always worry about what is going through other people's minds and i dont want people to dislike me, but it is inevitable because i cant socialize on a "normal" level due to my constant over-thinking of EVERYTHING... i want to be stupid and slow for just one day at least... just do shit and not think about it, i want to go out and do some stupid embarrassing shit without thinking about it or caring afterward, but my mind wont allow for it. I cant shut the fucking thing off...
anyway blah blah bitch bitch im in a bad mood whine and cry...
-------------------- "I am serious... and don't call me Shirley." RIP
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Slavaslave]
#13474644 - 11/12/10 04:45 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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i hear you man...
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Arden
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Slavaslave]
#13474655 - 11/12/10 04:47 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Get yourself into trouble, start rumors and gossip, spontaneously call a girl you know and ask her out. Kill the over-analyzing by facing the fear. Nature favors the brave. Just try to make a change and some change will eventually come.
I've dealt with similar problems.
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Youshouldknowabc
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Arden]
#13474669 - 11/12/10 04:50 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Arden said: Get yourself into trouble, start rumors and gossip, spontaneously call a girl you know and ask her out. Kill the over-analyzing by facing the fear. Nature favors the brave. Just try to make a change and some change will eventually come.
I've dealt with similar problems.
Great advice.
Changing your habit of thinking is key. Your mind isn't always right. When it tells you that someone might hate you for farting in a room, let that shit rip, and smile afterward.
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Slavaslave]
#13474680 - 11/12/10 04:52 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Slavaslave said: i want to be stupid and slow for just one day at least... just do shit and not think about it, i want to go out and do some stupid embarrassing shit without thinking about it or caring afterward, but my mind wont allow for it.
Get a handle of liquor or a bunch of Xanax and go nuts.
-------------------- Same thing happened to me when I played Neil Armstrong in Moonshot. They found me in an alley in Burbank trying to re-enter the earth's atmosphere in an old refrigerator box.
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JesusGoneRogue

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WakeboardrB said:
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Slavaslave said: i want to be stupid and slow for just one day at least... just do shit and not think about it, i want to go out and do some stupid embarrassing shit without thinking about it or caring afterward, but my mind wont allow for it.
Get a handle of liquor or a bunch of Xanax and go nuts.
lol funny shit. but i feel you op.
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Slavaslave]
#13474706 - 11/12/10 04:56 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Just a few minutes ago I was talking to a receptionist on the phone. I was scheduling a final job interview. As soon as I hung up the phone a blaze of thoughts overwhelmed me. Did I sound stupid? Does she think I'm dumb? Will she tell the hiring person to not hire me because I'm an idiot? Shit drives me crazy. Nothing that I hate more than talking on the phone.
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Passengerr
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Slavaslave]
#13474743 - 11/12/10 05:03 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Slavaslave said: things through other people's eyes. I always over analyze everything that happens around me. I cant act on a whim because im too busy thinking about all the aspects that have gone into what caused this exact moment. I always worry about what is going through other people's minds and i dont want people to dislike me, but it is inevitable because i cant socialize on a "normal" level due to my constant over-thinking of EVERYTHING... i want to be stupid and slow for just one day at least... just do shit and not think about it, i want to go out and do some stupid embarrassing shit without thinking about it or caring afterward, but my mind wont allow for it. I cant shut the fucking thing off...
anyway blah blah bitch bitch im in a bad mood whine and cry...
I go around in disbelief all of the time. "how could they...?" "didn't they see....?" "do they just not care?"
It used to be quite the aggravation, but lately I have stopped caring so much. I wish I could stop typing things out the way I do, though. Why do I say, "It used to be quite the aggravation." WHy don't I just put, "It really used to piss me off." Sometimes reading over my posts is a foreign experience; I sound uptight.
Arden did give some fairly good advice. Facing your fear brings out the beast.
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Slavaslave
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Fernis]
#13474764 - 11/12/10 05:06 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fernis said: Just a few minutes ago I was talking to a receptionist on the phone. I was scheduling a final job interview. As soon as I hung up the phone a blaze of thoughts overwhelmed me. Did I sound stupid? Does she think I'm dumb? Will she tell the hiring person to not hire me because I'm an idiot? Shit drives me crazy. Nothing that I hate more than talking on the phone.
exactly... i hate that feeling... when i was interviewing for my current job i decided before i went in that i would just say "fuck it" and be completely myself, not tell them what they wanted to hear and all that bullshit.. and now i have a job... it fucking works! i just cant maintain that mentality for very long and it pisses me off
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Youshouldknowabc
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Passengerr]
#13475084 - 11/12/10 06:00 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Passengerr said:
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Slavaslave said: things through other people's eyes. I always over analyze everything that happens around me. I cant act on a whim because im too busy thinking about all the aspects that have gone into what caused this exact moment. I always worry about what is going through other people's minds and i dont want people to dislike me, but it is inevitable because i cant socialize on a "normal" level due to my constant over-thinking of EVERYTHING... i want to be stupid and slow for just one day at least... just do shit and not think about it, i want to go out and do some stupid embarrassing shit without thinking about it or caring afterward, but my mind wont allow for it. I cant shut the fucking thing off...
anyway blah blah bitch bitch im in a bad mood whine and cry...
I go around in disbelief all of the time. "how could they...?" "didn't they see....?" "do they just not care?"
It used to be quite the aggravation, but lately I have stopped caring so much. I wish I could stop typing things out the way I do, though. Why do I say, "It used to be quite the aggravation." WHy don't I just put, "It really used to piss me off." Sometimes reading over my posts is a foreign experience; I sound uptight.
Arden did give some fairly good advice. Facing your fear brings out the beast.
Funny, i think the same thing after i type out mi post.
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Slavaslave]
#13475088 - 11/12/10 06:02 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ever tried Xanax? I think you might enjoy it.
-------------------- There is a molecule for every purpose. There are only actions and reactions. Cut out the middle men. Everything I say is a lie.
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: NastyDHL]
#13475221 - 11/12/10 06:26 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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NastyDHL said: i hear you man...
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sheldogg5
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dude me tooo.....
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Re: i wish i could see... [Re: Slavaslave] 1
#13475936 - 11/12/10 09:15 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Slavaslave said: things through other people's eyes. I always over analyze everything that happens around me. I cant act on a whim because im too busy thinking about all the aspects that have gone into what caused this exact moment. I always worry about what is going through other people's minds and i dont want people to dislike me, but it is inevitable because i cant socialize on a "normal" level due to my constant over-thinking of EVERYTHING... i want to be stupid and slow for just one day at least... just do shit and not think about it, i want to go out and do some stupid embarrassing shit without thinking about it or caring afterward, but my mind wont allow for it. I cant shut the fucking thing off...
anyway blah blah bitch bitch im in a bad mood whine and cry...
it's just a phase or a point in your life where the conditions are forcing you to be like that dude... everyone goes through stages like that but for the most part people live normal lives so that is why you seem to stand out in your head.
I totally get the basic idea of what you are talking about, but the thing to remember in situations like yours is it is because of the conditions of your life (i. e. your living situation, money situation , etc. ) All humans react to things pretty much in the exact same fashion, its just their current situation which sets them apart. If you keep trying to improve yourself with the same exact situations, then what you are doing is the very definition of insanity since you would be doing the same thing over and over and expecting better/ different results. Most people aren't stupid anyways, they are just complacent w/ their lives so they have no need to show off their intellegence when there is no need to. And the ones who aren't complacent w/ their lives and over analytical like you probably spend their days inside their rooms/ avoiding human contact, so there would be no chance to catch a person similar to yourself.
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