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Offlineshroominbloom
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What would you do?
    #1335450 - 02/25/03 05:23 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Ok, you're a college student. Your good friend who left school last year had two parties at his house last weekend on Friday and Saturday. His house is about 2 hrs away from you at school, and about 30 mins from where you live at home. The first night, the party was mostly for all his friends from your college that he hasn't seen in a long time, but he had a girl his hometown over as well. You feel an immediate physical attraction to this girl (she's beautiful), but you assume that since she's the only girl he had over that night, he probably has some interest in her. The girl came over late, so you didn't get to talk to her that much, and also you didn't force anything because of the assumption you made. The girl hangs around the whole next day, in which time you talk to her a bit and find that you really feel a connection with her. You agree with her about most everything that you discuss (the coming war, TV commercials, how bad the US is, etc etc), and find that while watching TV you have a lot of the same interests as well as dislikes. She leaves for a few hrs that day, but then comes back for Saturday night's party. Saturday night's party has about twice as many people as Friday's since your friend invited a bunch of his hometown friends. You have a fun night Saturday, and although you don't talk to her as much since there are many more people there that she knows much better than you, you still feel a connection with her when you are talking to her. Toward then end of the night when most people are leaving you talk to her for a while and find out many things about her that only deepen the feeling that this might be the perfect girl for you. One thing you particularly like is that one of her (guy) friends says "Wow, have you lost weight?" She puts her head down in embarrassment and says "Yeah, my mom thinks I'm on drugs or something." Her friend says "Well you look good." She turns to you and says "I used to be fat." You say "Well really, you look great." She again puts her head down in embarrassment as if she doesn't know what to say. You love this, since this girl is gorgeous and she is as far as anyone can be from a bitch. Her guy friend also asks about her ex-boyfriend, and she responds that she is single, but you don't think that your friend sees it that way (although in truth, you really have no idea if this is the case). You continue talking with her, and you begin discussing how much you both love cats (subject comes up because you both love the house owner's cat). She then says she has to give her cat away. You ask why, and she says because she has to move about 4.5 hrs away from where you live at home and about 6.5 hrs from where you live at school. You then watch a little TV, and decide to go to bed, thinking you should tell her to sleep in your bed with you (since there are only a few of them), but you are still operating under the above assumption so you say nothing. You hang around for most of the day on Sunday and then she has to go home and leaves. She says it was very nice meeting all of you (you was with 4 friends) and you look up and smile, saying that it was very nice to meet her too. You don't think too much more of it, assuming that nothing would come of it.

Sunday night, you get home. You still aren't thinking too much of it until you go to bed. You are tossing and turning, your roommate is snoring, and you can't sleep. All of a sudden, you think of this girl, and she won't get out of your head. It's making you almost sick that it's unlikely you'll ever talk to her again, and even more unlikely that you'll ever see her again. This thought keeps you up until almost 7 am, until you finally are too exhausted to keep your eyes open anymore. You feel the same way today. Although you don't feel sick thinking about it anymore, you can't stop thinking about her, and you can't even study because of it.

My question to all of you is what do you do? It's possible that you could get her number/screenname/email addy from your friend, but this is the friend that you think is interested in her, and her statement of being single didn't convince you that he doesn't have feelings for her. This is further complicated by the fact that even if things went exactly as you wanted, she'd still be 2 hrs away for a while and then 6.5 hrs away after that.


P.S. -- I think this post helped me make my decision. I must get in touch with my friend and ask him in he is interested in her. If he is, fine, at least my mind is at ease. If he isn't, maybe I can still take the next step. I guess that unless she contacted me (which is unlikely, girls aren't usually like that, and she's as shy as I am I think) the only way that things could ever have a chance is if I make an attempt. Thanks for reading though, and any encouragement would be cool.


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Re: What would you do? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1335459 - 02/25/03 05:25 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

those immediate connections sure do suck sometimes, huh.


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Re: What would you do? [Re: adrug]
    #1335484 - 02/25/03 05:31 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Yeah, they really do. I haven't met a girl that I've felt that about in a really long time (year or two) and now there's a 95% chance I'll never even see her again. Shit!


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Re: What would you do? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1335863 - 02/25/03 07:50 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Ya my Friend fell in love with my gf......... it was funny watching him try to pick her up :grin:!!!!


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Re: What would you do? [Re: Blue_JAY]
    #1335947 - 02/25/03 08:28 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

LOL, I bet that was funny. I'm so pissed though, cause the more I think about it, the more convinced I am that my friend being interested in this girl was absolutely not true. How stupid can I be?!?!?!


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Re: What would you do? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1336048 - 02/25/03 09:15 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

talk to your friend


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Re: What would you do? [Re: Captain Jack]
    #1336162 - 02/25/03 10:06 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Yes. I should change the original title to "This sucks, maybe I should cry about it."


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Re: What would you do? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1336733 - 02/26/03 06:13 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

A boyfriend is a hurdle not a wall.

UH, Just another thing:

If you ask your friend for the #, email, address, etc.. You'll never get this chick.

Why don't you go up to her and grovel? Get on your knees and say "Please" ...

Being able to walk away from ANY chick is ultimately attractive.


Edited by Seeka (02/26/03 06:16 AM)


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Re: What would you do? [Re: Seeka]
    #1336778 - 02/26/03 06:26 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

tell your friend that you need to talk to her, make up a excuse.
then when he gives you her number........ mac that shit!!!!


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Re: What would you do? [Re: Blue_JAY]
    #1337014 - 02/26/03 08:13 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

get over her man...i know that sounds like im trying to be an ass or something, but if there is a 95% chance your not ever going to see her again, why keep hanging on to something that isnt there? sucks though, sucks...


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Re: What would you do? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1337377 - 02/26/03 11:07 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I concur. I've def. been in situations like this before. If it was meant to be, something would or will happen (she finds you). That part about her being all you can think about will fade, it always does. Feel better man.


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Re: What would you do? [Re: ArmFromTheAbyss]
    #1337579 - 02/26/03 12:15 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

TO ALL:  Yeah, I was feelin real tired, stressed, and just emotional last night.  I really needed to vent/let out feelings cause I was frustrated from studying and something had to give, but most of my friends aren't suitable to talk to about this sort of thing.  Well actually, check that, I just wouldn't be comfortable talking to them because up till a few months ago I had this real "ultimate dick" front and now that I'm in the process of letting that down, I know how foreign this would sound to them.  It's kinda funny, the only friend I could talk to this about is one who I consider not quite as intelligent as my other friends -- I love the kid to death though, and he helped me out.  Anyway, I feel much better now than last night.  I'm going to talk to my friend and see what he says [oh by the way, they (my friend and this girl) aren't even close to together, I guess it was the fact that she was the only girl he had over (out of many others that he could have chosen) and it was also all in my head] and if she's interested, fine, I can go from there; if not, fine, at least I'll know and I'll feel much better about it.  I'm already pretty much over the fact, it's still on my mind a bit but I'm not so worried about it anymore.  Thanks for bearing with me while I let my emotions spill out a little bit! :smile:   


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Re: What would you do? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1339281 - 02/27/03 04:30 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Man, you need to hurry up and get that information for that girl. What if that girl is your soulmate or the girl you are ment to be with!!!!!!!!! Its better to at least try and get in touch with her then to not talk to her at all. If you dont try, your going to regret later homie!!!!!! Attack while you still can!!!!!!!!!!


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Re: What would you do? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1339857 - 02/27/03 09:20 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

If it was meant to be, something would or will happen (she finds you). 




That's a two way street. It could also be said if it was meant to be, something would or will happen (you find her)

She might be thinking the exact same thing.

Get movin dude, and find out. If you really hit off with this chick, the feeling is probably mutual. Ya have to at least find out for sure. If not, you'll still be thinking about his chick(every now and then) for a long long time. Been down that road myself, and regret never finding out for sure what could've been. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Good luck :cool: 


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Re: What would you do? [Re: Fred Garvin]
    #1340757 - 02/27/03 02:24 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Fred and Risk -- Thank you both. Now the problem is getting ahold of my friend - he's at work all the time, but I'll get ahold of him eventually.


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