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Kada
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Re: PLEASE HELP!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [Re: VapoRs]
#13169273 - 09/09/10 08:24 AM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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VapoRs said: Wow man, I never really thought about it that way. It is true though. I don't really have much down time, but when I do have down time I vape and all my friends smoke so I guess I can understand her wanting something different after a year of the same shit. I guess what really bugged me the most was that she gave me this ultimatum and it also bugged me that she thought weed was all of a sudden a terrible thing.
It's not a big deal if you smoke or don't smoke but don't go telling me weed is from satan when you used to smoke and think it was fine.
I think i'm just going to give sobriety a chance. I've been smoking pretty heavily since I was a junior in high school and now I'm a senior in college. Maybe it is time for a change...
Yeah, try sobriety, but without her.
She is a naive, controlling little bitch.
No one and I mean NO ONE, who truly loves someone acts like that, EVER.
Its just a huge red flag for down the road.
Shes got issues.

If you don't take this advice OP then you will regret it.
Your girlfriend is a tool and she is working you over.
I would leave my wife over something like this. It's ridiculous you are even entertaining the idea of letting her fuck you over like this.
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VapoRs said: Wow man, I never really thought about it that way. It is true though. I don't really have much down time, but when I do have down time I vape and all my friends smoke so I guess I can understand her wanting something different after a year of the same shit. I guess what really bugged me the most was that she gave me this ultimatum and it also bugged me that she thought weed was all of a sudden a terrible thing.
It's not a big deal if you smoke or don't smoke but don't go telling me weed is from satan when you used to smoke and think it was fine.
I think i'm just going to give sobriety a chance. I've been smoking pretty heavily since I was a junior in high school and now I'm a senior in college. Maybe it is time for a change...
Or you are just a tool too. Let her win this and say goodbye to your balls.
Oh and your friends.
And thinking for yourself.
From here on out drugs are the devil and you are with the tool that thinks that way. Be prepared to think that way to or she will get mad at you.
I couldn't live in ignorance and stupidity. I would rather be alone forever.
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: Kada]
#13169409 - 09/09/10 08:59 AM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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Here's what I would do.
I'd be like "Look, I'll quit every single drug, if you quit alcohol, since alcohol is a drug. Otherwise, I find this pointless and stupid."
See what she says.
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: Neuron]
#13170364 - 09/09/10 12:52 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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She'll say "alcohol isn't a drug!" like every other lemming. The American propaganda machine is amazingly refined to actually make people think this way..
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: AsAboveSoBelow]
#13170381 - 09/09/10 12:56 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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just beat her up a lil dude
if she aint belchin blood then the bitch aint know her place, and thats an unhealthy relationship!
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Kada
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: andrewss]
#13170396 - 09/09/10 12:59 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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-------------------- ~The Cultivators Motherload~ "I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." -Robert A. Heinlein "There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness."-Dalai Lama Live long and prosper.
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: andrewss]
#13170474 - 09/09/10 01:14 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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haha
OP, your necessity to make this thread in the first place and subsequent wanton disregard of our advice cements the notion that you are a tool, or a troll. Trool.
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Re: PLEASE HELP!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [Re: Kada]
#13170509 - 09/09/10 01:25 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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I couldn't live in ignorance and stupidity. I would rather be alone forever.
Amen.
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Re: PLEASE HELP!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [Re: Mibs]
#13170534 - 09/09/10 01:32 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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time to get a new one
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: AsAboveSoBelow]
#13170535 - 09/09/10 01:32 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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AsAboveSoBelow said: She'll say "alcohol isn't a drug!" like every other lemming. The American propaganda machine is amazingly refined to actually make people think this way..
Who cares, I tell people all the time that weed isn't a drug based on the criteria society has used to arbitrarily define what is and isn't a "drug." It's obvious to anyone with a pulse that alcohol is far more destructive and unhealthy than smoking weed. I would plainly tell this girl "I want you to stop drinking forever or I'm leaving you. I don't like it." and then it can be her decision whether or not she wants to throw away a relationship for one of the most moronic reasons ever.
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: F0SS1L]
#13170634 - 09/09/10 01:54 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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does she really love you, if shes giving you ultimatums about things that make you happy she must not really care that much for you,my wife doesnt smoke or take anything, she only drinks at parties birthdays etc.but never once asked me to stop anything i do,if im happy she is happy and i wouldnt ask her to stop if she did anything because if she is happy then i am happy, its called a relationship and requires give and take from both sides and both must work together for it to work succesfully, love is complicated but a great feeling
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum about drugs, HELP! [Re: phayze]
#13177161 - 09/10/10 07:57 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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She prolly just wants a life. I am sure, all you do in your free time (true down time) is sit around and vape. Talk about weed, past experiences getting high etc etc. All of your friends prolly smoke, and when you guys go out to other peoples house, its just more of the same.
I've been there. It's boring. Don't blame her.
I am sure you do other things (productivity wise) or maybe even a few other things on the side. But when your life revolves around pot, shit is just old. O-L-D.
EXACTLY. She might want to do other things. I was in the past and i knew friends who were like that. All we/they did was smoke smoke smoke. and talk about smoke ssmoke smoke/trip. she might not want that anymore cuz it is BORING. But again read my last post and think bout it. Maybe try to compromise with her. Either way you are your own self. You need to think what YOU WANT in life...
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