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silversoul7
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I r want a girlfriend
#1317313 - 02/18/03 03:19 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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I feel so lonely sometimes. My best friend has stopped returning my calls for some reason, and I can't find out why because she won't talk to me. I don't really feel comfortable talking to my parents, or even my therapist for that matter, about my feelings or other personal things. I just wish I had a girlfriend, or even just a close friend, who I could confide in and talk to about anything. I miss the close intimacy of having a girlfriend. I miss the connection that goes on between two people in love.
I don't know why I'm posting this, but I'm glad it's in the Pub and not OTD, cuz I know for sure I'd get seriously flamed for this. I just needed to vent. That's all.
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ishotu1
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317388 - 02/18/03 03:55 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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I think just about everyone can understand where your coming from. It sucks to have a bunch of shit inside and not have anyone to let it out to. Hang in there ull find someone.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317449 - 02/18/03 04:25 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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Why would anyone flame you? You're just being human. I'm starting to feel the same way man.
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silversoul7
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Quote:
Why would anyone flame you?
You don't spend much time in OTD, do you?
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317482 - 02/18/03 04:42 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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You will grow strong by knowing yourself. The more you know yourself, there more confident you will become. The more confident you become the more the babes will want you.
Be patient and use this time to know yourself. The girls will come...at least they do for me.
I get lonely too sometimes. Hang in there.
Joshua
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317535 - 02/18/03 05:16 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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i feel ya on this one man... i'm in the same boat
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silversoul7
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: Joshua]
#1317573 - 02/18/03 05:36 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's not that I can't get chicks. I've been in a few situations where I ended up making out with a girl, but it's never the kind of girl I'd want as a girlfriend. I want something more meaningful than that.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317620 - 02/18/03 06:01 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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Just for you, buddy.
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silversoul7
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: LiquidSmoke]
#1317637 - 02/18/03 06:07 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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Thanx man. But I guess I'll just keep on flirting with Candyaddict until I get a real girlfriend or until she tells me to fuck off.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317655 - 02/18/03 06:14 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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Maybe I used to but now I wouldn't even know what to do with a girlfriend if I had one.
Probably better off without.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317708 - 02/18/03 06:49 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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" I want something more meaningful than that. "
So you're too picky?
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317844 - 02/18/03 08:19 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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maybe you should start looking for guys instead..
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317851 - 02/18/03 08:27 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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II reckon you seem like a really nice guy silversoul and I reckon a girl will come along who loves you heaps.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1317861 - 02/18/03 08:34 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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I want a girlfriend too. It sucks doesn't it?
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1318007 - 02/18/03 11:25 PM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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I hate it when people say "hang in there and you will meet the nice girl you deserve" Thats bullshit. I have given up on finding a nice girl long time ago. Nowdays I'm like the rest of the male population. I wear designer clothes, hang at the hip nightclubs and spew out meaningless bullshit to dumbass swedish blonds who think i'm rich. I hate it. But what the fuck am i supposed to do? I want to meet someone and it just ain't going to happen if I'm sitting at home. Going to the library and pretend to be an intellectual is just crap advice. No, the nightclub's is where you meet single people. Go out, lie, exaggerate do anything to get laid. And eventually you will find someone that is not a complete jackass. Welcome the 21:th century.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1318179 - 02/19/03 02:27 AM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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Wanting a girlfriend is the dumbest thing a guy can do. See my "Earthly Desires" post. Your feeling of "need" for someone other than yourself will have you looking everywhere for what you've always had.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1318797 - 02/19/03 06:50 AM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Thanx man. But I guess I'll just keep on flirting with Candyaddict until I get a real girlfriend or until she tells me to fuck off
lol
Don't worry man...I think everyone gets like that. I did have a time in my life, when I was like that(for the longest time too). Things will get better one day...believe me .
Just try and keep yourself busy. And if you don't have that much trouble with females...well, get out there and meet more. The more you meet, the better chance of finding the one you want. Good luck man
I don't care what anyone says, the right girl...really can change things.
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: silversoul7]
#1319066 - 02/19/03 09:04 AM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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Just be patient, you'll find someone and then it will have been worth the wait.
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Phluck
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"No, the nightclub's is where you meet single people. "
I get the feeling he doesn't want drunken retarded chicks, even if they are hot.
There are cool girls out there, they're single, and a lot of them don't like hanging out at nightclubs. How do you find them? I have no fucking clue.
If you live in a big city there are definately alternatives to nightclubs where more intelligent and interesting people hang out.
Otherwise, I don't fucking know. Luck, maybe.
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silversoul7
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Re: I r want a girlfriend [Re: Phluck]
#1319219 - 02/19/03 10:12 AM (21 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm just hoping there'll be another war protest here again. Last Saturday there were all kinds of hot girls there, and a lot of them were intelligent, too.
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