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My sister is in an abusive relationship
    #13005001 - 08/05/10 12:34 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Hey Shroomery.


I come to you in a dire time.

I recently found out my sister, who is still in high school, is in an abusive relationship.
She has bruises and is forced to do sexual things very often when she is with her significant other.

I don't want to give out any personal details, but I need to know how I should handle this.

Should I confront her, my parents, or her boyfriend first? What should I say? Should I threaten a lot of pain to this kid?


Please help me Shroomery.

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005013 - 08/05/10 12:36 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Get her out asap. Have her come live with you or your parents or something.

Deal with it from there. Press charges if you want, take pictures of the bruising.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005021 - 08/05/10 12:38 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I tend to "overreact" I know what I would do to said little high school fuck and would probably do a few years for it . Well if I got caught that is.

My mom was in an abusive relationship and I have no tolerance for that shit.
If you dont want to do the dirty work find someone that will. Sitting down talking to these fucks dont do a lick of good.

The longer she stays with him the worse it will get trust me


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: The Vapor]
    #13005026 - 08/05/10 12:39 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

its time to step up for sis.

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005028 - 08/05/10 12:39 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

dont say shit just walk up to him like nothing punch him in the neak choke the shit out of him on the ground while screaming at him everything that hes done wrong and dont let go until your done then punch once more to the eye spit in face walk away it works everytime i got a high school sis

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005032 - 08/05/10 12:40 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

dont let him fuck with your sister, fuck him up. give him some bruises. hit the bridge of his nose real quick and punch him in the gut. if you wanted you could land a solid in his sack. :grin:

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005036 - 08/05/10 12:41 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Go beat the fuck out of the prick. If you don't the terrorists win.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: volcomstoner]
    #13005042 - 08/05/10 12:42 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

dude i would beat the shit outta this dude, then again i'm hispanic.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005045 - 08/05/10 12:43 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I'm all for beating his ass but sucker punches and cheap shots are a big no.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005053 - 08/05/10 12:45 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

call the police, then urge her to get a restraining order. Its a good idea to go about it this way because your sister is likely to go through another relationship like this and needs to know how to handle it.

The correct way is:

Police, Restraining order.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
    #13005064 - 08/05/10 12:46 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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AlmostAsCoolAs said:
I'm all for beating his ass but sucker punches and cheap shots are a big no.



but beatin up on a girl is not fuck that fight to win fuck the rules if u got something to pick up do it the point in beatin  someone for something like this is to put the fear of god in them makes them think b4 they act

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs] * 1
    #13005077 - 08/05/10 12:49 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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AlmostAsCoolAs said:
I'm all for beating his ass but sucker punches and cheap shots are a big no.



Do what?

You need to take that high road shit to tapout or some other MMA joint. In the real world its about being on top.

Dude, dont listen to this chivalrous bullshit. Take a golf club to the back of his head right while hes telling a joke or something, fuck that prick.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: ManianFH] * 1
    #13005078 - 08/05/10 12:50 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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mick said:

The correct way is:

Police, Restraining order.




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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005080 - 08/05/10 12:50 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

you shouldnt be confronting anyone about it, least of all your sister if
she's being subjected to abuse, talk to her. dont be judgmental, let her be
honest

tell him in no uncertain terms he needs to walk away while he still has
that option, dont mince words, dont make threats

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
    #13005085 - 08/05/10 12:50 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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AlmostAsCoolAs said:
I'm all for beating his ass but sucker punches and cheap shots are a big no.



motherfucker what!!!? this aint no honorary straight fight nigga, this motherfucker is beating his sister! i dont give a fuck what it takes, i'll take that nigga down the minute i find out.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005089 - 08/05/10 12:51 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I didn't say it was. If you go into a fight and pull that shit the guy is going to know you're a pussy and be back to smash on you. It's a sign of weakness.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: P-O]
    #13005095 - 08/05/10 12:52 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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PostiveOutlook said:
Quote:

mick said:

The correct way is:

Police, Restraining order.








thats what hell be saying from behind bars while OP and his sister are safe at home


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005097 - 08/05/10 12:52 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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StriplessRED said:

She has bruises and is forced to do sexual things very often




that shit aint right :ednorton:

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
    #13005099 - 08/05/10 12:52 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

nigga he comes back ill come back too til one of is dead fuck that


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: The Vapor]
    #13005103 - 08/05/10 12:53 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Get her out asap. Have her come live with you or your parents or something.

Deal with it from there. Press charges if you want, take pictures of the bruising.




This is probably the path I'm going to take.

I'm going to tell her the relationship is over. If my parents found out about any of the things he did to her they would flip. I will threaten to tell them and I will threaten to call the police.

I might get him over to my house under the cover of a party and just have him surrounded by like as many of my friends that I can gather. I've got at least 20 people that would be willing to help and many of those guys are pretty big.

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you shouldnt be confronting anyone about it, least of all your sister if
she's being subjected to abuse, talk to her. dont be judgmental, let her be
honest

tell him in no uncertain terms he needs to walk away while he still has
that option, dont mince words, dont make threats




This will be my first approach to the situation. Her friends called me up one night and were like "She told us not to tell you, but we all agree it's really fucked up and she think there is nothing wrong."

Edited by StriplessRED (08/05/10 12:57 AM)

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005106 - 08/05/10 12:54 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Do you have this abusive guys number so I can chomper him? Just :pm: me


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: ManianFH]
    #13005108 - 08/05/10 12:54 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

post it!

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005110 - 08/05/10 12:55 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Quote:

The Vapor said:
Get her out asap. Have her come live with you or your parents or something.

Deal with it from there. Press charges if you want, take pictures of the bruising.




This is probably the path I'm going to take.

I'm going to tell her the relationship is over. If my parents found out about any of the things he did to her they would flip. I will threaten to tell them and I will threaten to call the police.

I might get him over to my house under the cover of a party and just have him surrounded by like as many of my friends that I can gather. I've got at least 20 people that would be willing to help and many of those guys are pretty big.



aight nigga the soonest the better


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005113 - 08/05/10 12:55 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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StriplessRED said:
This is probably the path I'm going to take.

I'm going to tell her the relationship is over. If my parents found out about any of the things he did to her they would flip. I will threaten to tell them and I will threaten to call the police.





Oh, so you're the boss of her, too?


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005114 - 08/05/10 12:55 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

How old is her boyfriend?


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: shallowbastard]
    #13005117 - 08/05/10 12:56 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Forced to do sexual things?

If I were you, I wouldn't have the patience to go to a forum and ask for advice. I would already be committing acts of violence on this person.

I'm getting angry just thinking about if I were you.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #13005123 - 08/05/10 12:57 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Quote:

StriplessRED said:
This is probably the path I'm going to take.

I'm going to tell her the relationship is over. If my parents found out about any of the things he did to her they would flip. I will threaten to tell them and I will threaten to call the police.





Oh, so you're the boss of her, too?



Are you serious? This chick is getting raped and beaten.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
    #13005125 - 08/05/10 12:57 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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I didn't say it was. If you go into a fight and pull that shit the guy is going to know you're a pussy and be back to smash on you. It's a sign of weakness.



okay ive dont shit like this wit my friends and fam to child molesters that have moved on tha street wife beaters snitches vice lords LKs my whole life and not a single one came back ever when you know how to make someone fear you its over

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #13005126 - 08/05/10 12:57 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

get her into a 'women's self defense' course, it will help her build up her confidence in herself and she'll have a few moves up her sleeve if it ever gets tricky


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005131 - 08/05/10 12:58 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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StriplessRED said:
I might get him over to my house under the cover of a party and just have him surrounded by like as many of my friends that I can gather. I've got at least 20 people that would be willing to help and many of those guys are pretty big.





recipe for disaster. she has to end the relationship, you have to reinforce that he needs to respect her wishes

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005132 - 08/05/10 12:58 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I have no idea what you just said.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs] * 2
    #13005135 - 08/05/10 12:58 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Quote:

OneMoreRobot3021 said:
Quote:

StriplessRED said:
This is probably the path I'm going to take.

I'm going to tell her the relationship is over. If my parents found out about any of the things he did to her they would flip. I will threaten to tell them and I will threaten to call the police.





Oh, so you're the boss of her, too?



Are you serious? This chick is getting raped and beaten.




The approach that he is suggesting does nothing to empower HER. He should talk to her, remind her of her worth as a beautiful human being, and at least attempt to TALK to HER before he TELLS HER what to do...otherwise, what is she learning from all of this? Nothing but further passivity. He needs to wake her up, not run her life for her.  And he can be there with her when she tells this motherfucker to get the fuck out of her life, but telling her what to do is really just, in the long term, a bad approach.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005136 - 08/05/10 12:59 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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AlmostAsCoolAs said:
I didn't say it was. If you go into a fight and pull that shit the guy is going to know you're a pussy and be back to smash on you. It's a sign of weakness.



okay ive dont shit like this wit my friends and fam to child molesters that have moved on tha street wife beaters snitches vice lords LKs my whole life and not a single one came back ever when you know how to make someone fear you its over




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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #13005137 - 08/05/10 12:59 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

You sir, have never been in an abusive relationship.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13005138 - 08/05/10 01:00 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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StriplessRED said:
I might get him over to my house under the cover of a party and just have him surrounded by like as many of my friends that I can gather. I've got at least 20 people that would be willing to help and many of those guys are pretty big.





recipe for disaster. she has to end the relationship, you have to reinforce that he needs to respect her wishes




Exactly.  She needs to be reminded of her worth and self-respect as a human being, and to step up for herself with the support of those who love her.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #13005141 - 08/05/10 01:00 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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The approach that he is suggesting does nothing to empower HER. He should talk to her, remind her of her worth as a beautiful human being, and at least attempt to TALK to HER before he TELLS HER what to do...otherwise, what is she learning from all of this? Nothing but further passivity. He needs to wake her up, not run her life for her.  And he can be there with her when she tells this motherfucker to get the fuck out of her life, but telling her what to do is really just, in the long term, a bad approach.





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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
    #13005144 - 08/05/10 01:01 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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You sir, have never been in an abusive relationship.




I have, I have the same advice

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #13005146 - 08/05/10 01:01 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Forced to do sexual things?

If I were you, I wouldn't have the patience to go to a forum and ask for advice. I would already be committing acts of violence on this person.

I'm getting angry just thinking about if I were you.




Well I literally found out about 20 minutes ago and she is out of town at the moment, so nothing is happening right now.

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volcomstoner said:
How old is her boyfriend?




Like 16, maybe 17.
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StriplessRED said:
This is probably the path I'm going to take.

I'm going to tell her the relationship is over. If my parents found out about any of the things he did to her they would flip. I will threaten to tell them and I will threaten to call the police.





Oh, so you're the boss of her, too?




If that's a serious statement :nonono:.... I've been really cool about her having a serious boyfriend. I haven't said shit and I've let them come party at my house. I'm not about to let her ruin her youth in a fucked up relationship though.

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: AlmostAsCoolAs]
    #13005149 - 08/05/10 01:02 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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I have no idea what you just said.



dont worry bout it

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13005151 - 08/05/10 01:02 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I have as well, I have different advice. I bet anything she will defend the fuck out of him and try to convince her brother otherwise.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13005152 - 08/05/10 01:02 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

If you do get physical (which you should try to avoid :wink: ), make sure he has no witnesses around when you do this.  And don't fucking get all emotional and kill him or anything.  He is in high school and you are of age, correct?

Consequences can be pretty rough for shit like that if the wrong people get involved.

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The approach that he is suggesting does nothing to empower HER. He should talk to her, remind her of her worth as a beautiful human being, and at least attempt to TALK to HER before he TELLS HER what to do...otherwise, what is she learning from all of this? Nothing but further passivity. He needs to wake her up, not run her life for her.  And he can be there with her when she tells this motherfucker to get the fuck out of her life, but telling her what to do is really just, in the long term, a bad approach.





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then beat his ass severely.

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: RODIpure]
    #13005153 - 08/05/10 01:02 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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get her into a 'women's self defense' course, it will help her build up her confidence in herself and she'll have a few moves up her sleeve if it ever gets tricky





if you decide to go a more pain inflicting route, call in some friends, and then have them do it on a night your at a bar with some people, using a credit card, making calls to others, etc.

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: ManianFH]
    #13005157 - 08/05/10 01:03 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Police aint gonna do shit. It's still pretty common for jails to commute sentences for people convicted of shit like that to make room for the drug dealers and users. You should go to the police first but you should be aware that they cannot protect you and this dude is prolly stupid enough to think he can come to your sis crying and he'll bee off the hook but when he finds out thats not gonna work he's gonna be pissed, but at this point he's violating a restraining order, let him have it. If you wanna know what works great as a nonlethal deterrent...
bear spray


Hot homeboy with that shit and he'll be rolling on the ground till well after the cops get there. Just be prepared to do something. One you call the cops, it's on, so to speak and the cops kinda suck at everything but locking up drug offenders.

You should slip a quart baggie in his pocket while he's rolling around on the ground that has 10-15 rocks all bagged separate :laugh:


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #13005161 - 08/05/10 01:04 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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The approach that he is suggesting does nothing to empower HER. He should talk to her, remind her of her worth as a beautiful human being, and at least attempt to TALK to HER before he TELLS HER what to do...otherwise, what is she learning from all of this? Nothing but further passivity. He needs to wake her up, not run her life for her.  And he can be there with her when she tells this motherfucker to get the fuck out of her life, but telling her what to do is really just, in the long term, a bad approach.




I agree with this, I'm obviously going to address the situation to her first. However, if she will do nothing about it, I am not going to just let this continue.

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1] * 1
    #13005175 - 08/05/10 01:09 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

,

Edited by Prisoner#1 (08/05/10 01:34 AM)

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED]
    #13005176 - 08/05/10 01:09 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

she needs to be able to trust you... if she's in this kind of situation trust for everyone is gone

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005182 - 08/05/10 01:10 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

No he isn't, he just calls bullshit when he sees bullshit.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005188 - 08/05/10 01:11 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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priz with all do respect your a fuckin asshole and u would look bout like your little pussy cat after a fight with the avg dude:shrug:





all due respect?

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005199 - 08/05/10 01:15 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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I didn't say it was. If you go into a fight and pull that shit the guy is going to know you're a pussy and be back to smash on you. It's a sign of weakness.



okay ive dont shit like this wit my friends and fam to child molesters that have moved on tha street wife beaters snitches vice lords LKs my whole life and not a single one came back ever when you know how to make someone fear you its over




no you havent



priz with all do respect your a fuckin asshole and u would look bout like your little pussy cat after a fight with the avg dude:shrug:




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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13005201 - 08/05/10 01:17 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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priz with all do respect your a fuckin asshole and u would look bout like your little pussy cat after a fight with the avg dude:shrug:





all due respect?



all due respect  BEANZ me and Pris do steroid and pcp ,We do not get beat up in fights we are like 2 rocky balboas in there prime.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13005217 - 08/05/10 01:21 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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priz with all do respect your a fuckin asshole and u would look bout like your little pussy cat after a fight with the avg dude:shrug:


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: SouthernGulfStyle]
    #13005218 - 08/05/10 01:21 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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No he isn't, he just calls bullshit when he sees bullshit.



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priz with all do respect your a fuckin asshole and u would look bout like your little pussy cat after a fight with the avg dude:shrug:





all due respect?



all due respect  BEANZ me and Pris do steroid and pcp ,We do not get beat up in fights we are like 2 rocky balboas in there prime.



there is no such thing as losing a fight for a 6 in tha south

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005223 - 08/05/10 01:23 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Gentlemen, stick to the topic.

Edited by StriplessRED (08/05/10 01:23 AM)

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: StriplessRED] * 1
    #13005227 - 08/05/10 01:24 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Yee bro ya feel me

aint no such thang as losin a fight fo a 6 in tha souf ya feels me

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: propensity]
    #13005246 - 08/05/10 01:30 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005258 - 08/05/10 01:34 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

If he was older i would gladly beat his ass, but this kid is in highschool. As much as he deserves it, it's just going to lead to nothing but trouble


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: volcomstoner]
    #13005290 - 08/05/10 01:45 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

"with all do respect"

just wanted to point out that you guys are quoting him wrong.  ANd I believe that 'all due respect" is a phrase people use when they aren't fully convicted of what they are saying.

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13005306 - 08/05/10 01:50 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Damn you prisoner#1, now we're never gonna know about the secret gulf war tapes!:omgz:


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: blewmeanie]
    #13005318 - 08/05/10 01:53 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

yes, they just leave classified material laying around in cargo containers for people that beat up entire gangs to find

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    #13005322 - 08/05/10 01:55 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Sounds like the plot to a new Lethal Weapon to me.:lol:


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13005327 - 08/05/10 01:56 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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yes, they just leave classified material laying around in cargo containers for people that beat up entire gangs to find



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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: blewmeanie]
    #13005331 - 08/05/10 01:57 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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Sounds like the plot to a new Lethal Weapon to me.:lol:




better call mel, he'll be interested in this

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13009384 - 08/05/10 09:13 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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yes, they just leave classified material laying around in cargo containers for people that beat up entire gangs to find





You forgot the giant red letters that read "CLASSIFIED!!GULF WAR SHIT!!"

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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Beanz]
    #13009784 - 08/05/10 10:22 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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there is no such thing as losing a fight for a 6 in tha south



Beanz...I know you are from my state, and I support your struggle in our forgotten wasteland, but you sound a bit asinine.


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Re: My sister is in an abusive relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #13009901 - 08/05/10 10:46 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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I didn't say it was. If you go into a fight and pull that shit the guy is going to know you're a pussy and be back to smash on you. It's a sign of weakness.



okay ive dont shit like this wit my friends and fam to child molesters that have moved on tha street wife beaters snitches vice lords LKs my whole life and not a single one came back ever when you know how to make someone fear you its over




no you havent




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