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NetDiver
Wandering Mindfuck


Registered: 08/24/09
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Re: Why I don't have friends [Re: elfamale]
#13098192 - 08/24/10 11:38 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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elfamale said: That's just the way it is. When I took an IQ test when they were giving me a bunch of tests to figure out why I am weird I was in the 99th percentile overall and I maxed out the verbal portion of the test. I'm just saying how I'm weird. Like if a girl had DDD breasts or some other really exaggerated trait.
You're not smarter than 99% of others, you're better than 99% of others at taking written tests. You have a skill.
You're focusing on a skill you have. Great. Now focus on some of your weak points (Cthulhu forbid you admit you have weaknesses!) and improving them, to make the whole even better.
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cmoney
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Re: Why I don't have friends [Re: NetDiver]
#13098508 - 08/25/10 02:21 AM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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like someone said earlier man, get off your intellectual high horse. I dont even know you and I'm pretty sure I wouldnt hang out with you if I did because you seem to have already made yourself the only person worthy of being YOUR friend. Intellegence is great but theres alot of different types of "smart people." Some of these are socially smart, and if I could guess these people come off as stupid to you. Just accept humans for what they are. And from personal experience, the funnest things I've ever done with my friends would most likely be viewed as 'dumb' by your standards. Me and my friends do have deep conversation sometimes, but only when the time calls for it. We're more about having fun. And If that means a couple people considering us dumb then so be it.
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AlphaFalfa
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Re: Why I don't have friends [Re: cmoney]
#13102466 - 08/25/10 08:47 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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Your not really suffering from anything and to some extent this is a good way to perform yourself. However, having had a similair experience, what i think you are searching for is quite simple actually....
Take what you CAN from relationships, do not try to control them with your standards. Let your standards guide who you decide to form a lasting relationship with, however, when it comes to everyday stuff, just take what you can from people. At most even if it does not work out, with everyone, you can atleast teach people how to have more self control and relearn and reshape what you have learnt to get you to this 'level'.
-------------------- if you ever feel lost, just remember, life is not a journey, it is entertainment, all 4 fun...
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akira_akuma
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Registered: 08/28/09
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Re: Why I don't have friends [Re: AlphaFalfa]
#13102699 - 08/25/10 09:30 PM (13 years, 5 months ago) |
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this thread is like half a month old... i wonder if op still thinks he is ahead of the pack?
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