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Envix
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: feifen]
#12925231 - 07/20/10 03:19 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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eating nothing but applesauce and chocolate pudding is fun for only the first couple days tho
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: Envix]
#12925258 - 07/20/10 03:25 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Give him 5 grams of mushrooms, and just when it begins to kick in tell him your leaving him and walk away and dont turn around no matter what.
He will dive so deep into thinking about everything between you and him while he is by himself, alone, and tripping massively on mushrooms, something is bound to change.
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12925276 - 07/20/10 03:27 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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IMO if you "settle" for something then it IS what you deserve.
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babydoll
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hahahahhahahaha that'd be the shit to do to him.
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12925362 - 07/20/10 03:45 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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This thread should be called "I hate my boyfriend"
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NortonStPhallus



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No offence OP, but you come off as a narcissistic bitch, of course only you know if this is indeed the case, if it is, I suggest you try to change it or expect not to be appreciated because you're only thinking of yourself.
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Prisoner#1
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This thread should be called "I hate my boyfriend and I should sleep with Pris to pay his sorry ass back"
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#12925439 - 07/20/10 03:59 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12925448 - 07/20/10 04:00 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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babydoll said: having a god damn attitude for no reason. i'm an amazing person and i know any guy would appreciate me more than he does.
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Drchemist
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12925465 - 07/20/10 04:03 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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babydoll said: having a god damn attitude for no reason. i'm an amazing person and i know any guy would appreciate me more than he does.
"Crucify your ego, before it's far too late.
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babydoll said: i can honestly see us together for a long time and so can he. (we talked all about it the one night when we were trippin).. but it's just these little things i wish could change.
If there's things you wish you could change about someone, then you may not be together for a "long time."
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: Drchemist]
#12925570 - 07/20/10 04:19 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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As long as ur doing thangs who cares? And if u are as cool as u say u are then i think he might have other problems(job, stress, family, emotional issues) that he isn't addressing with you if there really is a problem like you say.
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12925687 - 07/20/10 04:39 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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I always have anxiety that my GF talks like this about me behind my back...
But that's okay, because I don't depend upon her for my well-being like so many pitiful little permaboys/hypomen out there.
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Shroomism
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Tetriana said:
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babydoll said: having a god damn attitude for no reason. i'm an amazing person and i know any guy would appreciate me more than he does.
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Yeah, I've heard this one before. My best friend's ex used to say this to him all the time. She's single now.. turned out any guy wouldn't appreciate her more than he did.
Kinda glad my girlfriend is so honest, she can be really brutal sometimes cause she'll tell you exactly what she's thinking, but at least I know what she's thinking, instead of having to guess.
Mind games FTMFL
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The_Ghost
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: Solemente]
#12925768 - 07/20/10 04:51 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Solemente said:
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Envix said: man when i went to get my wisdom teeth taken out they only took out the bottom two then i got a whole bunch of vicodin and just chilaxed watching the matrix reloaded while high on vicodin it was the best time 
i might need to go again to get the top out 
but that will turn into when you get more vicoden
Happy bday niga.
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claraclairvoyant
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12925797 - 07/20/10 04:56 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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babydoll said: no we connect dude that's not tha tproblem you don't get it.
TTT - he's the type of guy who kind of over reacts. i've tried telling him before that i've felt under appreciated and right away he gets super defensive because i can't give an exact point of something he does....it just makes me feel shitty when he snaps at me or gets pissed off over something so small. he automatically thinks i'm calling him this piece of shit.
one of my best friends in the past was dating a guy like your boyfriend, the dude was a bitch. he was a cheater too. i think people who are always getting defensive or suspicious about their partner are usually the ones who fuck around. watch out, i guess is what i'm sayin.
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KetamineKatalyst
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12927417 - 07/20/10 10:17 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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babeh, you don't have to settle for less...
this is the shroooooomeryyyyy
Why settle for less shroomerites?! You too can have infinite slack, and always sell, never buy.
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: KetamineKatalyst]
#12927502 - 07/20/10 10:35 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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KetamineKatalyst said: babeh, you don't have to settle for less...
this is the shroooooomeryyyyy
Why settle for less shroomerites?! You too can have infinite slack, and always sell, never buy.

    QFMFT and so on.
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Where Is Life
Where Is My Mind?



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If you can't even talk to your boyfriend ABOUT overreacting without him overreacting is it even worth it? It seems sketchy to me, he shouldn't be flipping shit every time you show any kind of disapproval towards him or anything he does. That and the attitude thing seems like there's something he's hiding, but that's just me.
I don't see why else someone would act that way, if he really thinks you're trying to make him out to sound like a piece of shit every time you open your mouth about something then there's obviously a problem. Both of you expecting such bad/negative things from each other just doesn't seem right to me.
If there's any one you should be able to talk to or be open with it should be who you love, at least, that's what I think. If you can't even try to fix it without making it worse somehow, it's obviously not gonna get any better.
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: Where Is Life]
#12928042 - 07/21/10 12:38 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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You sound like me at 17-18 (except I was way awesome-er and way less conceited-er-er). And I am also way smarter than my boyfriend and totally deserve better than I have, so let me give you some advice, K? You sound like you are already ready to bail and are just looking for as much support as possible before you jump. Straight up, you should not be on the shroomery fishing for compliments and complaining about your relationship. You are completely betraying his trust, NOT awesome girlfriend behavior.
If you are meant to be with him, he will make you a happier person when you are around him. You won't need to be told or shown that he appreciates you b/c he will appreciate you.
If you feel like you need more out of the relationship, then you probably do. I would get a job and move out for a while....This way you aren't depending on him for anything which might be jading your outlook just a bit.
If you really care about the relationship and not just feeding your ego, then "wake" him up by sitting him down, when he is in a good mood and very patiently and lovingly tell him that you are a bit confused about some things and you need to work things out for yourself, by yourself, in order for you to be healthy and happy. If he loves you, then this will matter to him. If he doesn't care about you as much as he does himself, then he will probably spaz.
If he is good for you, then be with him. If he is not good for you, then don't. Above all, be good to other people, whether they know you are or not. And take care of yourself.
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Re: why do we always settle for less than we deserve? [Re: babydoll]
#12928204 - 07/21/10 01:30 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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babydoll said: he pulls this whole, "oohhh go home one night a week" bull crap when it makes no sense. wtf is one night a week gonna do? i mean i go do whatever but then he gets pissed off if i do something other than staying home. just last week i said i was going home without him asking me to and he got all pissed off and wondering what i was gonna do.
Sounds like a dickhead.
I could understand needing space, but trying to dictate when you're there and when you're not is just selfish.
Sounds like a simple case of co-dependence overload. I don't know if you can fix that, but I do know from experience that ending it feels goooooooooooooooooooooooooooooood.
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