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 peruvian spark
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 Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1287864 - 02/07/03 06:22 AM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Love usually starts by 2 people having sex, and then realizing 3 years later that they aren't right for each other. Be careful out there, I was stuck in a bad relationship for a long time and didn't even realize it. I think TRUE and lasting love can start from a good friendship, or even better- it just happens.
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 Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1288203 - 02/07/03 08:46 AM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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heavy drinking
that's how love starts
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1288455 - 02/07/03 10:17 AM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Love is mutual by definition.
If you love somebody and they don't love you back, then I would call it infatuation.
The most painful lie I was ever told was "I love you." 
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Re: how does love start? [Re: joe666]
#1288661 - 02/07/03 11:26 AM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Heavy drinking and lots of oral sex!
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 Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1289217 - 02/07/03 02:55 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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(Love bites, love bleeds)
It's bringin' me to my knees
(Love lives, love dies)
(Love bites, love bleeds)
It's bringin' me to my knees
(Love lives, love dies)
It's no surprise
(Love begs, love pleads)
It's what I need
If you've got love in your sights
Watch out, love bites
Yes it does
It will be hell
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Killjoy]
#1289245 - 02/07/03 03:10 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Love is mutual by definition.
If you love somebody and they don't love you back, then I would call it infatuation.
The most painful lie I was ever told was "I love you."
Well put, I'll have to remember that one.
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Re: how does love start? [Re: ISH]
#1289540 - 02/07/03 05:23 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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heh, its not that boundary between love and infatuation that catches me.
Its that boundary between infatuation and stalking that I always find so fickle.
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1289547 - 02/07/03 05:30 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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It'll hit ya, and you'll know it from there.
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For water benefits all things
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It provides for all people
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a man is loath to go
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 Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1289555 - 02/07/03 05:35 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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If it feels anything like this, it's probably love.
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Xibalba]
#1289713 - 02/07/03 06:53 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Of course love starts with mutual friendship. You have to really know someone to love them. If not, then it's definately infatuation. Trust me, I've been confused by the difference in them many times.
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How about if you were infatuated with them, started a relationship, got to know them for two years, and then realized that you do love them. 
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Xibalba]
#1289899 - 02/07/03 08:19 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Would you put money on that gunshot theory?
Kuz if you would, then I'm still in love.....
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1289947 - 02/07/03 08:54 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Recently a girl I thought I loved made it clear she didn't want me, so I've been trying to move on for about two weeks now
when it's been a year and you still can't get over that person, it's love
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how does mutual love usually start
for me it was almost instant. met the guy of my dreams (or so i thought at the time) and within an hour i was practically living with him. at the time it felt like love at first sight, but after thinking about it over and over again i tend to believe what a few others have already mentioned, you cannot truly love someone you do not know, so i guess it was infactuation to begin with.
i dont believe you can place a time limit on how long it takes to fall in love with someone. it just happens. and sometimes you can't even pinpoint the exact moment it occurred.
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1293395 - 02/09/03 10:30 AM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Love will make you feel like stars are exploding inside you. You will close your eyes and see heaven. You'll think she is the one for you. You'll see that she is your purpose on this earth. You'll die for her. Your heart seems like the only real thing in the world, then all of a sudden, its broken. Feels like a broken neck, but hurts much worse. Where did all the magic go? Was it really beautiful? Was it even real? easy come, easy go.
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Leya]
#1293546 - 02/09/03 11:36 AM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Recently a girl I thought I loved made it clear she didn't want me, so I've been trying to move on for about two weeks now
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Took me 6 bloody months of emo hell! Ill be damned if i rush back out to fall in love anytime within the next few years.
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how does mutual love usually start
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For me...instantly. The first time i saw her, my mind wouldnt stop thinking about her...until i was with her.
Whoever said "i love you" was most painful lie they were ever told has it bang on. Its not worth it. But id say it sounds like a case of infatuation to me.
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1293714 - 02/09/03 01:40 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1293878 - 02/09/03 02:40 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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i think love can be best described as "mutual infatuation". I've had more ex's than I would want, but its a learning process. Rarely does anybody get it right the first time so don't feel so bad. I've felt that "infatuation" and it does make you feel like your going crazy, your not, just blind. If you didn't blow all your chances with her, and you are still talking to her, you still may be able to turn it around. Patience is going to be key. If you did blow it, forget about her, and move on (or you'll wind up with a restraining order on Yo ass). Knowing what you want, in life, in another person (as a friend, girlfriend) and how you want to feel, is what defines what you want in a relationship; and finding someone who knows they want the same (in life, in another person, and how you want to feel) as you, may be a good road to follow. Nothing is ever an exact science, its all about trial and error. I hope this helps
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1293890 - 02/09/03 02:45 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ah, love! What a wonderful and illusive mystery. Some people believe that destiny guides us to love "the one" person that mystically hovers out there on this planent hoping that one day we will find them or they will find us. Love can be complex and perplexing or it can be extremely simple. Don't worry my friend, there will be other girls, maybe one, maybe 100. Did you love this girl? There may be no doubt in your mind that you did and that you still do. Although, when you love one and that one does not love you in return and you linger on it, then yes, it is infatuation. And if you do truely love this girl, then the only choice you have is to let her go and just hope that one day she will return.
On the question of love and how it begins, I believe you're seeking an answer that really can't be answered. There are countless way love begins. For me, I was friends with my fiance for 7 years before we fell in love. I think we always loved each other though, just took 7 years to figure things out. Anyhow, if it's meant to be, you'll be back with her soon enough, if not, expect a long and emotionally heartbreaking road ahead. But don't be discouraged, you will emerge much wiser and stronger then before.
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Re: how does love start? [Re: Anonymous]
#1293897 - 02/09/03 02:49 PM (21 years, 7 months ago) |
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Love is a myth.
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