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awesomebastard
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Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game?
#12720201 - 06/10/10 11:46 AM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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So as some of you know my heart was recently broken by who I considered to be my one true love.
Even though we hadnt know each other very long Im devestated.
So last night I decided to hook up with a girl I've wanted for a while.
Everything was going fine and then we got in the bedroom and I couldnt get hard.
I ate her out for about 10 minutes apologized explained that my heart was just broken we both smoked a ciggarette and went our separate ways.
How can I get over this guys.
I'm never going to be able to get over a girl if I cant fuck other girls.
What's happening to me and how long will this last?
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720211 - 06/10/10 11:49 AM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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It happens mang, I would ask that chick for a second chance.
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awesomebastard
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: zengarden66]
#12720251 - 06/10/10 11:57 AM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Nah I think that's over with dude she probably took it personal even though I tried to make sure she didnt.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720268 - 06/10/10 11:59 AM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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awesomebastard said: Nah I think that's over with dude she probably took it personal even though I tried to make sure she didnt.
invite her back and say you'll make up for it, smoke some weed it'll help if you're into that kind of thing.
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awesomebastard
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: blazenn]
#12720332 - 06/10/10 12:14 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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No suggestions for this inability to get hard?
Will this just eventually go away or can I do something about it?
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720334 - 06/10/10 12:15 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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I use to be able to get a boner at the drop of a hat.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720336 - 06/10/10 12:15 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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can you get hard on your own? i.e. jerking it to porn.
and thats also why i mentioned weed, stimulates bloodflow which will help you get hard.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720361 - 06/10/10 12:23 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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For me it took 3 years and a ton of soul searchin.
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LicHmicrO
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: Newbie]
#12720366 - 06/10/10 12:27 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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imma send you a in a bit, check your inbox OP
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720391 - 06/10/10 12:32 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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awesomebastard said: No suggestions for this inability to get hard?
Will this just eventually go away or can I do something about it?
Meth?
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: blazenn]
#12720393 - 06/10/10 12:33 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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blazenn said: can you get hard on your own? i.e. jerking it to porn.
and thats also why i mentioned weed, stimulates bloodflow which will help you get hard.
No I cant get hard at all anymore.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: The_Ghost]
#12720406 - 06/10/10 12:34 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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viagra?
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: eritas]
#12720413 - 06/10/10 12:36 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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most problems of this nature are anxiety related. if you have erectile problems at a young age, its hardly ever due to physical causes
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awesomebastard
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: LicHmicrO]
#12720465 - 06/10/10 12:46 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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It's all about how I cant stop thinking about my ex and it makes me depressed and kills my libido.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720486 - 06/10/10 12:51 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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awesomebastard said: It's all about how I cant stop thinking about my ex and it makes me depressed and kills my libido.
Give it more time?
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720619 - 06/10/10 01:22 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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You still have an emotional attachment it seems. Time is what you need. Be your own man for a little while When you're ready, you're ready.
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awesomebastard
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: Shroomism]
#12720754 - 06/10/10 01:51 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Shroomism said: You still have an emotional attachment it seems. Time is what you need. Be your own man for a little while When you're ready, you're ready.
Ya I mean I'll give it time.
Is there anything I can do to help get better faster?
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12720760 - 06/10/10 01:52 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
awesomebastard said:
Quote:
Shroomism said: You still have an emotional attachment it seems. Time is what you need. Be your own man for a little while When you're ready, you're ready.
Ya I mean I'll give it time.
Is there anything I can do to help get better faster?
Focus on your personal growth and well-being. Try to seek happiness without attachment to company.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: The_Ghost]
#12720785 - 06/10/10 01:57 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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^^^^^^
Find a new hobby, you'll be good as new in no time.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: Shroomism]
#12720790 - 06/10/10 01:59 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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ancient proverb:
YOU come first.
Bitches come last.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: The_Ghost]
#12720820 - 06/10/10 02:06 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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The_Ghost said:
Focus on your personal growth and well-being. Try to seek happiness without attachment to company.
That's honestly the best advice I've seen so far. It's exactly what I did and I came out a lot more confident and motivated after it all.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: Newbie]
#12720832 - 06/10/10 02:08 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Newbie said:
Quote:
The_Ghost said:
Focus on your personal growth and well-being. Try to seek happiness without attachment to company.
That's honestly the best advice I've seen so far. It's exactly what I did and I came out a lot more confident and motivated after it all.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: The_Ghost]
#12720853 - 06/10/10 02:12 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Thanks everyone.
I suppose I shouldnt even try to hook up with a broad until I stop crying when I think about R.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: Shroomism]
#12721056 - 06/10/10 02:56 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Shroomism said: ^^^^^^
Find a new hobby, you'll be good as new in no time.
Start growing fungi.... Or collecting stamps.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: whitelight7]
#12721864 - 06/10/10 05:25 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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So Dexfest is gonna be the SHIT. (I wasn't there last year so y'all correct me if i'm wrong) There is a lake, Jet ski Rentals, a pool, 3 Stages, Ridiculous sound and lights, mad decoration, electrical outlets, shade, real shitters and showers, and is gonna be super CHILL.
Conspirator, EOTO, Telepath, Big G, Starkey, Labcoat featuring Two Fresh, Mindelixir, Count Bass D, DEX, The Malah, Papadosio, Zoogma, This is ART, DJ Kidsmeal, Corleone, and so so much more.
Pre-sales are only $85. June 17th-19th...right after 'roo with plenty of preparties in between...RAGE ON.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12721972 - 06/10/10 05:49 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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do yourself a favor and dont get back in the game. waste of time. focus on yourself while you are lucky enough to have some alone time.
thank the gods that you are single. what a blessing, dont fuck it up.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: ManianFH]
#12727258 - 06/11/10 04:38 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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So I live in FL and the h3ttiest festy venue that we have access to by far is The Spirit of the Suwanee Music Park (the place where we have Wanee, Bear Creek, Blackwater, Spring fest, etc...) The SoS boasts 40+ acres of shaded camping, a river, disc golf, horse stables, cabins, petting zoo, infinite secluded trails, golf cart rentals, and more. yes, fair readers, I thought that renting a bunch of golf carts and driving around drunk late night with all my best friends was as good as it gets at a festival.
But this whole jet ski business is blowing me away. jet skis on a lake? this fest just can't be real. I am like 100% down to organize a sun rise jet ski race around this here lake. 1st place gets a 6-pack of Dogfishhead 90 minute IPA. Who's with me?
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: Alabaster]
#12849490 - 07/04/10 09:34 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Update I fucked her for a month after this post at least 4 hours a week of fucking that is.
I finally called it off last week told her enough is enough and I dont want to see her again. Wierdest thing is that she cried for about an hour striaght.
If only you women said what you meant and asked for what you wanted relationships wouldnt be too difficult.
I know what she wants me to do so we can be together but she isnt a child and can teol me what's going on in her head or the relationship would never work anyway.
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LicHmicrO
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12850094 - 07/05/10 12:42 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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awesomebastard said:
If only you women said what you meant and asked for what you wanted relationships wouldnt be too difficult.
Truth brother.
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Re: Help!!!! How to get over heartbreak and back in the game? [Re: awesomebastard]
#12850130 - 07/05/10 12:57 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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awesomebastard said:
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blazenn said: can you get hard on your own? i.e. jerking it to porn.
and thats also why i mentioned weed, stimulates bloodflow which will help you get hard.
No I cant get hard at all anymore.
Check your blood pressure sometime soon, if it's depression or anxiety from heartbreak it would also explain your circumstance, but erectile dysfunction is a sign of a heart related illness and the earliest sign of heart disease.
How old are you?
I suggest doing some good old exercise, get your endorphines pumping, eating healthier, do some meditation, pick up a hobby or something. And let time do it's job; heal.
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