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 Premature Ejaculation 
#12678743 - 06/03/10 01:29 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have primary premature ejaculation, meaning it's been present my entire life.
It was never much of a concern to me because I never saw myself having sex for some reason. Probably because I was only concerned with video games and escaping reality, and jacking off was something I only did when I saw boobs, a cute Asian or something similar and had the sudden urge to jack off before someone came knocking on my door.
For one reason or another I've become aware that I do in fact want to have sex, except it seems entirely pointless to me because of how severe my pe is.
When I masturbate my levels of sensation go from flaccidity, 80% erection, then 100% erection is when I am so aroused that ejaculation is already approaching. It only takes a minimal amount of stimulation from this point to reach orgasm, resulting in a process that takes less than a minute.
I think I already know everything I can do for treatment: kegels and edging. No short, rapid kegels. Only hard and long contractions. Staying relaxed while edging and using reverse kegels to suppress orgasm. No chest breathing.
The thing is is that my condition is so bad it's hard for me to see any of this working.
I posted this here because I figured there might be advice I haven't heard and hopefully people of similar background who have managed success.
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Ripped from Wiki:
Medications
Serotonergic medications, such as SSRIs, can delay ejaculation.[13][14] SSRIs are commonly used as anti-depressants. Examples include Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, and Lexapro. Clinical trials indicate that Paroxetine gives the largest increase in intravaginal ejaculation latency time.[15] Clomipramine often helps with serious cases that are related to the central nervous system (as opposed to psychological factors). The drug has the added benefit of also improving erection quality in some patients.[16]
Although serotonergic medications can delay ejaculation during administration, Post-SSRI sexual dysfunction, which can occur upon the cessation of treatment, may cause premature ejaculation even if it did not exist previously or may worsen an existing case.
Tramadol has been shown to be effective in delaying ejaculation.[17]
William Francis Ganong cited dietary 5-HTP as an alternative source to raising serotonin levels.[citation needed] (citation needed)
I took Fluoxetine (brand names such as Prozac) for other reasons and it made me take a very long time to finish. I was so worn out after sex. Go to your doctor and tell him what about your problem and he might give you that.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: migraineur]
#12678847 - 06/03/10 01:46 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Fuck all that shit. You don't need pills. Do kegels.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: feifen]
#12678922 - 06/03/10 02:00 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Masturbation is to get you off. Of course it's only lasting you a minute.
Sex is to get the OTHER person off.
practice makes perfect.
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feifen
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Quote:
SquaReSaltine said:
Masturbation is to get you off. Of course it's only lasting you a minute.
Sex is to get the OTHER person off.
practice makes perfect.
I can make myself not cum to up to 40 mins easily with multiple orgasms. Do kegels. Seriously look it up. OP
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: feifen]
#12679646 - 06/03/10 03:54 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Sex is about more than one round. Dont jack for a few days (if u know ur going to get some) and yeah.. the first will be quick, but thats nothing new. The magic is ull be so gagging for it ull go again.. and again. Each time lasting longer and longer.
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Edited by Mushie_Man (06/03/10 04:16 PM)
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: Mushie_Man]
#12733371 - 06/12/10 08:21 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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another vote for kegels
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I'm not sure which it is, or a combination of both, but since starting adderall and not cranking one out ever, my stamina seems to have increased quite a bit.
I'm pretty sure it is adderall related though because there seems like an overall slight loss of sensation. The girl I'm having sex with seems to like it though.
Don't assume you have no stamina when having sex though. An orgasm is very much a mental process and while masturbating you get in the zone very easy, and have through repetition trained yourself to get off very quickly. Sex is very different, there's another person there to focus on. You might surprise yourself and last much longer than you would expect.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: PowerTrip]
#12737062 - 06/13/10 03:51 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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Although I wouldn't necessarily recommend it, i did take an SSRI antidepressant, Lexapro, before and it did have the unfortunate (for me) side effect of prolonging the time/effort before ejaculation.
But SSRIs are generally not good news, I've learned.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: Galathil]
#12738392 - 06/13/10 08:22 PM (13 years, 10 months ago) |
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heh concerning the ssri's i was forced to go on them 2 years ago while still in my parents house...i have since moved out but saved a shit ton of paxils over the last two years because i stopped taking them obviously
i will usually just pop one before i go out trolling for females or a couple hours b4 i know im getting laid and it works wonders
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: ABR516]
#12747599 - 06/15/10 03:34 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yah I have that problem too, I can jack off in like 2 minutes WTF is wrong with me lol I have a 8.5 inch dick (lucky i guess) but I'm too scared to have sex with a girl cause I'm afraid I won't last long enough for her to enjoy it FUCK.
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jerk off until the point of cumming then stop and squeeze just the very tip of your penis. you wont cum. repeat. thats how I learned to bang for hours without squirtin one. masterbate 3-4 times a day doing this technique. guarantee it will help
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Quote:
legallyhomeless said:
jerk off until the point of cumming then stop and squeeze just the very tip of your penis. you wont cum. repeat. thats how I learned to bang for hours without squirtin one. masterbate 3-4 times a day doing this technique. guarantee it will help
Or you can just do kegels and not worry about having to cum period.
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Quote:
SquaReSaltine said:
Sex is to get the OTHER person off.
practice makes perfect.
Yup.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: javyn]
#12779723 - 06/21/10 05:01 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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javyn said:
another vote for kegels
Are you guys promoting kegels based off your own experience? I hear this advice all the time but I've never heard a person say that they themselves went from being a minute-man to being able to go all night long, simply through kegel exercies.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: Cakes]
#12779794 - 06/21/10 05:14 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yup, I do kegels 3 times a day.
I highly recommend you to start 
no...seriously, start training your PC muscles and in no time you'll be a sex god 
Not to mention you can do it ANYWHERE and its extremely easy and takes almost no time... why not try it?
Edited by feifen (06/21/10 05:15 PM)
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: feifen]
#12779813 - 06/21/10 05:17 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Does it result in a passive ability to last long (less "sensitivity")? Do you simply have more mental control over when you come? Or does it work by giving you the ability to squeeze these muscles in a way that lets you prevent it from happening?
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: Cakes]
#12779901 - 06/21/10 05:33 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Cakes said:
Do you simply have more mental control over when you come? Or does it work by giving you the ability to squeeze these muscles in a way that lets you prevent it from happening?
Both. Your PC muscles is what controls your ejaculation. You can completely control it with enough training. 
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: feifen]
#12779916 - 06/21/10 05:35 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Sweet, thanks for the insight
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: Cakes]
#12789602 - 06/23/10 10:29 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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ive tried kegals and didnt find much different, maybe i didnt do them for long enough.
Ive never been able to last more than 5 minutes, an when i came it was never that great.
Until i met someone special, and had the most unbelievable sex i had never thought possible. I went from being minutes and only doing it once in a day, to lasting hours and doing it 3 times a day, not only that my orgasms were so intense.
that relationship fell apart and i went back to being the old way.
Its all in the head, with the right triggers sex is unbelievable. what i found interesting is, that i could achieve similar feelings through the use of mephedrone and methylone. those 2 drugs would allow me to last a god awfull long time with the same intensity.
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Quote:
veda_sticks said:
Until i met someone special, and had the most unbelievable sex i had never thought possible. I went from being minutes and only doing it once in a day, to lasting hours and doing it 3 times a day, not only that my orgasms were so intense.
Thats always the way.
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i could achieve similar feelings through the use of mephedrone and methylone. those 2 drugs would allow me to last a god awfull long time with the same intensity.
Dont know how you got it up on those drugs, also that shit makes you smell BAD in the morning. Bad breath, bad body odour. Makes you smell like a chem factory. Not the best turn on for a women. Plus it makes me pretty useless in bed.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: Mushie_Man]
#12851066 - 07/05/10 09:48 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yikes, I've done methylone plenty of times with my ex and I never had trouble getting it up, I do kegels though and have a strong PC... I always use my PC muscles in sex so its pretty easy for me to get my dick up on any substance....except for coke/alcohol dick, theres just no point in trying 
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: feifen]
#12854009 - 07/05/10 09:57 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Veda is right, for the most part sex is all mental. Apparently the brain is the largest sex organ. Try to take turns switching between giving your partner oral sex and penetration if you can manage.
Also OP try using a condom if you have not been, it will take away from that "overwhelming zomg im getting laid!" sensation and possibly make you last longer.
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I can't even cum with a condom on 
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Re: Premature Ejaculation [Re: PowerTrip]
#12857166 - 07/06/10 03:43 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Personally, I trained myself as a teenager to delay ejaculation by masturbating nearly to finish and stopping. Doing this taught me self-control which I am able to utilize during sex.
I've heard kegel exercises hyped up a lot, but never investigated.
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PowerTrip said:
Sex is very different, there's another person there to focus on. You might surprise yourself and last much longer than you would expect.
Very true. I can orgasm in less than a minute with masturbation, but last for quite a while with sex.
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