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Thatgirl4444
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Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally?
#12649482 - 05/29/10 08:27 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? Does it matter? Do you work at keeping it secret from your, ahem, "vanilla" friends?
I'm a young married woman who goes to church, clean cut, respectful and always seen as wholesome. Most people would never guess that I have done "hard" drugs and would be shocked to find out my main hobby....
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Thatgirl4444]
#12649494 - 05/29/10 08:32 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: the human abstract]
#12649503 - 05/29/10 08:35 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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I don't mind if its known that I use... Its manufacturing I worry about. A lot of the hard stuff is kept secret. But smoking bud... that is in the open and it is the best way to be.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: churl]
#12649519 - 05/29/10 08:40 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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qtf man weed is chill now days.. its even legal places in the US now
im pretty open about drug using to a lot of people.. its gotten me fired a few times but im not trying to pretend im something im not
if i wanna play games ive got halo 3
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: churl]
#12649525 - 05/29/10 08:42 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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churl said: I don't mind if its known that I use... Its manufacturing I worry about. A lot of the hard stuff is kept secret. But smoking bud... that is in the open and it is the best way to be.
That's kind of what I've been wondering about. About puffing in particular. Do people, acquaintances, in your life react poorly if they learn that you smoke? Does anyone really care that much about my way to unwind after work?
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Thatgirl4444]
#12649535 - 05/29/10 08:45 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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are you talking cigs or crack here?
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: the human abstract]
#12649545 - 05/29/10 08:49 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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the human abstract said: qtf man weed is chill now days.. its even legal places in the US now
im pretty open about drug using to a lot of people.. its gotten me fired a few times but im not trying to pretend im something im not
if i wanna play games ive got halo 3 
In the deep south, where I live, people aren't entirely chill. Also, saying that I'm pretending to being something I'm not is incredibly inflammatory. There is no decree on what people must say, look or act to be a stoner.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: the human abstract]
#12649551 - 05/29/10 08:51 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ganja, specifically.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Thatgirl4444]
#12654340 - 05/30/10 06:52 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thatgirl4444 said: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? Does it matter? Do you work at keeping it secret from your, ahem, "vanilla" friends?
I don't work on keeping it a secret, but I don't tell everyone I meet, if they ask me directly I don't mind letting them know but I generally find the types of people who would ask something like that are pretty chill about the whole thing anyways. My friends know I use recreationally, but acquaintances don't as its not really something I would raise in conversation until I got to know them enough to gauge what their reaction to something like that would be. If I don't tell people they are none the wiser, as I don't let it effect my day to day life.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Ambient Forest]
#12654797 - 05/30/10 09:37 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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My immediate family has no clue, but my friends...they just try to guess what I'm on that particular day.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Glow2]
#12657893 - 05/30/10 08:38 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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yeah if i ever did start getting into a career i would probably have to keep it very low key
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: the human abstract]
#12667377 - 06/01/10 03:54 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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I never mention or even hint at drug use around work or family. It's bad news.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Society]
#12669491 - 06/01/10 10:09 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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well, Depends on the person, but often people i meet, have to ask if i smoke weeed. i have shaggy hair that im growing out to long hair. Im very healthy in appearance, have muscles like i would be an exercise freak. but I dont think people know that i chug robo, or grind up morning glory seeds.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: KingCaps36]
#12670725 - 06/02/10 03:55 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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I have no problem letting those around me know about my partakage in the weedage...if they want to judge me on that then fuck them and they can get lost.I'd much rather someone judge me on my work ethic and my morals,and how I treat those around me...for my volunteer works that I've done like a Katrina Car Wash I set up when Katrina slammed New Orleans etc.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Thatgirl4444]
#12670927 - 06/02/10 06:30 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thatgirl4444 said: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? Does it matter? Do you work at keeping it secret from your, ahem, "vanilla" friends?
I'm a young married woman who goes to church, clean cut, respectful and always seen as wholesome. Most people would never guess that I have done "hard" drugs and would be shocked to find out my main hobby....
Don't live a double life. I used to be a youth pastor and lead worship at my church. I was what you could call "respectable" and then I realized it was not who I was it was just how I was raised. You should either be open with people about who you are or make a choice to not be that person... just my two cents
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Thatgirl4444]
#12675806 - 06/02/10 11:20 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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I probably look like more of a drug user than I really am.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Silversoul]
#12675852 - 06/02/10 11:27 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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I do hide from some, most probably know.
But the ones that don't would never guess!
kinda strange really, cuz I know all the people who use...
of course some of the =m hide it well too.
Whats truly sad is that we have to.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: The Truth]
#12713314 - 06/09/10 02:23 AM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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Just the way I look, most people think I'm a druggy, even tho I wear 3 pieces most of the time. I'm tall, I've long hair and a long beard. So even if I tryed I wouldn't do a good job hiding it. Yeah, some people (having a broostick stuck up their ass I suppose) do lack some respect. If it can be a natural selection of the people I talk to, so be it, I'm glad.
I do, however, keep my familly thinking I only did THX derived drugs. Better that way. Most of them are pretty open about it. I believe they have serious doubt about that, but as long as it doesn't come into open discussion, status quo is perfect for me.
[PS] Thinking about it I did told them about that time I did Morning Glories because it's so funny.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Thatgirl4444]
#12798958 - 06/24/10 07:44 PM (13 years, 7 months ago) |
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People who don't do drugs don't think I do drugs.
People who do do drugs would most likely guess that I do drugs.
Anyone I have a close relationship with I trust enough and don't hide it. I think you should judge things on a person by person basis though. You can get a good idea of what people think about drugs with out ever suggesting that you do drugs.
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Re: Would anyone ever guess that you use drugs recreationally? [Re: Freedom]
#12861501 - 07/07/10 11:30 AM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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I let as many as I possibly can know just so I can get it out of the way. If they decide to not be my friend due to drug use, they probably shouldn't be my friend anyway.
I feel no problem telling co-workers and feel that if I can prove I am competent despite drug use, often times I'll be left alone or even highly respected. It is kind of impressive to do a bunch of drugs, wake up early (possibly do more drugs) and work a 40 hour week.
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