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OfflineBrainChemistry
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Getting back together with ex-girlfriends
    #12617776 - 05/24/10 12:33 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

What do you all think about it?

Stupid?

I broke up with my ex 6 months ago, we ended on good terms. The reason I broke up with her was because I kept having thoughts about cheating on her, and she was falling more in love with me...I didn't think it was fair to her, so I called it off. At the time, I couldn't really fall in love with her because I still had lingering feelings for a friend of mine. It hasn't been until recently that I've finally been able to confront these feelings, and have realized how parasitic a relationship I had with this other friend.

So now...part of me is missing this really good relationship I had with my ex-gf. And another part of me wants to meet someone new and start something totally from scratch. The other thing is that I've only had one real sexual relatonship before, and that was with my ex. Before that I'd just had one night stands and flings. Never anything serious until her.

So its like...do I wait and see if I have just as good or better chemistry with someone else, or do I get back together with my ex and see if we can have an even better relationship than before?


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: BrainChemistry]
    #12617809 - 05/24/10 12:39 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

You should be honest with her.  Perhaps you are at a time in your life where you want to see what other options area available.  You have that right.  But do not be weak and succumb to your lonesomeness and get with her just to not feel lonely.


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: cacharstar]
    #12617827 - 05/24/10 12:46 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

I've broken up and got back together with my gf like 5 times over the past 2 months, though this time we agreed to have an open relationship.  Probably gonna end badly, but I still love the girl so its a hard decision.  I'm in same situation as you though, I don't want to be with just 1 girl.  I don't really want another gf though, I just wanna have sex with random people and so does she, so we are hoping for the best.


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: fapjack]
    #12617938 - 05/24/10 01:32 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

Getting back together has always been bad news. Like the above poster, I've literally gotten back together 5 times since last feb, the shortest one being 4 days long. Open relationships don't work when you love the whore, and wonder every text she gets if she's setting up plans to go sit on one of her other dicks...

My two cents.

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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: c1dh3d]
    #12618041 - 05/24/10 02:14 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

They' re an ex for a reason.

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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: suburbanned]
    #12618072 - 05/24/10 02:28 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

as long as both people have "changed" then sure why not :shrug:

we treat past events like they happened for a reason lol


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: suburbanned]
    #12620697 - 05/24/10 03:14 PM (13 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

suburbantoker said:
They' re an ex for a reason.




This is actually what I feel too.

My real problem is the loneliness, and the fear that I will not be able to find someone as good as my ex was to me.

Its just a feeling I need to deal with, but yeah when I actually think about it, I don't see any good reason to get back with my ex. If I truly loved her, I wouldn't have thought about cheating on her in the first place...I'm not really interested in an open relationship.

Although I'm open to the idea of an open relationship. :lol:


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: BrainChemistry]
    #12620774 - 05/24/10 03:23 PM (13 years, 10 months ago)

I'm not all that worried about being alone, I just love my gf but she just has a lot of issues, and I do too.  We are both bipolar, so half the time we click really good and the other half of the time we are at each other's throats.  We don't have the same cycle either so that makes it even more difficult.


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: fapjack]
    #12620787 - 05/24/10 03:25 PM (13 years, 10 months ago)

If you guys broke up for a legitimate reason then you should probably not get back together.


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: deCypher]
    #12620802 - 05/24/10 03:27 PM (13 years, 10 months ago)

Being bipolar makes it a lot more complicated than that.  I love the girl, she loves me, I might not be ready for a relationship though.  We shall see with time.


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: fapjack]
    #12622075 - 05/24/10 07:29 PM (13 years, 10 months ago)

When me an my ex-girlfriend broke up, we ended up literally fucking around for about 4 months.

Then she found out That I smoked weed about 3 times a month (about and a half ago) and flipped out at me and told me "there was no chance she would get back together with me," even though I had no intention of getting back together with her. I just though it was a good chance to get my needs met until someone else came along. She was really weird though.

but I digress,

all in all, thinking back, I'm fucking glad we didn't get back together.


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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: BrainChemistry]
    #12622337 - 05/24/10 08:14 PM (13 years, 10 months ago)

My first girlfriend is the only one Id consider getting back together with.

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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #12623859 - 05/25/10 12:06 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

I wouldn't mind pushing every single one of mine onto a rocket headed for the sun

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Re: Getting back together with ex-girlfriends [Re: c1dh3d]
    #12623960 - 05/25/10 12:28 AM (13 years, 10 months ago)

I wouldn't get back with her. I say you be single and have fun till something good comes along. There is so many damn girls out there. But If you think you may have a good future with this girl than go for it. In my experience though, a second round never works out like you hope it would..

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