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g00ru
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#12527596 - 05/08/10 02:58 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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yeah, just gotta let go of your self image, allow it to get fucked with
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: Envix]
#12530168 - 05/09/10 02:14 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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maybe this'll help you out, dude.
Lol, it certainly is funny, but it's also not that easy. Everyone says that it isn't special but then, it could be them having bad sex. It'S also not only about the sex, it'S about the physical intimacy. I don't know if you can seperate it from sex or if it would make a difference if i'd have more self-esteem and body awareness. Propably!
It'S just a difficult psychological situation on many different levels. And I've heard that'S a huge turn on for women
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: jatangalo]
#12530192 - 05/09/10 02:26 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Dude how have you never had a girlfriend, let alone never have sex? Girls are like 1 out of every 2 people , and a good portion of them are fuckable... Maybe your asexual or something? (people not into sex and think jerking off is good enough)
While its your life, IMO, for most cases where people aren't normal but still enjoy their life while doing their own thing, its totally fine, but when your not doing the one thing humans are made to do somethings wrong
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: xtokex]
#12530198 - 05/09/10 02:28 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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get your dick wet man!
i would have go a pro by now!
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: AcidDropper420]
#12530315 - 05/09/10 03:46 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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i would have go a pro by now!
That's easy to say for someone who is and has been sexually active for a long time. For me, I'Ve been humiliated by women AND myself for a long period of time so "going pro" would mean to lose any dignity that is left. It would mean to say: "Yes, I suck at life". Without fucking a hooker, I can still maintain a positive perspective, although it'S getting harder as i get older and older. I'm now 26y old and I never pictured myself ending up as a lone, male virgin. Actually, I used to laugh at people who were still virgins at the age of 19.
"Never me" "Sometimes it'll happen"
But it never happened, and now women are strange, alien creatures for me and the thought of sex is even more alien. I have even troubles standing next to them or talking to them. Much damage is done.
It's propably hard to fathom, how someone can be a virgin in his mid twenties. For me it'S not hard to understand, but very hard to accept and it surely takes its toll.
But it'S time too look foreward, to not drown in self pitty...to work on problems.
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: meatcakeman]
#12530529 - 05/09/10 07:01 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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not going to read this thread...
just wanted to post :
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: jatangalo]
#12530530 - 05/09/10 07:01 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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girlfriends/boyfriends aren't for everyone and people need to know who they are before making such decisions.
could end up leadin' to some pretty bad thangs.
everyone just assumes that everyone's supposed to settle down with a spouse at some point. i say that's all bullshit
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: jatangalo]
#12530903 - 05/09/10 09:36 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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jatangalo said:
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i would have go a pro by now!
That's easy to say for someone who is and has been sexually active for a long time. For me, I'Ve been humiliated by women AND myself for a long period of time so "going pro" would mean to lose any dignity that is left. It would mean to say: "Yes, I suck at life". Without fucking a hooker, I can still maintain a positive perspective, although it'S getting harder as i get older and older. I'm now 26y old and I never pictured myself ending up as a lone, male virgin. Actually, I used to laugh at people who were still virgins at the age of 19.
"Never me" "Sometimes it'll happen"
But it never happened, and now women are strange, alien creatures for me and the thought of sex is even more alien. I have even troubles standing next to them or talking to them. Much damage is done.
It's propably hard to fathom, how someone can be a virgin in his mid twenties. For me it'S not hard to understand, but very hard to accept and it surely takes its toll.
But it'S time too look foreward, to not drown in self pitty...to work on problems.
when I was a virgin and didn't want to be any more, I was THIS close to buying a prostitute. It's kinda weird but if you can accept it (and I would have been able to lol) then there's nothing wrong with it.
I have an idea for you. In Asheville and lots of hippie towns, they have tantric sex instructors. You don't actually have sex but I'm pretty sure there's some "heavy petting" if you know what I mean and it would be a great way to gain experience and break down intimacy barriers that you have. Just a thought.
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: g00ru]
#12535423 - 05/10/10 02:56 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Not a bad idea guruu. I've even searched for something like this, but I don't live in the states and we don't seem to have any hippie towns, unfortunatly.
What i do is...i attend crowded place as often as possible like concerts, elevators, train stations...and use them as an opportunity to try to calm myself.
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: jatangalo]
#12535703 - 05/10/10 06:59 AM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Are you asexual?
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: daniel3]
#12536709 - 05/10/10 12:24 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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Don't know who you are talking to...but for me: no. Sometimes I wish i'd be
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: jatangalo]
#12536791 - 05/10/10 12:44 PM (13 years, 9 months ago) |
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elevators
if the problem is getting all nervous and anxious about having sex then youre just making the whole situation much bigger than it actually is.
i hope you realize a lot of girls out there, girls you may be into and vice versa, are pretty nervous about first engaging in sex with a guy. some may even be as nervus about it as you, so keep that in mind.
i was kinda like that when i was a vigrin too. then i had sex with a cool girl i made my gf and after i realized i was overanalyzing and being somewhat fearful for no fucking reason at all. i thought "i shouldve done this a long time ago."
just play it smooth with the chick.
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Re: Im a 25 yr old Virgin, never had a girlfriend [Re: thoughts]
#12590123 - 05/19/10 01:47 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yes, that might be very true, but i feel that even nervous girls do have sex because the male has to be the confident one. I once talked to a very outgoing and vibrant girl about my issues and she told me, that in her experience, there's nothing to fear if you are open. But thats the problem...you really have to be open and relaxed. There can't be no doubt, not a single doubt that you will succeed!
I test this on the streets. If i'm confident, i can walk a straight line on a busy street, without people bodychecking me. But only if i absolutely expect not to be bodychecked. If there's only a slight worry, it won't work.
I guess its the same with girls.
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