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Anonymous #1

Weird girl situation.
    #12588893 - 05/18/10 09:35 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

I meet a girl, we go out on the first date, everything is working nice, easy to talk to e.t.c. we seem to hit it of.
I like this girl, second date she comes up to my place we talk some more drink tea e.t.c. I figured it's moving in the right direction very smoothly, she is on board, wanting same thing.
I kiss her, not much enthusiasm from her first seconds of the kiss, but she cached up eventually, ending in a rather long first kiss. And she said it was good.

So far I was happy.

But after that I got a feeling for the rest of the evening like she is going out of her way to avoid me going in for a kiss again, and I mean I notice that shit so I don't try too hard thinking "fuck it then". But at the same time she really seems to be interested.

I'v been thinking about that ever since, what the fuck happened, really mixed messages, and I could't think of anything, until I tripped on mushrooms alone which gave me some perspective, seeing the situation from a different angle.

And best I can describe it is that she acted like a child and treated me like I was this older guy, like I was her dads friend or something trying to kiss her, really creepy, but that's the impression I am left with.

And I meen what the fuck she is in her early 20s and I am 3 years older.

I don't know, I keep guessing reasons but fuck do I know why she acts like a child.

Other then that everything was perfect.

Thought perhaps someone can share few words of wisdom, or perhaps someone knows what the fuck happened?

Best guesses I have: Playing hard to get? Just Playing? Afraid(virgin)? Still a child trapped in 20ish year old body? I am not attractive but she is really really really polite? Anyhow I think it is safe to conclude that I don't fucking know.


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Anonymous #2

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12589010 - 05/18/10 09:53 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

if shes 20 then i would bet shes a virgin


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Anonymous #3

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #12589086 - 05/18/10 10:05 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

kissess.. really? once u realize that women just want to get fucked you will be golden. The females recognize when u know what they reallyy want.. just be direct.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #12589175 - 05/18/10 10:16 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

wtf I can't just jump on her on the second date. It was not like I kissed her on the cheek, "make out" perhaps describes it better, which was go go in my world, but instead it weirded out.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12589243 - 05/18/10 10:27 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Don't project onto her, make more moves and see how she reacts to them. You didn't mention her denying you anything so far, don't be so hard on yourself or her. :thumbup:


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Anonymous #5

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12589280 - 05/18/10 10:33 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

she also might have just came out of a bad relationship or have trust issues.  some women are just shy about sex and intimacy, too.  she could have had a bad past experience with some dude, too.

but of course, best way to find out what the deal is:  talk to her about it.


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Anonymous #6

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #12589384 - 05/18/10 10:48 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

maybe she was into you but you just had some stanky breath. i was making out with a chick once and she exhaled out her nose and a booger flew into my mouth. i still fucked her but i could never bring myslef to kiss her again.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #12589539 - 05/18/10 11:15 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Don't project onto her, make more moves and see how she reacts to them. You didn't mention her denying you anything so far, don't be so hard on yourself or her.



Na I am not projecting anything, well I don't know what to project even if I would want to :laugh:
No there is no denial as such, and evening ended on a nice note, but she did pull the hand break in a weird way, which threw me off completely.
I am not hard on myself (what I know), I am just very confused right now =)

Quote:

she also might have just came out of a bad relationship or have trust issues.  some women are just shy about sex and intimacy, too.  she could have had a bad past experience with some dude, too.

but of course, best way to find out what the deal is:  talk to her about it.




Coming out of bad relationship... having trust issues, possible, did't think about that one.
EDIT: Though going to some guys house (me) is evidence against "trust issues", bad relationship / experience left then.

Talk, yes that might work :P Just have to figure out how to bring up "why you weirded out on me last time" :smile:

EDIT: Bad breath, hehe, anything is possible, though never been a problem thus far.


Edited by Anonymous (05/18/10 11:50 PM)


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Anonymous #7

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12589940 - 05/19/10 12:52 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Women are odd creatures. Don't trip on how things went too much, logic will get you nowhere real fast when trying to determine whats going on in a girls head. She could have her mind on other shit, doesn't trust you/herself around you , who the fuck knows. So the best thing to do is play it as it goes, lets look at what data is available to your situation so far.
-She has an interest in you There's some mixed signals, but she kissed back which shows a strong chance for you.
-She's acting a bit distant Alright this can be a pain to deal with. You just gotta work on building up some sparks between you, make sure to continue being well mannered, try and make her laugh, keep yourself clean and smelling nice, fresh breath.
-You are a gentleman You made that apparent by not being a dog trying to get her in the sack right away. If she's worth having, this will play well to your advantage.


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Anonymous #8

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12589978 - 05/19/10 01:01 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

It is possible to project and not realize you are doing it.

Also I remember onetime my ex's breath tasted like shit and I had to deny her kisses it was so foul. She was gorgeous but goddamn.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #12591017 - 05/19/10 09:29 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Ye the girl is nice, I met very few like her when it feels that we are on the same wave, that's why I am trying to figure it out instead of just go on.
We are gonna meet again soon, all your answers got me some confidence to to continue, I was bordering just giving up, thanks all.

PS. I don't have bad breath.


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Anonymous #7

Re: Weird girl situation. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12591067 - 05/19/10 09:43 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Glad you got the boost you needed. You sure you weren't eating too much garlic or onions that night? Joking, lol


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