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Ex gf knows about grow - trouble?
#12485827 - 04/30/10 08:42 PM (14 years, 22 days ago) |
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So on one of the week long "let's try dating again" spree's, my now (again) ex stopped over unexpectedly and saw the light from my closet, and found two monotubs under it. So, she has no problem about the fact of me having them, but being my ex again i am worried that we might get into a fight when she is being a drunk bitch, and do some sort of drunk bitch thing like call the police. I dont really suspect she would or all the shit would be gone right now, but its a paranoia stuck in the back of my mind.
My question is, will cops go kicking down someones door based solely on her word, if she went that route?
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: c1dh3d]
#12485853 - 04/30/10 08:47 PM (14 years, 22 days ago) |
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You could just not grow for a few weeks just to be safe, is it really worth it to ruin your record over this girl?
No. Just do that for a few weeks to let the heat die down if that's what you feel.
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: c1dh3d]
#12485858 - 04/30/10 08:48 PM (14 years, 22 days ago) |
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probably.
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: 2859558484]
#12485888 - 04/30/10 08:55 PM (14 years, 22 days ago) |
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Unfortunately, she comes back around every few weeks, and I have to basically be a huge asshole to get her off my back. So it seems like if I halt it, I might as well stop until I move completely out of the state. It really doesn't seem like that would constitute raiding an apartment, the word of a spiteful ex that is.
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: c1dh3d]
#12485984 - 04/30/10 09:14 PM (14 years, 22 days ago) |
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some guy was saying his door was kicked down because his ex said he had kiddy porn on his computer  and in Illuminati's thread his door got busted in because some punk said he threatened him with a gun he did not have. so im no expert but just form the stories it seems that pigs like to brake doors and hope they got good info and if not "oh well you should get a new door"
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: simbad42]
#12486076 - 04/30/10 09:34 PM (14 years, 22 days ago) |
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Actually, the employer was in possession of the laptop that had suspicious images on it, and with weapons there is a potential threat to police officers to overreact. It just seems like cops kicking doors over word of mouth would be pretty volatile to lawsuits, and that police would have basically a license to raid anywhere at any time for little to no real reason. Just wondering if anyone knows differently.
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: c1dh3d]
#12486174 - 04/30/10 09:49 PM (14 years, 22 days ago) |
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My question is, will cops go kicking down someones door based solely on her word, if she went that route?
Yes. Eyewitness testimony is easily enough for a warrant.
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You could just not grow for a few weeks just to be safe,
If you are going to wait it out, I would wait longer than a few weeks. More like 6 months.
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It really doesn't seem like that would constitute raiding an apartment, the word of a spiteful ex that is.
In the eyes of the law, it doesn't matter that she is spiteful.
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. It just seems like cops kicking doors over word of mouth would be pretty volatile to lawsuits
No. If someone gives the police information and its wrong, you can't sue the police. They were just doing the best they could with the info they have. If the police make up the info out of nowhere, then sure, sue them. But if someone tells them something they have their asses covered.
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and that police would have basically a license to raid anywhere at any time for little to no real reason.
Yes they do have that license.
Honestly, if she is a crazy spiteful bitch, move the grow.
But that is unlikely to be the case. Bitches may be crazy but they don't narc _that_ often. Unless they have a history of narcing in which case they do it all the time, but that is a small segment of the population.
Personally I would try to stay on her good side. Do things together as friends and do not snub her in any way. If possible avoid her entirely without her realizing that you are avoiding her. Do not ever let her see you having other girls over as that could spawn a call to the cops. Exit gracefully and you should be ok.
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Yeah, I am trying to stay on her good side which has not been easy... I was almost thinking of moving it, and having her over and when she asks about it tell her I got rid of it.. thanks for a detailed response Alan
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: c1dh3d]
#12487666 - 05/01/10 08:06 AM (14 years, 21 days ago) |
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She doesn't need to know about you moving the grow.. she doesn't need to know anything, she already knows too much. I know Alan covered all the bases, but personally I'd just take it down anyway.
One of my ex's vandalized a convenience store and went to the police saying she saw me do it. They looked at the tapes and it was her.
You'd be surprised...
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: Adden]
#12488119 - 05/01/10 10:42 AM (14 years, 21 days ago) |
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Alan pretty much summed it up
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: Adden]
#12488148 - 05/01/10 10:52 AM (14 years, 21 days ago) |
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Dystopia said: She doesn't need to know about you moving the grow.. she doesn't need to know anything, she already knows too much. I know Alan covered all the bases, but personally I'd just take it down anyway.
I obviously would not tell her I moved it, id let her notice its gone and upon inquiring, or like Alan suggested, slowly back out of the picture with a smile on my face. I haven't had boomers in years, and I am looking at about 30 pe pins that have just hardly formed - I won't be able to just toss it...
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: c1dh3d]
#12488831 - 05/01/10 01:09 PM (14 years, 21 days ago) |
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Alan posted good advice, so I'll just comment.
It sounds like you're a pussy whipped bitch. Why would you let a chick who isn't even your GF nose around your place? Sounds like she walks all over you.
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: Adden]
#12489222 - 05/01/10 02:40 PM (14 years, 21 days ago) |
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One of my ex's vandalized a convenience store and went to the police saying she saw me do it. They looked at the tapes and it was her.
That sounds like something an ex of mine would do... 
Anyway, here's an idea: temporarily move everything illegal out of your place. Then, tell that girl to fuck off in the worst possible way. Like, really piss her off as much as possible in the process. Then if your door gets busted down they won't find anything, and you'll know that she narcs. I doubt she'd call them more than once if they failed to find anything the first time So, by bringing this to a conclusion now, you can prevent months of paranoia and waiting. Or you could just be really nice to her all the time.
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Alan do have a post somewhere with your story? Your posts always hint at an interesting back story. I guess I'm just curious
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Re: Ex gf knows about grow - trouble? [Re: c1dh3d]
#12491323 - 05/01/10 10:16 PM (14 years, 21 days ago) |
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c1dh3d said: Actually, the employer was in possession of the laptop that had suspicious images on it, and with weapons there is a potential threat to police officers to overreact. It just seems like cops kicking doors over word of mouth would be pretty volatile to lawsuits, and that police would have basically a license to raid anywhere at any time for little to no real reason. Just wondering if anyone knows differently.
Depending on how large of a city you live in, they may overreact to the threat of a mushroom grow too. If she were to call the police, she could easily exaggerate the size of the grow (either out of spite or lack of knowledge), and they may bust in your door thinking they're going to find some 20lb per week operation. That, or they may just look for any other reason to enter your house. Unless you're super careful, they may be able to find a way in without the need for a warrant.
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