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    #1233456 - 01/20/03 09:38 AM (15 years, 2 days ago)

long term relationship, that is. hmmmmm, it sure would be nice to have one special someone to curl up with throughout the winter. but last time i approached a ltr, from first desiring one and then looking for a suitable consort to fulfill this desire, i wound up getting terribly hurt. however, once the door to that ltr closed, so many wonderful possibilities opened up to me - for one, i found out that i was much more attractive and desirable than i had ever realized. for better or worse, i've had 4 of the most fantastic sexual partners/splendid persons since this new year to ever enter my life. i'm able to appreciate these people and they're able to appreciate me, yet i don't need them and they don't need me, and i like this. the healthiest way i see to approach this predicament, is just to keep on relating naturally as is until an undeniable bond is formed.... my question is, how do i stomp out this foolish flaming desire for a ltr?

it's funny, ol' Sigmund seems to got a good hold on what's going on here with me, with the id, phantasy, displacement, exc...

Everything is better than it was the last time.  I'm good.

If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.

I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too.  If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.

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Re: ltr [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #1233495 - 01/20/03 09:48 AM (15 years, 2 days ago)

I find long-term relationships distracting :wink:

Thinking in terms of "we" instead of "I" is a pain in the ass at my age - once I get my life straightened out and somewhat stable, I'll be a bit more into it, but for now; I'm all about the fun-n-runs

Insert an "I think" mentally in front of eveything I say that seems sketchy, because I certainly don't KNOW much. Also; feel free to yell at me.
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