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    #1233456 - 01/20/03 09:38 AM (14 years, 2 months ago)

long term relationship, that is. hmmmmm, it sure would be nice to have one special someone to curl up with throughout the winter. but last time i approached a ltr, from first desiring one and then looking for a suitable consort to fulfill this desire, i wound up getting terribly hurt. however, once the door to that ltr closed, so many wonderful possibilities opened up to me - for one, i found out that i was much more attractive and desirable than i had ever realized. for better or worse, i've had 4 of the most fantastic sexual partners/splendid persons since this new year to ever enter my life. i'm able to appreciate these people and they're able to appreciate me, yet i don't need them and they don't need me, and i like this. the healthiest way i see to approach this predicament, is just to keep on relating naturally as is until an undeniable bond is formed.... my question is, how do i stomp out this foolish flaming desire for a ltr?

it's funny, ol' Sigmund seems to got a good hold on what's going on here with me, with the id, phantasy, displacement, exc...



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Re: ltr [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #1233495 - 01/20/03 09:48 AM (14 years, 2 months ago)

I find long-term relationships distracting :wink:

Thinking in terms of "we" instead of "I" is a pain in the ass at my age - once I get my life straightened out and somewhat stable, I'll be a bit more into it, but for now; I'm all about the fun-n-runs


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