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Axiom420
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looks like you came to the right place. just like everyone else that said this i had this problem too.
just think to yourself. "no one is better than anyone else. and everyone knows this." and if you happen to run in to the dumb fucks that don't seem to know that just think to yourself, "fuck them!" and then don't bother hanging around with them.
i wouldn't recomend alcohol. but i would recomend ghb. good luck.
-------------------- "Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen." - Albert Einstein
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Re: The science of social interaction. [Re: Sclorch]
#1222241 - 01/15/03 08:13 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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hahah yes sclorch, I like doing that stuff too, although i'm not as smooth as you. I just get the odd looks
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olywaguy47
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Re: The science of social interaction. [Re: sirreal]
#1222315 - 01/15/03 09:23 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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One of the most difficult things I've learned to deal with in face-to-face communication is when someone gives me what I term "the level look". You've seen it -- it's that no bullshit, this is real, this is now, this is the way it is look. It's the look a woman gives a guy when she's not afraid to know she's 'interested' in him and will willingly jump in the sack with him, should he ask. There's no mistaking the level look, and either you can meet it with your own, or you have to look away and pretend you didn't see it.
Being frank, open, and honest isn't always easy. Allowing someone to see into and through you is fraught with peril but is really the only way to make those deep and meaningfull kinds of connections that allow intimacy to happen. Ya gotta take that chance, though, if you wanna get beyond the superficial, eh?
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sirreal
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Re: The science of social interaction. [Re: olywaguy47]
#1223121 - 01/16/03 06:50 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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If someone looks at me intently I usually respond to that person.Say hi or something.I figure they are looking at me for a reason, so I find out what that reason is.But if there is something about that person that intimidates you (opposite sex, Mean-looking, or whatever.),It can be hard.I'm kinda confrontational ,but I can understand how it works.I agree that you just have to take a chance.If you want to have a social life ,that is.
-------------------- I may not always tell the truth, but atleast I'm honest ----------- I see what everyone is saying. It is so hard to form an opinion when you see both sides so clearly!
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