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Re: The science of social interaction. [Re: Smack31]
    #1212909 - 01/12/03 07:05 PM (21 years, 20 days ago)

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the less I speak the harder it is to find words...




I get this too...
I think maybe if I just stop caring about responding to everything someone says, it will go away.  It could be that it partly comes from wanting to say "the right thing" to someone, you know?
You were saying how it happens to you when someone is just talking at you, or "going on and on"...
People tend to talk themselves into an emotional hole sometimes. At those times maybe it's best just not to tell them what they're expecting (or wanting) to hear, and instead remain silent, just listening.  Interjecting something just for the sake of conversation might not always be the best thing to do.
I've realised that sometimes (unknowingly) people spill their guts to you not to hear your answers to their problems, but just to have someone who will listen so that they feel justified in whatever it is that their going through. 
I'm just thinking out loud here...hope that made sense  :crazy:  :wink:   


Edited by dee_N_ae (01/12/03 07:07 PM)


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