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Anonymous #1
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life SUCKS
#12076446 - 02/22/10 11:20 AM (13 years, 11 months ago) |
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Girlfriend of 4 years left me a couple weeks ago. The loneliness is really starting to fucking kill me. I'm broke, no job. I just want to meet a new girl, but it seems impossible. I don't know where to meet a girl that has the same interests as me. That being the internet, plant growin', cooking, and nerd stuff.
So please, somebody help me. Where the hell do I meet nerd girls??? Because if I have to sit here alone like this just sulking and feeling like crap much longer, I'll probably end up doing something bad. :|
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Anonymous #2
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Woah. This sounds just like my situation a few weeks ago. Except I was with my girly for 5 years...
I also posted here bawwing about it, and people told me a lot of "go fuck yourself" and "be a man". A handful gave me some pretty good advice, which I will now pass to you.
If you need another person to feel OK about yourself (a girlfriend), you are obviously unhappy with yourself. You need to learn to be happy on your own, because when you are co-dependent, this is exactly how it feels. Learn how to enjoy time on your own, THEN find someone you don't mind sharing your time with.
Cut off all ties with her. Don't call her and ask her how shes doing, etc. Fuck it. Shes a cunt for leaving you, and you have to accept that. Shes not worth all this bullshit...you're worth more than her. Just keep telling yourself that.
Trust me man. I know. Its tough sleeping at night without her for me still. My bed was a bed for 2 for such a long time, I really miss having someone to share it with.
Odds are, you're a young dude. You'll bounce back and find someone new eventually. But use this as a learning experience.
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Anonymous #2
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Oh, and when you find a place with an abundance of those girls, let me know where it is so I can go find one too.
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Anonymous #3
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You could just man up and kill yourself.
LOL funny, But seriously, kill yourself...
No?
Ok
You see the fact is your girl sucked all the life out of you cos that what they do. You now no longer have any semblence of a circle of friends and are incapable of truely independent thaught.
You feel that you need to fill that void and who can blame you, it sucks to be without familiar stuff.
Luckily for you festival season is upon us. Start finding out who's going to what and if noones going, fuck em, go by yourself.
You need to be awesome for a while and when you're being awesome, happiness finds you.
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Anonymous #2
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I'd love to meet a nice hippie girl 
I'm way too fucking shy for my own good.
Good luck OP.
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Anonymous #4
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She's fuckin someone else bro.
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Anonymous #5
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Quote:
Anonymous #4 said: She's fuckin someone else bro.
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