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Anonymous #1
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Lost virginity
#12068612 - 02/20/10 11:05 PM (13 years, 11 months ago) |
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Im in my mid 20's and i've been friends with this dame since freshman year of high school we've dated 4x each time breaking up due to reasons outside are control (Moving etc) She's still a Virgin and has never wanted to give it up which has drove me nuts many a time now im moved agian 1200 miles away from her and she wants to fuck! We talk nightly and nightly she teases and torments me telling me how she cant believe she has waited this long blah blah blah.... It's driving me nuts! Worst part is she's activlly trying to loose her virgintiy and while i've been trying to get in her pants for 10+ years im sure she wont be a virgin when i get home in june!
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Anonymous #2
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yep. womwn suck. meet you at the bar?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #2 said: yep. womwn suck. meet you at the bar?
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Anonymous #3
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She doesn't want to fuck, except with your mind.
The distance is a buffer, and she likes that she has your undivided attention from that far away.
Even if she WILL fuck you, let her practice on a couple guys first, get her blow job technique down and learn how to reciprocate, not just let the guy do all the work.
Virginity is nothing major, really, and a woman's first time is generally clumsy, painful and more embarrassing than pleasurable.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #3 said: She doesn't want to fuck, except with your mind.
The distance is a buffer, and she likes that she has your undivided attention from that far away.
Even if she WILL fuck you, let her practice on a couple guys first, get her blow job technique down and learn how to reciprocate, not just let the guy do all the work.
Virginity is nothing major, really, and a woman's first time is generally clumsy, painful and more embarrassing than pleasurable.
I know virginity is nothing special it wouldn't be my first. It's not the virginity lol it's the the nature of the beast you know the fact i've been chasing that treasure for 10 years can finally have it and instead some other guy get's it effortlessly!!! Scoring on all my hard work! (And ya she wants to screw it's not games only reason she didn't last night is cause her flat mates busted in with a dozen people just as he got the rubber on)
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Anonymous #4
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SFSEB
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Anonymous #5
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Anonymous #4 said: SFSEB
Well duh 
Taking a girls virginity sucks anyway. They get soooo clingy, always.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #4 said: SFSEB
No. Shit.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #4 said: SFSEB
Well duh 
Taking a girls virginity sucks anyway. They get soooo clingy, always.
Ya. But when ya fuck a virgin least you know she clean. That and virgins ALWAYS think your a sex god.
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Anonymous #6
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You've been dating this girl off and on for 10 years and havent gotten it yet? She def trying to keep you around putting the pussy out there now that your 1200 miles away. Good luck man hopefully you get it before 2012 haha.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #6 said: You've been dating this girl off and on for 10 years and havent gotten it yet? She def trying to keep you around putting the pussy out there now that your 1200 miles away. Good luck man hopefully you get it before 2012 haha.
It's not be just her the past 10 years thank god and a good half of those years we didn't even talk let alone date. We just keep running into each other and then we start dating for awhile then one of us ended up moving, or some such thing and we repeat.
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Anonymous #7
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Dude, you're blind if you think she hasn't been fucking people. You've got sucker written all over you. Like someone else said "she's trying to keep you around" yeah, basically as a fall back guy when some other dude gets her panties in a bunch.
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Anonymous #7 said: Dude, you're blind if you think she hasn't been fucking people. You've got sucker written all over you. Like someone else said "she's trying to keep you around" yeah, basically as a fall back guy when some other dude gets her panties in a bunch.
^^ that and to torture by telling her stories about how the guy had the rubber on and we were all hot to go and then *gawsh* her roommates just HAPPENED to barge in with a dozen people at that time so they couldn't do it.
She knows it kills you. She's playing you, and you're letting her. It's called turning you into a GFWAP (girlfriend with a penis).
She's getting a big power trip off of this one, probably used to soothe some of her own anxieties and serve as a distraction. [edit: removed other stuff here cuz I misread and thought she relocated but it was OP]
She feels GREAT when she gets off the phone with you. How do you feel?
Edited by Anonymous (02/21/10 06:32 AM)
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Anonymous #7
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Seriously there is all over this.
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Anonymous #3
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Oh oh let me add this:
About being an Emotional Tampon, and SPECIFICALLY about how you're doing what you're doing to get into her pants, but what you're (currently) doing is pretty much guaranteeing you won't ever get into her pants.
There's WAYS to get into her pants (she feels too secure with you because she's in complete control, if she felt more insecure because you started taking more control of your own dating situation it would trigger more attraction) but what you're doing right now WON'T get you there, and here's why:
From http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/emotional-tampon
Quick Definition
A guy (or sometimes a girl) who allows others to bleed their emotional problems all over them.
Full Definition
An emotional tampon is a term used to describe guys that put up with listening to all the problems that women have, in the vain hopes of eventually getting into their pants. It is a typical mistake that “nice guys” and AFCs make in their relationships with women.
It can also be used to refer to a specific man who is being used as a distraction for a woman who has recently broken up or will soon break up with their boyfriend. The woman will lead the “tampon” on thinking that they have a chance when in reality they have no use except to use the “tampon” to help them feel better about themselves.
Emotional tampons have the mistaken belief that being a good listener means letting other people vent all their problems to them. They believe that being an emotional tampon will get women to like them, and that by sympathizing with their problems, women will come around to see what a nice guy they are, and sleep with them instead.
However, being an emotional tampon has the opposite effect, because is builds negative rapport with women. Eventually, the women will come to anchor all of the negative emotions that she is venting with the guy she is venting them to, and actually become repulsed by him. At best, he will be LJBF’d and put into the category of “asexual girlfriend” that she can vent her problems to.
A true PUA knows that it is best to keep conversations focused on positive topics and emotions, especially during the initial stages of attraction. While it is okay to let a woman vent occasionally, a PUA should strive to steer the conversation in a more positive direction by acknowledging the woman’s feelings, but then relating to them on a more positive emotion.
PUAs avoid becoming emotional tampons by creating a fun and sexual vibe, rather than being some woman’s shoulder to cry on. A positive relationship is built on banter, flirting, and positive emotional connections; not complaints, whining, and the venting of emotional problems.
PS: I'm female.
Edited by Anonymous (02/21/10 06:34 AM)
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Anonymous #8
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^wise^
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Anonymous #7
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Thank you for doing the research. I fully believe that this is the case here.
If the OP thinks she really wants to fuck make her come to him 1200 miles away. I'll wager that won't happen.
OP needs to wake up
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Anonymous #10
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OP is a loser. It has taken him ten years to (POTENTIALLY) close the deal.
she's fuckin someone else bro.
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Anonymous #1
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Lol.... You guy's couldn't be more wrong. 1st she din't tell me this her room mates did, she just collaborated... 2nd She's a Virgin i'd stake money on it just grew up super conservitve and is just now dawning on her that her parents views of the world suck ass and that religion and the chastity tell marriage that goes along with it isn't for her. As for being a Emotional tampon lol ya right. I'd be the first person to tell her to take her crap else where, she also WOULD come the 1200miles to see me and has begged me to let her many times but i can't my work situation is live in and has a strict no dames policy. It's not worth loosing a good job over a bit of tail. but nice try guy's She's just goody goody coming out of her shell at a time when im not available.
Edited by Anonymous (02/21/10 02:35 PM)
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Anonymous #11
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What job do you have that requires you to not have sex? Do you work in the fucking Vatican?
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Anonymous #1
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Doesn't require me not to have sex. It's just a 24/7 live in job that doesn't allow dames in the boarding house. Pretty hard to have sex when you work from dawn to dusk and well after 7 days a week and the place your "living" doesn't allow dames in your room.
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Anonymous #11
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Have her get a hotel?
edit: tell your boss you are about to lose your virginity, if your boss is not a demon from hell they should understand.
Edited by Anonymous (02/21/10 02:48 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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A hotel? Lol. Nearest town is an hour away. Nearest airport is 5. and im not a virgin im a father of 2 and divorced i haven't been a virgin in a LONG time she's the virgin. When you work a cattle ranch you don't just "take a day off" my boss would never go for it well he may but then if something happened at work and i wasn't there he would flip a bitch fire me and replace me with a fucking Mexican! Since jobs are so fucking hard to get around here it's not worth it.
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Anonymous #11
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my dad dude dont get all bitchy at me, you never explained any of that
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Anonymous #3
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Then enjoy the continued teasing, and hey come back to let us know about the lay report because the first time you DO get to see her, I assume you'll be getting her alone and putting some serious moves on her!
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Anonymous #12
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She's fuckin someone else brah.
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Anonymous #1
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As horrible as it sounds i get a break!!! Her Aunt died and she's spending the next couple months "Baby sitting" her 17yo Cousin tell she graduates while her uncle is away at work.... In Alaska. Lol... She just may still be a virgin come june.
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Anonymous #7
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Dude, I've never heard someone so full of shit in my life.
Keep your story going because it's nothing more than entertainment now.
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Anonymous #1
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Actually i just finished taking my daily dump srry.
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Anonymous #10
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Anonymous #1 said: A hotel? Lol. Nearest town is an hour away. Nearest airport is 5. and im not a virgin im a father of 2 and divorced i haven't been a virgin in a LONG time she's the virgin. When you work a cattle ranch you don't just "take a day off" my boss would never go for it well he may but then if something happened at work and i wasn't there he would flip a bitch fire me and replace me with a fucking Mexican! Since jobs are so fucking hard to get around here it's not worth it.
How do you see and spend time with your children?
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Anonymous #1 said: A hotel? Lol. Nearest town is an hour away. Nearest airport is 5. and im not a virgin im a father of 2 and divorced i haven't been a virgin in a LONG time she's the virgin. When you work a cattle ranch you don't just "take a day off" my boss would never go for it well he may but then if something happened at work and i wasn't there he would flip a bitch fire me and replace me with a fucking Mexican! Since jobs are so fucking hard to get around here it's not worth it.
How do you see and spend time with your children?
I video call with them nightly and spend my summers with them. Im a winter boss so im of June to September. It sucks but long as nothing major happens i'll be retired and sitting pretty by the time there 10 and im 30. Figure give a little now for a lot later.
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Anonymous #13
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sounds like you've created the perfect situation for an asexual loser like you to never get pussy.. cheers
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Anonymous #1
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LOl. Eh i get pussy just only June - September .
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