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Anonymous #1
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Can't stop looking at porn.....
#12045386 - 02/17/10 08:40 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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So...what the fuck?
I started looking at porn when I was like, 12 or something....It was cool then, because I was 12.
Now I'm fuckin 20 and I have been looking at it almost multiple times daily for almost 8 years.
My parents went fuckin nuts when I was maybe 16 and sent me to some praise-jesus-heal-your-soul sex addict psychologist or whatever...
Now I'm out of the house, and on my own, and I'm fucking sick of looking at porn. It's fucking pathetic.
I have gotten legit pussy on multiple occasions, and it knocks porn out of the water....
I just want to kick this shit to the curb, I feel like it's fuckin up my game, my mental health, and pretty much everything else. I feel like shit afterwords every goddamn time. For the past 3 or so years I have been telling myself, "this is the last time." It never is....
I would like to tell myself that at 9:30 this morning will be the last time I ever whack it to porn...
Any advice?
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Moronicus
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12045440 - 02/17/10 08:53 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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since this is the shroomery, i advise you to eat about 3-28 grams of cyans then look at porn
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12045455 - 02/17/10 08:57 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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mayne you gotta have self control. without it you are nothing more then a horny animal. keep yourself occupied and off the computer and then theres no way of it tempting you. exercise, do something productive, insted of strangilin your snake every five minutes.
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Moronicus
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yeah, maaaan.
write some fucking songs, draw some pictures
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12045921 - 02/17/10 10:11 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's an addiction and must be treated as such. You will most likely have to get rid of your home computer.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Icelander]
#12045991 - 02/17/10 10:23 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Or just your internet.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12046003 - 02/17/10 10:24 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Is it watching porn and jerking off what fucks you up or is it because you have to deal with guilt issues that arise because of the moral standards that were imposed on you?
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: spacel0rd]
#12046277 - 02/17/10 11:10 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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spacel0rd has a good point. Are you really being harmed by it (i.e. it affects your ability to get things done, relate to friends/family, etc.) or do you just perceive it as such? Take some time to think about why it bothers you so much.
If you really want to stop, there are a number of apps that you can install to block certain websites, or you can set up parental controls and have a friend make the password (or just type a huge string of letters that you'll never remember). If that isn't possible, try only going online in the presence of other people - in front of your roommate, at a cafe, or by an open window - so you won't be tempted.
One question though: do you always masturbate when you watch porn, or do you just watch it for its own sake? The two addictions can be very different.
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I definetly vote for work out and exercise, at least 1 time per week - fully. Try to make gaps to your jerking, let's say, you're jacking off every day, try to make without one day per week and incrase gap weekly. Like one week I mastrubate 6 days, next week 5 days and so on. Or find legit pawsy that you can do weekly
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: HeartAndMind]
#12046659 - 02/17/10 12:13 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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I feel guilty afterwords because I have been trying to stop forever. I get horny, and just say fuck it, I'm watching some porn.
I'm struggling more with the moral standards I have put on myself.
At first I thought everyone looks at porn, and at 12, it seemed like everyone did. But the truth is, not everyone does.
Neither of my younger brothers struggled with it, although I found porn in my Dads closet when I was around 14,and my grandfather (from my Moms side) has been struggling with porn addiction all his life.
Sometimes I just look at it out of habit, because I have been doing it for so long. Other times I just look at it to whack one off and be done with it.
Honestly, just having these replies has helped. I have never told anyone about this.
I feel like all my roommates know, and my Mom walked in on me more than once when I lived with my family. So did my youngest brother while I was just browsing, and fuckin stoned.....
I do work out 3 times a week, and I play music daily. It's not often that looking at porn gets in the way of my real life, but occasionally it will.
I would like to tell myself it's over for good, but it's all about self control.
I have gone maybe two weeks max without looking at porn, or masturbating. One week I was on the Appalachian Trail though, so that didn't really count.
Meh.
I definitely need to kick 4chan....
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12046710 - 02/17/10 12:21 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't know if that helps, but, well, don't hate or reject the fact that you love porn or mastrubating, accept it, let it go thru you. I don't think you gonna turn into monkeyspank junky because of that.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: HeartAndMind]
#12046983 - 02/17/10 01:07 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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All i can say is excessive jerking is a sign of lack of love or nurture. You're trying to make up for that lack of love. trust me i take psychology. In other words you needa get a girlfriend and surround yourself with people who care about you. I'm having this problem too. (getting a gf, not jacking off too much lol)
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This type of things happens sometimes with socially anxious or depressed people I've noticed. Sometimes people use porn and stuff like that as a safety blanket to protect them from having to face the outside world or other people, which can be perceived as threatening or uncomfortable.
And yeah dude, 4chan... definitely not the healthiest place for a person
Talk to a psychologist if this is really getting the way of your life, otherwise you're going to have to take it upon yourself to discipline yourself and that can be very challenging without someone to help you.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Jabbawaya]
#12049251 - 02/17/10 06:22 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Bad case of procrasturbation huh? Keep yourself busy with other things...stay away from your comp in private places.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12051143 - 02/17/10 11:03 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's oke man, you just need a little help.
This site will help you... http://www.covenanteyes.com/
Also, for added support, check these guys out. http://www.myspace.com/whitecollarsideshow
White Collar Sideshow is a group to advocate internet porn addictiveness. (T), the "Ringleader", was once addicted to porn. It caused many problems in his marital life... It hurt him and those around him... hurt him because of the guilty pig he felt himself to be, and hurt his wife because she felt she wasn't pretty enough for her. He wanted to change, and used Covenant Eyes to help... I don't know your religious beliefs, but he felt that God told him to go forth and help others fight porn addiction... So that's what his band does. Each member represents a different aspect of porn addiction, and their videos exemplify these roles. I´ve had the privilege of hearing him speak twice at some metal concerts I´ve been security at. Really good stuff.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Uwase]
#12051869 - 02/18/10 02:40 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Uwase said: It's oke man, you just need a little help.
This site will help you... http://www.covenanteyes.com/
Also, for added support, check these guys out. http://www.myspace.com/whitecollarsideshow
White Collar Sideshow is a group to advocate internet porn addictiveness. (T), the "Ringleader", was once addicted to porn. It caused many problems in his marital life... It hurt him and those around him... hurt him because of the guilty pig he felt himself to be, and hurt his wife because she felt she wasn't pretty enough for her. He wanted to change, and used Covenant Eyes to help... I don't know your religious beliefs, but he felt that God told him to go forth and help others fight porn addiction... So that's what his band does. Each member represents a different aspect of porn addiction, and their videos exemplify these roles. I´ve had the privilege of hearing him speak twice at some metal concerts I´ve been security at. Really good stuff.
Sounds pretty crappy to me. I can understand that watching too much porn can become a problem for one, especially considering the time matter, but to say that "it hurts those around you" is simply nonsense.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: MushroomTrip]
#12051905 - 02/18/10 03:01 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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This is the best advice I can give:
stop being a little bitch, man up, and have some self-control.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: aghorrorag]
#12052088 - 02/18/10 05:22 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Maybe he could try first to stop feeling ashamed because he likes porn, and then see if he even wants to stop watching it.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: MushroomTrip]
#12052439 - 02/18/10 07:40 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
MushroomTrip said:
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Uwase said: It's oke man, you just need a little help.
This site will help you... http://www.covenanteyes.com/
Also, for added support, check these guys out. http://www.myspace.com/whitecollarsideshow
White Collar Sideshow is a group to advocate internet porn addictiveness. (T), the "Ringleader", was once addicted to porn. It caused many problems in his marital life... It hurt him and those around him... hurt him because of the guilty pig he felt himself to be, and hurt his wife because she felt she wasn't pretty enough for her. He wanted to change, and used Covenant Eyes to help... I don't know your religious beliefs, but he felt that God told him to go forth and help others fight porn addiction... So that's what his band does. Each member represents a different aspect of porn addiction, and their videos exemplify these roles. I´ve had the privilege of hearing him speak twice at some metal concerts I´ve been security at. Really good stuff.
Sounds pretty crappy to me. I can understand that watching too much porn can become a problem for one, especially considering the time matter, but to say that "it hurts those around you" is simply nonsense.
May not hurt those around you, but it sure did for that guy... just giving a bit of background info on him. Yea, a lot of people are going to say to have some self control, just stop it, don't worry about it, but it can be an addiction just like a drug. Something like this is just an alternative option for someone needing an extra push to stop doing something they find is taking up too much of their time and is genuinely annoying him.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Uwase]
#12055552 - 02/18/10 05:31 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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its no big deal mang you are worrying about stuff that doesn't matter
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: zengarden66]
#12057783 - 02/18/10 11:47 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ha, it is badass seeing how everyone approaches this scenario I am in.
I am an atheist which is probably the main reason that that bullshit my parents sent me to didn't work.
I have had a less than favorable relationship trying to believe in god.
I haven't looked at porn since I made this thread....
I just don't want to go back....
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12058025 - 02/19/10 01:03 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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take some pride in your self-will, if you set a goal for yourself, and you can't live up to it. you let yourself down, your pride is shot. believe in your power. you don't need anything. free yourself of whatever is holding you back. man up. do it. live it.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12058212 - 02/19/10 02:07 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Anonymous said:
I do work out 3 times a week, and I play music daily. It's not often that looking at porn gets in the way of my real life, but occasionally it will.
wow you sound a lot like me. except im 28, live at home with my parents and still watch porn pretty much every day.
i feel good after jerking off though.
think its a mental thing man. try to get off by fantasizing instead. yeah having a girl is better, but when you dont have that option, you gotta do something. shit. i still jerked off every day even when i had a girlfriend.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12058740 - 02/19/10 08:20 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Plug the plug on the PC. Destroy what porn you have, try your best to stay away.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: rod]
#12058757 - 02/19/10 08:25 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Brilliant, just like christian education!
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12059332 - 02/19/10 10:35 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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i think you would be best off if you just accepted that looking at porn is something you like to do and stop trying to force yourself to change. you said it doesn't really interfere with your life, so fuck it. once you get married or in a serious relationship, the rate that you wax your carrot will decrease rapidly due to: a) the abundance of easily available pussy and b) the reduction in your privacy to watch porn on a regular basis. when/if you have kids, your beating-off-to-porn days will decline to near non-existent rates all by itself without you having to force yourself to stop. so my advice is to just accept your habit as a phase in your life - enjoy it while it's here and stop feeling guilty about it.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: MushroomTrip]
#12059478 - 02/19/10 11:23 AM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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MushroomTrip said: Brilliant, just like christian education!
well I did not have any better advice, I myself love porn and probably download maybe 3gbs a day and move to my PS3 to watch on the 40" LCD.
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Re: Can't stop looking at porn..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12065989 - 02/20/10 03:11 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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iunno. I love porn. I'm not an assertive enough person to score any girl that appeals to me, I just score girls that I appeal to enough to approach me, and it always ends up being some dumbass that 90% of the time I'd be having more fun with jacking off to a hot chick that fucks professionaly.
I'm sure if I ever got a girlfriend that I actually was into, I'd be more into sex than porn, though. Many couples like to fuck to porn, too.
Edited by CMACD (02/20/10 03:11 PM)
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